I keep attracting Feminine Guys...

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    Apr 24, 2010 3:21 PM GMT
    I keep attracting feminine dudes and I don't know why. Thoughts?
  • Bunjamon

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    Apr 24, 2010 3:26 PM GMT
    I think you need to provide a little more information. Are you hanging out backstage at a drag club or are you cruising at construction sites? You're going to meet very different types of guys depending on where you go.

    Plus, the rules of human attraction aren't like the laws of physics. There is no logical explanation why the guys who have shown interest in you lately are, as you describe, more effeminate.
  • Celticmusl

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    Apr 24, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    yoo hoo!

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    Apr 24, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    *standard RJ argument no 5.*

    blah....blah....blah, what's wrong with fem guys, why can't we all love and be happy...and dance in the sunshine. Why can't you respect my choice to wear lipstick and a dress....


    In real life though

    You look kind of cute and boyish, you could try butching it up a little in your look and behavior, interests etc



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    Apr 24, 2010 3:30 PM GMT
    wow, I'm jealous. You are attracting guys. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Celticmusl

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    Apr 24, 2010 3:37 PM GMT
    MsclDrew said*standard RJ argument no 5.*

    blah....blah....blah, what's wrong with fem guys, why can't we all love and be happy...and dance in the sunshine. Why can't you respect my choice to wear lipstick and a dress....


    In real life though

    You look kind of cute and boyish, you could try butching it up a little in your look and behavior, interests etc





    Butching it up the right way:

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    Apr 24, 2010 3:44 PM GMT
    MsclDrew said*standard RJ argument no 5.*

    blah....blah....blah, what's wrong with fem guys, why can't we all love and be happy...and dance in the sunshine. Why can't you respect my choice to wear lipstick and a dress....


    In real life though

    You look kind of cute and boyish, you could try butching it up a little in your look and behavior, interests etc





    I have no issue with fem guys per se...Just curious why I attract them. I am too close to this issue to be objective.

    Unfortunately, I do look young so I do have a goatee to attempt to look my age. Also, I dress like all my guy friends, all my friends are guys(straight) and I am not in the scene. I have a degree in agronomy for G-ds sake lol. I am str8 acting and I wonder if thats why I keep attracting more conventionally gay men.

    I meet these guys in my daily dealings here at MSU to answer somebody else.
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    Apr 24, 2010 3:46 PM GMT
    MsclDrew said*standard RJ argument no 5.*

    blah....blah....blah, what's wrong with fem guys, why can't we all love and be happy...and dance in the sunshine. Why can't you respect my choice to wear lipstick and a dress....


    In real life though

    You look kind of cute and boyish, you could try butching it up a little in your look and behavior, interests etc





    dance in the sunshine.. really? icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 24, 2010 3:55 PM GMT
    The videos did give me a good laugh.
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    Apr 24, 2010 4:14 PM GMT
    Change your: gay.com, Mancunt, Adam 4 Adam profile, from str8-acting to feminine—problem solved.
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    Apr 24, 2010 4:18 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidChange your: gay.com, Mancunt, Adam 4 Adam profile, from str8-acting to feminine—problem solved.


    LOL Thanks!

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    Apr 24, 2010 5:04 PM GMT
    stop laying fertilizer on them and start weeding them out... 2-4D perhaps.
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    Apr 24, 2010 7:27 PM GMT
    agri_sci saidI keep attracting feminine dudes and I don't know why. Thoughts?


    I use to and at times still have that prob. My voice is usually the 1st honing device the second was my behavior. I'd say pursue more of what you want and don't wait to be approached.
  • Delivis

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    Apr 24, 2010 11:52 PM GMT
    I attract masculine women..icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 25, 2010 4:42 AM GMT
    isn't it funny, when a guy isn't attracting others interested, they bitch and moan about it and when they attract guys they bitch that it isn't the right kinda guy.. can't ever just be happy..
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    Apr 25, 2010 4:48 AM GMT
    Delivis saidI attract masculine women..icon_smile.gif

    Rawr.
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    Apr 25, 2010 7:08 AM GMT
    maybe because they find you attractive???

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    Apr 25, 2010 3:34 PM GMT
    agri_sci saidI keep attracting feminine dudes and I don't know why. Thoughts?
    Maybe it's your good looks. Maybe it's Maybelline.
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    Apr 25, 2010 3:37 PM GMT
    Delivis saidI attract masculine women..icon_smile.gif


    GRRRLS!
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    Apr 25, 2010 3:39 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidisn't it funny, when a guy isn't attracting others interested, they bitch and moan about it and when they attract guys they bitch that it isn't the right kinda guy.. can't ever just be happy..


    Amen! Be happy ppl notice you is all!!
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    Apr 25, 2010 3:40 PM GMT
    so you rather fap everyday then trying to get laid? o.O
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    Apr 25, 2010 3:42 PM GMT
    What's agronomy?
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    Apr 25, 2010 3:47 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidWhat's agronomy?
    Sex with only agriculturalists.
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    Apr 25, 2010 3:49 PM GMT
    Delivis saidI attract masculine women..icon_smile.gif

    Ha ha Delivis - you are too much!! LOL
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    Apr 25, 2010 3:56 PM GMT
    agri_sci saidI keep attracting feminine dudes and I don't know why. Thoughts?


    Judging by your profile photos you are fit, and have an approachable/attractive look (the shade of your blond hair is VERY beautiful).

    I’d say there isn’t an intimidation factor with you. Most big, butch guys keep only the bravest “fems” at a distance. Based on my experience in the world (especially RJ), there is no telling how one butch guy may react to a less-than-butch guy hitting on him, so “fems" keep their distance.

    It’s all good! Approachability is a great quality to have. It’s good to read that you don’t have a problem with feminine guys. Some guys respond with abject disgust over them. And you are attracting guys! It’s better than being ignored.