G-Rated and Gay?

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    Apr 28, 2010 6:23 PM GMT
    So there is this guy I'd had my eye on for almost 4 years...Different age, different friends, different everything...I'd only met him once through work and by chance I ran into him years later and courageously struck up a conversation. I didn't even know that he was gay until months after that...(he says he's bisexual, but that's for another topic post)

    We became friends and started hanging out occasionally over the course of six months, strictly platonic. Then one long night, after a few drinks and great conversation, we kissed...For me it was a great kiss, 4-5 years in the making...I was totally satisfied with it (whether or not it happens again). And no, one leg did not lift from the ground as I kissed him, LOL.

    But when I told my friends about the whole experience (how I originally met the guy, reunited with him, became friends and eventually kissed) all they could say was: "That's it?"

    They expected stories of smut, dirt, debauchery, acrobatic sex...X-Rated stuff.

    Admittedly, my story was very G-Rated.

    And admittedly, my story could be X-Rated and condensed to one night for some guys: "There was this guy I had my eye on in the club for almost 4 minutes, by chance ran into him at the bar, struck up a conversation, after a few drinks, we fucked..."

    Maybe that makes me a boring and lame romantic, but a night that doesn't end with porn-like sex is not a wasted night to me...

    Topic Questions: Do you think I should have pushed for more than just a kiss? Also, does anyone else have any "G-Rated" stories to share for those that are interested?
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    Apr 28, 2010 9:00 PM GMT
    Nothing wrong with that.

    Heck, most of my life is G-rated. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 28, 2010 9:52 PM GMT
    Indy404 said
    Topic Questions: Do you think I should have pushed for more than just a kiss?
    I don't know how well you can ready body language, so I can't accurately answer that.

    Indy404 saidAlso, does anyone else have any "G-Rated" stories to share for those that are interested?
    Too many to post here. Well actually most were closer to R.
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    Apr 28, 2010 9:59 PM GMT
    I think you should have gone in for the 2nd date... but that's just me
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    Apr 28, 2010 10:09 PM GMT
    I think slow is great, especially because that is what felt right to the 2 of you. Classy. Romantic. Take time to explore the things in the kind of moment that both of you share.
  • Midas426

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    Apr 28, 2010 10:26 PM GMT
    That is a nice story. I know a lot of times folks get caught up in wanting to hear more...but I think if you built up the story like you did here, it showed how sometimes an unrequited crush can lead to a romantic moment. I've had plenty of guys I crushed on from a distance that unfortunately remained a distance. I admire you for taking the initiative to courageously strike up a conversation with him. Well done. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 28, 2010 10:41 PM GMT
    Aww, I think that is a sweet story. I'm all for taking things slow. And if that makes me boring and a lame romantic, then I think I'm in good company here.
  • kredone

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    Apr 28, 2010 11:04 PM GMT
    It seems ideal to me to get to know someone as a friend and then to discover you both like guys and possibly each other. Sex is easy or a game of quest and conquer to some people (it seems). I do like to hear details of those quests sometimes, although, it is really refreshing to hear someone just be excited over a kiss that didn't happen at the first meeting or date.

    I really liked this post.

    I have a short g rated story - I met a guy, had dinner with him, and we went to the mall where he worked so he could show me his store. We went in the back way; I was in front of him. I was unsure which way to turn and instead of getting in front of me so I could follow he put his hands on hips and turned me in the correct direction. It was such simple contact, but it was so nice to me. The whole evening was like that; simply sweet.
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    Apr 28, 2010 11:17 PM GMT
    It's a great story! A VERY romantic story, very hot, and frankly, it's kinda' butch, not piggy, for once! (for RJ that is, not for you in particular...)

    A kiss is a magical thing. And a man willing to wait four years for THE right kiss...HOT!

    No, you're doin' JUST fine. Give your friends a few web addresses and let them cool off with soft core if need be. You're building something, and that, that takes determination, careful planning, and restraint. Big on my list of masculine traits!

    Of course, and this is just me, that kiss was a LITTLE bit rough, a liiiiiiiitle bit stubble burning and while you sure as hell didn't lift up one leg, in my mind, you lifted him, just a little. Please don't break the spell.....just lie to me and say yes
  • MercuryMax

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    Apr 28, 2010 11:26 PM GMT
    this is a sweet story, i dont kno what to say but i hope everthing works out in the end for u guys
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    Apr 28, 2010 11:59 PM GMT
    Very cute story and you seem to be totally happy about how things turned out. That's what I call a rousing success and what should be your only measure. Don't fall into the trap of trying to conform to others' expectations of what a 'successful 'date' is like.

    I once went on weekly dates with a guy for 3 months before we became physical. And then we didn't hop into the sack right away either. Just lots of good conversation to get to know each other first and slowly building anticipation of things to come.
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    Apr 29, 2010 3:07 AM GMT

    We're supposed to hang out again this weekend. We'll see how it goes. Thanks for the Feedback fellas!
  • dreamer121

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    Apr 29, 2010 4:09 AM GMT
    I love a good G-rated story... The guy's I always fall for are ones where sex either was non-existent or wasn't existent for a long time.

    I'm all for heart touching... Finding Nemo won't ever get old for me... some X-rated Falcon porno (no matter how hot), will just get old over time...

    Then again, I'm a hopeless romantic I guess... emphasis on the hopeless.

    Congrats Indy404, and I hope the weekend goes great!

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    Apr 29, 2010 4:20 AM GMT
    Sometimes I think we (aka gay guys, or maybe just my whole generation) really rush to get into bed with one another, to achieve that satisfaction of intimacy and validation of our self-worth (somewhat ironically).

    It seems to me that a simple kiss means so much more to the human soul then any amount of x-rated sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is awesome, but that first moment of extreme tension, just as you lean in, hoping they're leaning in too... it makes more impact then a hundred orgasms.

    LOL then again maybe its just me...
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    Apr 29, 2010 4:41 AM GMT
    Aw that makes me smile! I love another romantic guy! There is absolutely nothing wrong in waiting.
  • MadeinMich

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    Apr 29, 2010 4:45 AM GMT
    I like G-Rated Gay stories. They bring a sense of respectability to the gay population
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    Apr 29, 2010 4:58 AM GMT
    Matty_WIP saidIt seems to me that a simple kiss means so much more to the human soul then any amount of x-rated sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is awesome, but that first moment of extreme tension, just as you lean in, hoping they're leaning in too... it makes more impact then a hundred orgasms.


    ...a breathless second to this...motion.
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    Apr 29, 2010 5:00 AM GMT
    AWWW!!

    I wish I could be romatic!
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    Apr 29, 2010 5:03 AM GMT
    If you say that the night wasn't wasted, and that you had a great time, then that's all that matters. You don't need to have a ONS to feel special or appreciated. In most cases a romantic kiss can be even better than sex, especially for people in your situation who have been crushing on a guy for 4-5 years. A kiss could fell like heaven.
    Now, if you didn't follow it up with a couple of dates and some hot sex... Then I'd be worried.
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    Apr 29, 2010 5:12 AM GMT
    Matty_WIP saidSometimes I think we (aka gay guys, or maybe just my whole generation) really rush to get into bed with one another, to achieve that satisfaction of intimacy and validation of our self-worth (somewhat ironically).

    It seems to me that a simple kiss means so much more to the human soul then any amount of x-rated sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is awesome, but that first moment of extreme tension, just as you lean in, hoping they're leaning in too... it makes more impact then a hundred orgasms.

    LOL then again maybe its just me...


    its totally not just you ;)
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    Apr 29, 2010 5:16 AM GMT
    That sweet, innocent kiss sounds like it will make a better memory for you than the night would have been if it had turned into sex.

    I once ran into a guy I had gone to university with but didn't know very well while we were both on holiday. We randomly spent the whole day together and clicked really well. Both of us were sorry that we hadn't known that the other was in town, but our holidays were just finishing. At the end of the night, we parted at the subway without even a kiss, but the goodbye was so sweet... I think we both felt something fuzzy... It was nice just the way it was.
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    Apr 29, 2010 6:22 AM GMT
    Loved your story! and now I'm gonna reply on what I read before lol.

    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HERETopic Questions: Do you think I should have pushed for more than just a kiss? Also, does anyone else have any "G-Rated" stories to share for those that are interested?


    From what I read I feel that you felt happy with just having a kiss, that's "to me" is so romantic LOL, I dunno why but I love men who take things slowly and not rush into the X zone that quick lol. What I'm trying to say here you do whatever you feel that is right no matter it was a kiss on the cheek or on other areas ;p jk. It's up to you set up your fairytale of love lol, did I say that correctly?

    I wanna share this, there was this guy that I really liked, was down to earth and very funny and caring guy, on the third date we went out to the beach with us just staring at each other all nightlong just sitting there smiling and staring at each other eyes .. for me that was the moment where the world stopped on spinning around and I was the happiest guy on earth .. ugh that was my best day ever.

    People might think that wasn't romantic or that romantic, but to me it meant a lot. What I'm saying here whatever you do even just a kiss it should mean something to you, so even if you just kissed him it meant something that you shared with someone special and that's something worth to go under the romance category.

    What I would suggest is YOU define what the next step should be, let your feelings lead you to the one you like.

    Hope I didn't talk a lot lol.

    Ab,