How Much Do Looks Matter?

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    Apr 30, 2010 1:30 AM GMT
    so do looks matter in this world yay or nay..do you prefer a guy with looks or personality,some have both but sometimes the guy is hot from the face and ugly from the body or hot from the body and ugly from the face,
    or he is hot and a great personality but to cocky or full of himself,but to me looks to matter and ill admit when I see a message on here or on myspace or anywhere if the guy is not hot I wont reply backicon_cool.gif

    so my question is do looks mattericon_question.gif

    On a scale of 1 to 10, how do you rate your physical attractivenessicon_question.gif On the same scale, how do you rate your intelligenceicon_question.gif

    Attractiveness, 9. Intelligence, 7.


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    Apr 30, 2010 3:22 AM GMT
    Truth of the matter is that the physical attractiveness is what initially draws people in and its the personality/intelligence that keeps people hooked so i'd say its 50/50..both are equally important for something substantial. For something superficial, looks trumps intelligence.

    For me...physical beauty dictates my initial approach...too beautiful and i shy away, average then it depends on body language and approachability. Whether i stay past the 2 minute mark is 100 percent dictated by what comes out of the other person's mouth.
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    Apr 30, 2010 4:13 AM GMT
    BELLO saidso do looks matter in this world yay or nay..do you prefer a guy with looks or personality,some have both but sometimes the guy is hot from the face and ugly from the body or hot from the body and ugly from the face,
    or he is hot and a great personality but to cocky or full of himself,but to me looks to matter and ill admit when I see a message on here or on myspace or anywhere if the guy is not hot I wont reply backicon_cool.gif

    so my question is do looks mattericon_question.gif

    On a scale of 1 to 10, how do you rate your physical attractivenessicon_question.gif On the same scale, how do you rate your intelligenceicon_question.gif

    Attractiveness, 9. Intelligence, 7.


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    Since intelligence/personality are so hard to come by in gay men, I'd have to give the nudge to that.
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    Apr 30, 2010 4:29 AM GMT
    A nice smile and intelligent eyes get me, and I go for who you are as a person over looks. Basic hygiene matters more than washboard abs.
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    Apr 30, 2010 4:55 AM GMT
    This is a topic covered many times on Realjock but I'm always game for it...

    I'm a face dude...Yeah, he has to be in decent shape, at least proportionate...But I NEVER just go for a hot body...I love long conversations and kissing so I gotta like what I see from the neck up at least.

    Attractiveness = 7.5 (gotta hit the gym harder)
    Intelligence = 8.5 (I'm full of a little information about a lot of things)
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    Apr 30, 2010 5:43 AM GMT
    Indy404 saidThis is a topic covered many times on Realjock but I'm always game for it...

    I'm a face dude...Yeah, he has to be in decent shape, at least proportionate...But I NEVER just go for a hot body...I love long conversations and kissing so I gotta like what I see from the neck up at least.

    Attractiveness = 7.5 (gotta hit the gym harder)
    Intelligence = 8.5 (I'm full of a little information about a lot of things)


    lol oops i didnt know,
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    Apr 30, 2010 6:11 AM GMT
    Mmm.... I give myself

    body 7.5,
    face 8
    intellect 10,
    modesty, 10.

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    Apr 30, 2010 6:44 AM GMT
    Lostboy saidMmm.... I give myself

    body 7.5,
    face 8
    intellect 10,
    modesty, 10.



    So why don't you post a pic of your face if that's true, and it's ranked so highly?
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    Apr 30, 2010 7:09 AM GMT
    sacredgranola said
    Lostboy saidMmm.... I give myself

    body 7.5,
    face 8
    intellect 10,
    modesty, 10.



    So why don't you post a pic of your face if that's true, and it's ranked so highly?


    hes gorgeous ide have to agree with him on his scores,icon_wink.gificon_wink.gif
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    Apr 30, 2010 9:11 AM GMT
    Good question, do looks matter?

    I'm gonna be lying if I said no they don't! but I'm gonna say no, looks don't matter to ME at least. I myself would look more into the personality as a big thing to be in a relation. I care about how does someone act in their own ways rather than how hot they seem to be. But to me looks can be something "secondary".

    We have to keep on our mind that someone can see someone else as being hot than other people that see the same one as being just normal nothing hot about him. What I'm saying in a way looks can play a huge role to people's life and on the other looks can't play any role at all so it all depends on how someone sees or defines looks through his own life.

    So just give me someone with big heart and great personality with a smile and I'm down with that ;p

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    Apr 30, 2010 1:40 PM GMT
    Looks are the most important thing. Someone has to be attractive enough looking to you in order for you to want to get to know them. That doesn't mean they have to be a supermodel.
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    Apr 30, 2010 1:50 PM GMT
    attractiveness: 6 being that said youre definitely not a 9
    intelligence(logic and math): 8
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    Apr 30, 2010 2:03 PM GMT
    Well I can't do stuff with some I don't think is attractive, but it's not what I go for; I like smart guys too.

    and for me I'll say

    6.5 need to hit the gym extra hard this summer

    and

    8 I'm a bit gullible
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    Apr 30, 2010 2:27 PM GMT
    Of course they matter, but only to each person individually. Even the seemingly "best looking" guys don't appeal to everybody, and everybody appeals to somebody. It's all relative.
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    Apr 30, 2010 2:37 PM GMT
    charlitos saidattractiveness: 6 being that said youre definitely not a 9
    intelligence(logic and math): 8



    Ouch...Burnnnnn!

    But yeah, looks are all subjective....

    I have two friends that I could possibly date: One I'm more attracted to but the other one I have better conversations with and think is more intelligent...But I think dating either of them would be unfair to us all...

    I also once lusted after this guy whose intelligence level REALLY left much to be desired. For starters, He didn't believe dinosaurs ever really existed and theorized that all fossils were planted by scientists in some elaborate conspiracy...Usually that's enough to get me gone but he was "dead sexy"...well, to me at least.

    Sometimes things just don't click no matter how much we want them to...
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    Apr 30, 2010 2:53 PM GMT
    Charlitos gets a 10 for sexy salsa dancing icon_rolleyes.gif

    And I couldn´t think of anything to change on Bellissimo.... He´ll look different in 10 years, as he should... but he´s a cutie pie icon_wink.gif


    (Charlitos is jealous ha)
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    Apr 30, 2010 3:06 PM GMT
    BELLO saidso do looks matter in this world yay or nay..do you prefer a guy with looks or personality,some have both but sometimes the guy is hot from the face and ugly from the body or hot from the body and ugly from the face,
    or he is hot and a great personality but to cocky or full of himself,but to me looks to matter and ill admit when I see a message on here or on myspace or anywhere if the guy is not hot I wont reply backicon_cool.gif

    so my question is do looks mattericon_question.gif

    On a scale of 1 to 10, how do you rate your physical attractivenessicon_question.gif On the same scale, how do you rate your intelligenceicon_question.gif

    Attractiveness, 9. Intelligence, 7.


    Your intelligence needs to catch up with your looks. Your looks will get you ONLY so far--which, in the long run, is usually not far at all. If you doubt me, ask the dumb bimbos who are over the age of 30.

    Looks do matter. But intelligence and maturity matter more--much more.

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    Apr 30, 2010 3:07 PM GMT
    charlitos saidattractiveness: 6 being that said youre definitely not a 9
    intelligence(logic and math): 8


    Thanks for being frank, Charlitos. I didn't want to tell him that. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 30, 2010 3:14 PM GMT
    BlkMuscleGent said
    charlitos saidattractiveness: 6 being that said youre definitely not a 9
    intelligence(logic and math): 8


    Thanks for being frank, Charlitos. I didn't want to tell him that. icon_lol.gif


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    Apr 30, 2010 3:25 PM GMT
    Lostboy said
    BlkMuscleGent said
    charlitos saidattractiveness: 6 being that said youre definitely not a 9
    intelligence(logic and math): 8


    Thanks for being frank, Charlitos. I didn't want to tell him that. icon_lol.gif


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    Apr 30, 2010 3:36 PM GMT
    charlitos saidattractiveness: 6 being that said youre definitely not a 9
    intelligence(logic and math): 8


    we were doing so good with no drama ughhh here we go

    i was a 7 befor but now im a 9 and soon i will be a 15,


    cause i keep getting better jajaja
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    Apr 30, 2010 3:45 PM GMT
    BELLO said
    charlitos saidattractiveness: 6 being that said youre definitely not a 9
    intelligence(logic and math): 8


    we were doing so good with no drama ughhh here we go

    i was a 7 befor but now im a 9 and soon i will be a 15,


    cause i keep getting better jajaja


    There you go Bello, Confidence and self esteem will always make a 6 into a 9! LOL
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    Apr 30, 2010 4:01 PM GMT
    Indy404 said
    BELLO said
    charlitos saidattractiveness: 6 being that said youre definitely not a 9
    intelligence(logic and math): 8


    we were doing so good with no drama ughhh here we go

    i was a 7 befor but now im a 9 and soon i will be a 15,


    cause i keep getting better jajaja


    There you go Bello, Confidence and self esteem will always make a 6 into a 9! LOL


    lol your funny and why is their always drama

    people who talk about someone else's looks are just haters or jealous

    i mean if you dont think you are hot who will you have to have confidence in yourself,icon_cool.gificon_cool.gificon_cool.gificon_cool.gificon_cool.gificon_wink.gif
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    BlkMuscleGent saidicon_lol.gif

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    Apr 30, 2010 4:53 PM GMT
    i think im 8.8-9.4 in looks and total 10 inintelligence and personality