Well....this gets pretty funny.
Some guys like being guys. I like being a guy, for instance. I like everything about being a guy. I'm not into fetishes or any of that. I'm not pretending to be anything. What you see is what you get; I'm 100% out. I'd be giving myself to much credit if I thought that anyone gave a rat's tiny behind about my sexuality.
That's the mental illness of so many guy / bi guys: they are SO caught up in their sexuality that's it's crippling to their lives and those around them. Nobody of any virtue cares about the sexuality thing, and with 6.6 BILLION folks in the world, if they do, they need to be dumped, and el pronto.
Some guys have different genetics; same thing with some women. That's biology 101. Other "gays" are so insecure and attention starved that they see how outrageous they can be so as to garner the most attention possible.
Unfortunately, the more typical gay / bi guys are fucked up by religion indoctrination / false belief systems / hatred of The South, so the public doesn't see them as much.
Sexuality generally is not 100% different sex, or 100% same sex, but, almost always is somewhere in between.
All the self-involvement over sexual preference is just plain silly. It is what it is.
Femmy gay guys are no different from butch gay girls, or the same in the "straight" preference. It's just biology, or acting out. Whatever the case, it just is, and if you want to hang out with femmy gay guys, or butch gay girls, or transvestite folks, that's your thing.
The important thing is that the public eventually come to understand that all gay / bi guys are so self-involved, pictureless, self-loathing, deceitful folks, sneaking around in the shadows. Many of us like ourselves just fine, refuse to be enablers to the mental illness of the pictureless, or enablers to the hate of the false belief systems, and we lead by example. My sexuality is but a SMALL portion of my life. If you don't like it, to bad: I have 6.6 BILLION other folks to associate with.