GIVE UP KISSING? NEVER!

  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Apr 23, 2010 12:59 AM GMT
    So your boyfriend says to you, "Arjay, babe, I'm going to give you a choice, you can either give up fucking/being fucked, or you can give up kissing. The choice is yours."

    Just before breaking up with him, I'd elect (momentarily) to give up fucking/being fucked, because kissing is essential. It simply is THE most erotic physical contact possible in my book. Even in porn, nothing gets the juices flowing for me like hot guys kissing. In fact, that's the best part of most porn (okay...cum shots are hot, but kissing...hell yeah!)

    Still, some jocks write about being not so into kissing "Oh, I don't kiss much." or "Yeah, it's okay, but I don't like it that much."

    I can't imagine anything hotter, and it's the only way to make an entrance or an exit, and a start or a finish. Long, deep, beard-burned lip locks that come close to being lung collapsing, grab your ears and, as I like to say "broke back reunion kiss the cum out of you" lip chapping all night long kissing. Fuck fucking, if need be. I'll take the kiss.

    You?
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    Apr 23, 2010 1:01 AM GMT
    Wow, another assumption that all gay guys fuck. Well, I guess I'd give up fucking, cause I won't be losing anything. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 23, 2010 1:04 AM GMT
    ....you know, Vic, if I'd been paying attention I'd have heard that train coming. But then again, maybe not, because in order to hear a whistle, it has to blow.
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    Apr 23, 2010 1:06 AM GMT
    Well I can’t kiss myself…so yeah, the fucking would go.
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    Apr 23, 2010 1:08 AM GMT
    MuscleComeBack said....you know, Vic, if I'd been paying attention I'd have heard that train coming. But then again, maybe not, because in order to hear a whistle, it has to blow.
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  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Apr 23, 2010 1:14 AM GMT
    I can't babe, we've elected for kissing. To which, I'm happy to oblige...icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 23, 2010 1:40 AM GMT
    MuscleComeBack saidI can't babe, we've elected for kissing. To which, I'm happy to oblige...icon_cool.gif


    Yeah, but after we kiss you'll still want to fuck. You will say that you don't need it, until a month into the relationship when you'll shout "Oh, I just love this abstaining from fucking, it makes me so horny." And I'll wonder why you're saying that. Then you'll say "I love this holding off." And then I'll say "I told you I don't do that." And then you'll say "Why, have you never tried?"

    Then we will go on a trip to Chicago and I will come down with the stomach flu and we will get on a plane a day early to get home. You'll tell me to go home and get better cause you don't care that I am ill, you just want me to go away cause you are realizing we will never fuck. Then we'll break up.

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    Oct 13, 2011 3:07 PM GMT
    This is bugging me and I need some advice here.

    I have been in a relationship with a guy for over two years. We are both very much under the radar and not out to anyone at all, even our families. We are both in our forties and new to this thing, i.e. man to man sex/relationships, etc.

    When we first got together we were both like kids who discovered a new toy but I am the more emotional and 'gushy' one and I put it more into words than he did. He did not like this. He even warned me never to say "I love you" as that 'creeped him out'. I complied and have toned down the gushy stuff completely as he is such an awesome dude and worth it. Although he loves getting little gifts and stuff from me. He was also very resistant to kissing at first. After about six months he gave in and the kissing happened for about a year (not continuously, ha ha) and then he just put a stop to it. (He never seemed really enthusiastic about it, but gave it a good go, and I loved it while it lasted). He is quite a manly guy, if that matters.

    Here are some facts about our relationship. Please check them out and then just give me your opinion (as guys who have been doing this longer than we have) as to (1) what do you think his feelings are towards me? and (2) why doesn't he want to kiss? (Sorry this seems 'needy' but I'd really appreciate 'educated opinions')

    Facts:
    - we have rampant and adventurous monkey sex about twice a week (we do everything and anything except for a couple things he WON'T do - he will penetrate me but he won't come inside me, except for in my mouth, he won't let me come inside him or in his mouth, although I can penetrate him, and he won't kiss!)
    - these sessions can go on for hours (literally)
    - we cuddle and caress a LOT - he is very affectionate
    - we exchange naked pics of each other by cell phone, even two years on
    - we eat out and do stuff together (business, movies, coffees, etc)
    - he phones me sometimes three or four times a day and often speaks up to 20 mins
    - he can spend hours on WhatsApp or Skype chatting to me
    - he texts me just to say 'hello'
    - he is a very busy guy with several businesses and commitments but makes time for us to spend time together.

    I kind of think he has deep feelings for me but he won't say. What do you think they are? I am definitely in love. But do you think he is? And what the hell is up with the kissing????

    Any responses would be welcome...
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    Oct 13, 2011 3:21 PM GMT
    First of all JonathanKelly, way to hijack the thread.

    Sounds like he has intimacy issues. A lot of guys who are not ok with being gay will bang guys, but never kiss. It makes them feel less gay. I would have dropped him long ago because that's just weird

    Back to original topic:

    I could never give up kissing. It is literally my favorite thing ever. Sex can get outta here as long as kissing and cuddle stay.
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    Oct 13, 2011 9:26 PM GMT
    With the exception of being invited as his +1 to cocktail parties to meet the co-workers and be introduced to family, kissing is the most important part of any relationship for me. Guys that are terrible at kissing are not worth an investment of feelings - they are not going to get better at it no matter how many times you put it on their to-do list icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 13, 2011 9:33 PM GMT
    kissing is so important. when the kissing stops the distance grows between you two... from my experience both girls and guys. its really difficult to stop kissing and then months go by and the kissing starts up and its awkard. never give up kissing.