Dumbest come on you ever had...

  • bennyboo

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    Apr 27, 2010 8:12 AM GMT
    Whats the dumbes come on you ever had??? so the other day i was working and i was in the bathroom at the urinal and some older asian guy starts talking to me out of no where....so it went something like this...you work here??? umm yes.. U like it?? its a job... do u go to school....umm ya.... now i go to wash to my hands he follows..... you know what u should be?? what should i be??? now im getting ready to walk out while hes getting closer to me...not good...you should be a teacher cuz ur so beatiful to look at and you talk nice..... i just looked at him like ok...and walked out.... what made it worst is he followed me back to my register and just stayed there for a mintue just looking at me while i was helping customers...totally freaked me out and even the customers were looking at him all werid like WTF r u doing....icon_exclaim.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 12:43 PM GMT
    Attractive person = welcome come on
    Unattractive person = creepy unwanted sexual advance

    In reality, that's the only difference. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 12:51 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidAttractive person = welcome come on
    Unattractive person = creepy unwanted sexual advance

    In reality, that's the only difference. icon_wink.gif

    Not true.
    Imagine this scenario which we've all been though at one time or another: you're in a gay club and some attractive guy comes up and starts talking to you. At first you're excited but you quickly realize he's 1) drunk 2) on some drug or 3) both.
    Case closed.
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    Apr 27, 2010 12:55 PM GMT
    TexDef07 said
    paulflexes saidAttractive person = welcome come on
    Unattractive person = creepy unwanted sexual advance

    In reality, that's the only difference. icon_wink.gif

    Not true.
    Imagine this scenario which we've all been though at one time or another: you're in a gay club and some attractive guy comes up and starts talking to you. At first you're excited but you quickly realize he's 1) drunk 2) on some drug or 3) both.
    Case closed.
    Oh, that's so true.
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    Apr 27, 2010 12:58 PM GMT
    TexDef07 said
    paulflexes saidAttractive person = welcome come on
    Unattractive person = creepy unwanted sexual advance

    In reality, that's the only difference. icon_wink.gif

    Not true.
    Imagine this scenario which we've all been though at one time or another: you're in a gay club and some attractive guy comes up and starts talking to you. At first you're excited but you quickly realize he's 1) drunk 2) on some drug or 3) both.
    Case closed.
    Read the words in bold.
    Case closed. icon_wink.gif
  • AMATHOS

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    Apr 27, 2010 1:00 PM GMT
    haven't been approached in so long can't even remember ...icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 1:03 PM GMT
    TexDef07 said
    paulflexes saidAttractive person = welcome come on
    Unattractive person = creepy unwanted sexual advance

    In reality, that's the only difference. icon_wink.gif

    Not true.
    Imagine this scenario which we've all been though at one time or another: you're in a gay club and some attractive guy comes up and starts talking to you. At first you're excited but you quickly realize he's 1) drunk 2) on some drug or 3) both.
    Case closed.


    LOL Such a good point. Also less likely to remember your face or the conversation. I had a few friends who experienced this and of course was offended. As long as they had a good time... right?icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 1:04 PM GMT
    It was a cute advance until he said: "Hey, everyone at this party is a nerd. You wanna go do some special K in my car?"

    Special K... not just for breakfast anymore?
  • Midas426

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    Apr 27, 2010 1:08 PM GMT
    LOL being drunk or stoned might've been the only way that person had the nerve to talk to a guy in the bar. With that said I'd probably be offended too. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 1:24 PM GMT
    I get that too at work. Some guy will start talking about anything out of nowhere and hang around the counter while I'm serving customers and I'm thinking, JEEZ! MOVE OUT OF THE WAY SO THE LADY CAN PAY FOR HER VIBRATOR!!!!! Now some of the guys only come in to talk to me icon_rolleyes.gif
  • roiobo

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    Apr 27, 2010 1:29 PM GMT
    Fair enough, but if he was white (or black), would you mention his race? If so, why? Just saying. Think about it.
  • gumbosolo

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    Apr 27, 2010 1:55 PM GMT
    If a really attractive guy approached me at a urinal and told me I should be a teacher because I was so beautiful and nice to listen to, I would not consider him relationship material. That would be a clear case of too much too soon and Adonis needs to back off.
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    Apr 27, 2010 1:58 PM GMT
    Alright, I'll play. 1987...

    In a bar. Four guys standing behind me at a table. One of them walks up to me and says (nearly yelling), "I want to suck your ass right through your jeans." grabs my head on both sides and opens his mouth wide enough to take in an entire dinner, plate and all, in an attempt to kiss me.

    I dropped down in a crouch while his arms tried to grab and missed. His friends had him at that point and one said the guy was just really drunk.

    ha. And ha.

    -Doug
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:02 PM GMT
    Ha ha. The last "come on" I remember involved tissues!
  • gumbosolo

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    Apr 27, 2010 2:03 PM GMT
    Wow, Doug . . . you're what's for dinner . . . that's incredible.
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    Apr 27, 2010 2:28 PM GMT
    lol, It was awful, gumbo. I had to squeeze past this groper to get down the narrow stairs to the main part of the bar when I realized he was determined even after what happened.

    heheh, that was 23 years ago. These days I think I'd be more of a dog's breakfast than a dinner. icon_lol.gif

    -Doug
  • gumbosolo

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    Apr 27, 2010 2:32 PM GMT
    But you made it! There's something evolutionarily advantageous about being able to disappear, be it in a crowd or under a table.
  • Celticmusl

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    Apr 27, 2010 2:38 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidAttractive person = welcome come on
    Unattractive person = creepy unwanted sexual advance

    In reality, that's the only difference. icon_wink.gif



    This is your reality. This is how you value attractiveness. This has nothing to do with how I feel about attractiveness. You are basically projecting your values on everyone else.

    If some very attractive guy comes up to me with a "come on line" that is offensive I would quickly consider it creepy and unwanted.

    Some incredibly hot looking guy that I was mutually checking out at a bar for half the night ("dark Irish", nice dark beard, 6'3", deep blue eyes, nice smile) comes up to me later in the night and says "I think I'm about done with this place, let's go get our rocks off at my place." He didn't even introduce himself. Yeah, I thought he was really creepy at that point. Even though I was polite with my reply, he still told me to "fuck off".

    Oh yeah, and he didn't leave the bar. Later and still later that night as he got more and more trashed he would tell me to eff off while his buddies would be trying to drag his drunk ass away.
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    Apr 27, 2010 3:23 PM GMT
    A very attractive guy once came up to me and proceeded to kiss me without introducing himself. I sucker-punched him in the gut, not hard but enough to stop him from getting too close.

    I said, "Let me tell you how it works. 'My name is John'" and stuck out my hand. He took my hand, pulled me in and would you believe it, tried to kiss me AGAIN!

    What a dumb f*ck.

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    Apr 27, 2010 4:01 PM GMT
    bigeasydude saidA very attractive guy once came up to me and proceeded to kiss me without introducing himself. I sucker-punched him in the gut, not hard but enough to stop him from getting too close.

    I said, "Let me tell you how it works. 'My name is John'" and stuck out my hand. He took my hand, pulled me in and would you believe it, tried to kiss me AGAIN!

    What a dumb f*ck.

    Maybe you should trade screennames with him. icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 4:31 PM GMT
    Well I told a guy when I was completely sober: I dont want this night to end without me saying hello to you.. It was a crowded area and I got a real good wink and look from him after I said that... I leaned back in and told him I would be back in a few minutes to chat.

    With this, he stayed there for a little while as I was showing a friend around.
    Then we went to find him and did. Introduced ourselves, and he was a little intoxicated. I could see what he was interested in. However; I left with my friend and followed up later with him.

    Fast forward 2 weeks. I have been out of town, and will see him on a one-on-one environment setting this thursday. We'll see if the same attention is given.

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    Apr 27, 2010 4:35 PM GMT
    Random dude: So who are you here with?

    Me: my boyfriend

    Random dude: He's a lucky man. Do you want to hook up?
  • MykeY

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    Apr 27, 2010 4:38 PM GMT
    roiobo saidFair enough, but if he was white (or black), would you mention his race? If so, why? Just saying. Think about it.


    same question for you on my end.

    Guy: that's a nice shirt, where did you get it?
    Me: Threadless, it's a really cool website online.
    Guy: I can't hear you, can I see the tag?
    [shows tag[
    I can't see it, can you take off your shirt?

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    Apr 27, 2010 4:41 PM GMT
    Never had a dumb come on...well, never really had a come on if you some to think of it...oh well.
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    Apr 27, 2010 4:43 PM GMT
    Damn......a few times a guy came out of nowhere and starts touching my face and "tracing" the outlines of my lips and face.

    wasn't sure if I was flattered or freaked out.

    when I took his fingers off my face, they landed on my thighs and crotch.

    hot ot not.........it freaked me out again.

    Ummmm...call the bouncer please...we have a situation.