Question for the bottoms...

  • vivavideo13

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    Apr 26, 2010 9:18 PM GMT
    I was wondering if there are any tips, tricks, or techniques to keep from cumming so quickly during sex when you are bottoming.

    My boyfriend and I love making love (who doesn’t) but whenever we do he cums really easily. It only takes a few minutes of me being inside him before he cums. Sometimes I just have to push in all the way once and he'll cum. Although it is extremely hot to know that I’m pleasing him so much and that I am able to make him cum we both would like to have longer sessions of intimate sex before he cums and ultimately we want to be able to cum together. Usually he cums 3 or 4 times before I do but It takes a little time for him to recoup before we start to go at it again.

    So that's the situation, was just wondering if any bottoms out there have any advice, maybe it just needs time, he has told me that it feels really tight when we have sex so maybe he needs to be stretched out more? maybe there is a position he would enjoy that would keep him from cumming but still feel really good?

    Thanks for the help



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    Apr 26, 2010 9:24 PM GMT

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    Apr 26, 2010 11:47 PM GMT
    Holy crap!

    You're lucky he cums so much. Maybe have him jerk off more often so he doesn't cum as fast.
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    Apr 27, 2010 12:12 AM GMT
    If he cums that much, is it really a problem?

    Maybe switch positions so you don't stimulate his prostate as much?

  • Timbales

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    Apr 27, 2010 12:16 AM GMT
    Try different positions, change it up. Let him be on top, try from behind, or on his stomach.

    You can also try doing things to get him off, like blowing him while fingering him, try getting him use to the stimulation a bit.
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    Apr 27, 2010 12:29 AM GMT
    ummm.... Don't stop?????
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:25 AM GMT
    What is making him cum? If it is his hands, grab those boys hands and pull them behind his back. If he is rubbing up against the sheets, flip him on his back so he gets no friction. If it is a no contact, hands free orgasm... then, my dear, you have a thing of beauty on your hands and just enjoy it.
  • vivavideo13

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    Apr 28, 2010 1:26 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidWhat is making him cum? If it is his hands, grab those boys hands and pull them behind his back. If he is rubbing up against the sheets, flip him on his back so he gets no friction. If it is a no contact, hands free orgasm... then, my dear, you have a thing of beauty on your hands and just enjoy it.


    haha, yeah, I cant complain, its is usually hands free when it does happen. Its just it happens so fast and he needs to take a break after, guess it will just take him more getting used to me inside him so more practice I suppose icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 28, 2010 1:29 AM GMT
    wow hands free...that is awesome that he is able to cum that way so quickly. Either you are the best top ever or he has the most sensitive prostate in the history of the world

    Maybe try a different position
  • Timbales

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    Apr 28, 2010 1:30 AM GMT
    I envy him.
  • vivavideo13

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    Apr 28, 2010 3:52 AM GMT
    Rujock saidwow hands free...that is awesome that he is able to cum that way so quickly. Either you are the best top ever or he has the most sensitive prostate in the history of the world

    Maybe try a different position


    looks like we should try switching it up, he loves in on his side and on his back with his legs up. Him on top desnt work either, he just shoots all over me. We could try him on all fours but he doesnt like it that way, but thre are a ton out there to use so we'll find somthing.

    I thinks he is just really sensitive, wish it felt as good for me!

    thanks for all the replies thus far guys!
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    Apr 28, 2010 6:40 AM GMT
    I have no advice.


    I'm weak in the knees right now.