Cougar-dom

  • xebec75

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    Apr 23, 2010 4:01 PM GMT
    Hi all,

    This question is geared for people in or interested in relationships with an age difference (6 or more years) where the older member of the duo is the bottom. I'm in my 30's and keep meeting these great younger guys and wanted some advice on the ins and outs of dating younger tops.

    I have a feeling a lot of the issues I have are with gay male culture being fixated on the daddy/son - young=bottom mentality that makes me a little insecure when I'm with a younger top. Does anyone else have similar issues?

    Thanks :-)
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    Apr 23, 2010 8:22 PM GMT
    It works both ways. Young tops are just as intimidated by you as you are by them. Still, there is a hell of a lot of fun to be had by both.

    Leave the baggage at the door and there is plenty of fun to be had all around.
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    Apr 24, 2010 12:51 AM GMT
    I thought cougar refers to older women only? The term for you would be chicken-hawk or cradle-robber. icon_twisted.gif
  • Crucializer

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    Apr 24, 2010 12:56 AM GMT
    I was seeing a younger guy ... my ex called me a 'pink panther' ... swell!! hahah!
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    Apr 24, 2010 1:13 AM GMT
    I am seeing a 26 year old now, and I honestly don't have a clue why he is interested at all, but I really don't care. And he is a top. I just assume that everyone is a top. LOL
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    Apr 24, 2010 1:45 AM GMT
    which gay university did you go to? did you skip "don't listen to what others say about sex 101"?