I keep attracting tops

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    Apr 27, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
    Whenever I go out I have this tendency to attract guys that like to top, and they feel that they need to tell me this whenever I meet them. I'm tired of people saying stuff like that to me whenever I am out in public places. I don't dress suggestively or anything or talk about anything that would be even remotely close to a sexual innuendo. I don't understand. I'm tired of that and I just want to people to not tell me that.

    Have any of you guys had that problem? icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 1:43 AM GMT
    Soulasphyx saidWhenever I go out I have this tendency to attract guys that like to top, and they feel that they need to tell me this whenever I meet them. I'm tired of people saying stuff like that to me whenever I am out in public places. I don't dress suggestively or anything or talk about anything that would be even remotely close to a sexual innuendo. I don't understand. I'm tired of that and I just want to people to not tell me that.

    Have any of you guys had that problem? icon_sad.gif


    All the time. I suspect it's just because I'm Asian. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 1:45 AM GMT
    jeffy87 said
    Soulasphyx saidWhenever I go out I have this tendency to attract guys that like to top, and they feel that they need to tell me this whenever I meet them. I'm tired of people saying stuff like that to me whenever I am out in public places. I don't dress suggestively or anything or talk about anything that would be even remotely close to a sexual innuendo. I don't understand. I'm tired of that and I just want to people to not tell me that.

    Have any of you guys had that problem? icon_sad.gif


    All the time. I suspect it's just because I'm Asian. icon_rolleyes.gif
    I don't understand why people would want to tell you that because you're Asian. This is such a terrible world we live in! icon_surprised.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 1:45 AM GMT
    Not exactly like your predicament, but I have had people share waaaaay too much information about themselves. I can understand how it could be distressing. icon_sad.gif
  • jgymnast733

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    Apr 27, 2010 2:11 AM GMT
    Well i guess these guys feel the need to let potential partners know the deal, its a bummer once you get home and its not a match,,so i'v been told...but your so cute i'd surrender to your every whim.icon_wink.gif
    And, yes i get told that alot too, but its all good.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:19 AM GMT
    Soulasphyx said
    jeffy87 said
    Soulasphyx saidWhenever I go out I have this tendency to attract guys that like to top, and they feel that they need to tell me this whenever I meet them. I'm tired of people saying stuff like that to me whenever I am out in public places. I don't dress suggestively or anything or talk about anything that would be even remotely close to a sexual innuendo. I don't understand. I'm tired of that and I just want to people to not tell me that.

    Have any of you guys had that problem? icon_sad.gif


    All the time. I suspect it's just because I'm Asian. icon_rolleyes.gif
    I don't understand why people would want to tell you that because you're Asian. This is such a terrible world we live in! icon_surprised.gif


    It might have something to do with gay Asian men being stereotyped to be submissive. How that stereotype compels some gay men to think "I should let him know up front that we're sexually compatible because I'm a top"...I'll never know.
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:28 AM GMT
    I coulda sworn this was a parody thread. icon_wink.gif
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Apr 27, 2010 2:31 AM GMT
    nope - never had this problem. A lot of gay guys I know don't really 'reveal' this info about themselves out in public... even with other gay guys around...
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:33 AM GMT
    Somebody should come up with some sort of code
    Like maybe a blue hankie in either the left or right back pocket,, that would end all this guesswork
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:47 AM GMT
    beneful1 saidSomebody should come up with some sort of code
    Like maybe a blue hankie in either the left or right back pocket,, that would end all this guesswork
    Or arm bands on left, right, or both arms to depict top, bottom, or vers.

    Just don't wear the yellow or red hankies unless you're sure you want to. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 4:48 AM GMT
    I'd like a few tops like that to come my way, I attract bottoms... fabulously awesome bottoms who can make me squeal but ya know... we all need a good toppping every once in a while.
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    Apr 27, 2010 5:03 AM GMT
    like honey attracting flies and thinking " why am i attracting flies..there's nothing about me suggesting i'm sweet or anything..". :p
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    Apr 27, 2010 6:55 AM GMT
    I've always attracted tops. Methinks its likely because I'm slender and flexible. It seems tops prefer slimmer men (of course not all of them). Maybe put on 40 pounds of muscle and you'll be attracting them lil' twinks.
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    Apr 27, 2010 6:56 AM GMT
    Parody thread.
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    Apr 27, 2010 8:41 AM GMT
    Soulasphyx said
    Have any of you guys had that problem? icon_sad.gif


    A few times. I just turned 'em into bottoms icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 11:47 AM GMT
    Soulasphyx saidWhenever I go out I have this tendency to attract guys that like to top, and they feel that they need to tell me this whenever I meet them. I'm tired of people saying stuff like that to me whenever I am out in public places. I don't dress suggestively or anything or talk about anything that would be even remotely close to a sexual innuendo. I don't understand. I'm tired of that and I just want to people to not tell me that.

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    Shut up and bend over! icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 11:57 AM GMT
    viveutvivas said
    Soulasphyx saidWhenever I go out I have this tendency to attract guys that like to top, and they feel that they need to tell me this whenever I meet them. I'm tired of people saying stuff like that to me whenever I am out in public places. I don't dress suggestively or anything or talk about anything that would be even remotely close to a sexual innuendo. I don't understand. I'm tired of that and I just want to people to not tell me that.

    Have any of you guys had that problem? icon_sad.gif


    Shut up and bend over! icon_wink.gif



    You stole my line.
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:00 PM GMT
    ...well, better to attract tops than yo-yos. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:07 PM GMT
    Maybe they're telling you that they're tops because you come off as being masculine and top-ish yourself and they want to figure out up front if it's a match or not? Just a guess. I agree with you, tho...strange for that to come up in early, casual conversation. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:09 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidParody thread.


    Yes

    we now know where all the tops are.
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:11 PM GMT
    They all say they are tops when I first attract them... they prove to be bottoms in the end.
  • Celticmusl

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    Apr 27, 2010 2:11 PM GMT
    This happened to me last weekend:



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    Apr 27, 2010 2:14 PM GMT
    beneful1 saidSomebody should come up with some sort of code
    Like maybe a blue hankie in either the left or right back pocket,, that would end all this guesswork


    What's a hankie?
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:25 PM GMT

    Well..... Kids say the darnedest things whether they are 6, 16, 26, 36, 47:rollicon_surprised.gifr 76..

    What they say they do and what they end up doing are usually different!

    But more important are they attractive witty charming and have something between the ears that would make you find out.

    If not chalk it up to bad breeding icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:25 PM GMT
    "You're the little spoon right?"
    This question always makes me laugh.