Guys that message you and find you hot, ever shocked?

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    Jan 27, 2008 12:44 PM GMT
    As much as I like to think I am broadminded and dont typecast I am shocked, and indeed flattered, by some of the guys that message me Im hot or take an interest.

    I guess we all stereotype to a degree or assume based on appearance, but I can honestly say I don't have a type.

    Im not after naming people here by anyone but has anyone else thought hell didnt think that person would be into me????
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    Jan 27, 2008 12:51 PM GMT
    I can appreciate where you are coming from .. in this way: It takes a little effort to pick up on the personality of the guy your focusing on on a site like this based on a brief profile and perhaps some interaction via these forums or IM.

    For me personality is so important. I'm amazed how many guys I meet (and physically do nothing for me), but you add a personality and everything changes.

    I know this is a little off the point of your original post... but there are certainly a number of surprises out there.
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    Jan 27, 2008 1:04 PM GMT
    not at all, I agree with you for me personality is everything, and I guess I kinda am shocked as I kinda feel I have been assuming a personality based on a certain look! Me bad!!!!
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    Jan 27, 2008 1:10 PM GMT
    bfg1,
    I'm sure there are plenty more guys who HAVEN'T messaged you and think you're hot. I guess I'm one. icon_wink.gif


  • HndsmKansan

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    Jan 27, 2008 1:11 PM GMT
    That would be a great idea for a new thread...

    Based on look: Typecast the dude above you.. and give a list of 3 or 4 personality types guys can choose from. I wonder how accurate it would be...

    And your not bad....LOL
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    Jan 27, 2008 1:50 PM GMT
    vtorso saidbfg1,
    I'm sure there are plenty more guys who HAVEN'T messaged you and think you're hot. I guess I'm one. icon_wink.gif




    aw shucks thanks pretty cute yourself, I wasnt after having my ego bloated (dont have one) makes it look like it now.

    Was just after others perceptions and interprations of others
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    Jan 27, 2008 3:24 PM GMT
    I'm always shocked to some degree and defintiely flattered when it happens...its a pelasant surprise always....more so when the guy messagin actually takes and interest and wants to have a conversation rather than a striptease on cam
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    Jan 27, 2008 4:47 PM GMT
    Conversation over cam any day....
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    Jan 27, 2008 5:37 PM GMT
    Yeah, especially recently. I have a decent opinion of myself, but some of the guys that have messaged or emailed me recently I would have put into the "window shopping" category while drooling over their profiles. It's sorta like when I see high end German sports cars on the street. Pretty to look at, but beyond my meansicon_lol.gif
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    Jan 27, 2008 5:40 PM GMT
    RBY71 saidI have a decent opinion of myself, but some of the guys that have messaged or emailed me recently I would have put into the "window shopping" category while drooling over their profiles.


    Damn baby you are top notch totty, more of a Bugatti than some feeble German sports car!
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    Jan 27, 2008 5:49 PM GMT
    bfg1 said[quote][cite]RBY71 said[/cite]I have a decent opinion of myself, but some of the guys that have messaged or emailed me recently I would have put into the "window shopping" category while drooling over their profiles.


    Damn baby you are top notch totty, more of a Bugatti than some feeble German sports car![/quote]

    Aww, thats so sweet of ya. I always thought of myself as more of an Acura NSX though. Well crafted, superb handling, but often over looked and under appreciatedicon_lol.gif
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    Jan 27, 2008 5:56 PM GMT
    Kreawiz said2 bfg1

    then, if you'd once have an RJ-message that "you've got harsh, martini_dry sense of humour" - would it be shocking or fluttering? icon_lol.gif


    I think if I did have a martini dry sense of humour I would be flattered that someone else actually got my sense of humour, as most miss out on the subtlety of irony. If however, I thought I was screemingly laugh out loud funny Id have to rethink my weird sense of humour icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Jan 27, 2008 6:00 PM GMT
    A long time ago on AOL (pre cam) a guy struck up a conversation with me. He sent his pic, and I thought - this guy is way too hot to talk to me...

    it was the beginning of a long long relationship - that isn't over yet.

    ;)
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    Jan 27, 2008 6:06 PM GMT
    Kreawiz saidNevertheless, you look like Matthew McConaughey..
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    (just head shaved)


    haha! thanks! I usually get Luke Wilson, but I'll take it!

    I really like this site because on the other ones any complement is a prelude to a request for a booty call. Here it's more comfortable because while being very flirty, observations seem to be more about a genuine appreciation.
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    Jan 27, 2008 6:07 PM GMT
    I have probably recieved 3 IM requests in the time I have been on RJ. The first time I was shocked, not because of the person, but becasue I failed to realize there was an IM feature. My first thought after that happened: SCORE!

    Of the 3 chats I have had they were mostly good conversations. Of the most recent, he went on and on about his infatuation with my looks. I didnt know how to respond. It made me somewhat uncomfortable. Anyone else here ever close off when they start recieving complements of a high regard?
  • liftordie

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    Jan 27, 2008 6:18 PM GMT
    i am always amazed when a hot guy shows interest in me. i guess i still look in the mirror and see the kid who graduated from high school and weighed 150lbs at 6ft tall!! and lets not forget the braces!! LOL
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    Jan 27, 2008 6:20 PM GMT
    Kreawiz saidbfg1,

    a lot of very muscled guys may look very interesting until they open their mouth and say anything icon_confused.gif

    And, actually, no men interested in sense of humour - really, only posh girls do =) LOL

    so, if you can't stand this (or a silent presence of that Adonis later in background) - maybe not to worry or just wait bit longer spending time with posh icon_lol.gif


    I kinda think I get what you are saying, but I wouldnt base a view point on a body Im thinking more of face, expressions and body language. A body is a body be it muscley skinny or fat its just a vessel and tells little about the person

    And posh spice bleurghhhhh! someone drown her quick!
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    Jan 27, 2008 6:24 PM GMT
    Kreawiz saidMikeAlva,

    you are very romantic looking - like Hemmingway probably..


    My God, that is probably the greatest complement I have recieved in a VERY long time.
    -Thank you.icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 27, 2008 6:28 PM GMT
    Kreawiz saidbfg1,
    you mean - drown her and get hands on David? icon_redface.gificon_lol.gif


    lmao wouldnt we all!!!!!! His butts mine get in line bitch :-)

    Sorry we digress
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    Jan 27, 2008 6:32 PM GMT
    Kreawiz saidNo prob! Said as it is.)

    And, an advice on IM - in Opera browser in doesn't work icon_lol.gif
    matter of fact i use Opera 'cause i cant see properly RJ pages in IE7


    I have no idea what your talking abouticon_question.gif
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    Jan 27, 2008 6:58 PM GMT
    Ahhh, got it!

    I like my internet explore! Its fast, friendly and makes billions and billions of fries!
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    Jan 27, 2008 7:41 PM GMT
    If someone super hot shows interest to me online I usually assume someone is using fake pics. icon_sad.gif
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    Jan 27, 2008 10:09 PM GMT
    liftordie saidi am always amazed when a hot guy shows interest in me. i guess i still look in the mirror and see the kid who graduated from high school and weighed 150lbs at 6ft tall!! and lets not forget the braces!! LOL


    Your freaking hot, why wouldn't hot guys show interest in ya!

    To the one who mentioned the over flowing of positive words about there looks.

    I do the same thing, its almost like a turn off when they do that. An occasional compliment here or there is all that I need to be kept interested hahaha plus its more fun and has a bigger impact when they do that!

    On the topic though, when a hot guy shows interest in me, I assume hes just wanting to get to know me, the guys I find hot seem to never tell me they think I'm hot. But then I find so many people I meet hot once I get to know them!
  • liftordie

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    Jan 27, 2008 10:46 PM GMT
    thanks tanker!!
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    Jan 27, 2008 11:04 PM GMT
    PSBigJoey saidA long time ago on AOL (pre cam) a guy struck up a conversation with me. He sent his pic, and I thought - this guy is way too hot to talk to me...

    it was the beginning of a long long relationship - that isn't over yet.

    ;)


    Sweetest thing I've read all day.

    I am also in the camp of "surprised by most people who message me with compliments." I always have to doubt it, though, because I wonder how much of that is based on the fact that we all to some degree are picking and choosing the best of what we think of ourselves for our profiles. I wonder to what degree there's a selection bias going on.