Gay, but no longer interested in men

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    Apr 28, 2010 5:28 PM GMT
    Is it possible to identify as gay but no longer find yourself sexually attracted to men? As I've gotten older, I've noticed that my attraction to the possibility of sex with men has all but completely decreased, to the point where I don't find men sexually stimulating at all, but am still romantically attracted to them (obviously, because I'm gay). So, does this work?
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    Apr 28, 2010 5:33 PM GMT
    If that's how you feel, then it works imo.

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    Apr 28, 2010 5:39 PM GMT
    yes its like straight older men might still be attracted romantically to women, but no longer have any interest sexually towards them. Its common
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    Apr 28, 2010 5:40 PM GMT
    sacredgranola saidIs it possible to identify as gay but no longer find yourself sexually attracted to men? As I've gotten older, I've noticed that my attraction to the possibility of sex with men has all but completely decreased, to the point where I don't find men sexually stimulating at all, but am still romantically attracted to them (obviously, because I'm gay). So, does this work?


    Well... as you get older you could either become less sexually charged or more sexually charged (depends on the person from my experiences). It doesn't make you any more or less gay, it just means your sex drive has decreased. No biggie =D
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    Apr 28, 2010 6:16 PM GMT
    Perhaps you should talk to your doctor about your testosterone levels, just a thought.
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    Apr 28, 2010 6:17 PM GMT
    of course, same way im straight but no longer interested in women...

    jk
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    Apr 28, 2010 6:20 PM GMT
    beneful1 saidPerhaps you should talk to your doctor about your testosterone levels, just a thought.


    But I don't see it as an unhealthy or negative thing. I just wasn't sure if the title "gay" still applied entirely.
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    Apr 28, 2010 7:15 PM GMT
    Nope, you're not gay anymore. You must hand over your gay card to the nearest GLBT representative ASAP. Thank you for your participation and cooperation. icon_razz.gif