Gays or Straights: The better personality?

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    Apr 30, 2010 4:21 AM GMT
    Who do you tend to click more with, and who tends to have the more accessible persona: gay men or straight men?

    And overall, men or women?
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    Apr 30, 2010 4:31 AM GMT
    straight men for me, far more relaxed and fun loving, however there are guys on rj who come across the same and would give my left nut to hang out with'em
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    Apr 30, 2010 4:34 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidstraight men for me, far more relaxed and fun loving, however there are guys on rj who come across the same and would give my left nut to hang out with'em
    ditto
  • mcwclewis

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    Apr 30, 2010 4:56 AM GMT
    I don't know that I could say anyone has a "better personality," but I tend to be better friends with straight men than anyone.

    I don't think it has anything to do with their sexuality though, honestly. I think it's coincidental that their personalities happen to mesh better with mine.
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    Apr 30, 2010 10:44 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    lilTanker saidstraight men for me, far more relaxed and fun loving, however there are guys on rj who come across the same and would give my left nut to hang out with'em



    Awh....what a guy...you keep your nuts, babe. We don't want you tottering off balance as you walk down the street.

    Naww, but, I was hoping you'd have'em ;)
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    Apr 30, 2010 10:49 AM GMT
    personality doesnt come through sexual orientation, you could be totally gay and have a "straight lifestyle".
  • GQjock

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    Apr 30, 2010 10:50 AM GMT
    I have a problem with str8 men
    It's probably me that I don't feel comfortable
    but I really have mostly relationships with other gay men and women

  • beaujangle

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    Apr 30, 2010 10:50 AM GMT
    Definitely straight! They are cool, nice, jovial & not at all bitchy!
  • GQjock

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    Apr 30, 2010 11:07 AM GMT
    "straight lifestyle"?

    What is that exactly?
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    Apr 30, 2010 11:12 AM GMT
    GQjock said"straight lifestyle"?

    What is that exactly?


    Everything, including social activities that straight guys usually have in common except love for tits.
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    Apr 30, 2010 11:47 AM GMT
    Because it's ME who's making this judgment, I can't say if it's THEIR inherent accessibility or personality, or MY receptiveness to them. But I click best with other gay men, followed by straight men. Straight women are next, and lesbian women definitely last.

    Or at least some lesbian women, those that have a permanent angry chip on their shoulders towards men. At the same time, I socialize with lesbian & straight women all the time, and for some reason I'm very popular with them at parties, maybe for being a man who can discuss topics other than my golf game, the stock market, and what sports team is going into the finals at any particular time of the year.

    I do agree with the comment above about gay bitchiness, but straight men have their own issues, too, like arrogant aggressiveness. And if a gay guy tries his bitchiness routine with me, I just fight fire with fire, cause hun I can bitch like a witch, so they either back off or go away, problem solved.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 30, 2010 11:50 AM GMT
    Its probably all about personality and with whom the individual is comfortable with association. I don't really have a preference... you have nice and sharing people and then you have some who aren't into being friendly or sharing... LOL
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    Apr 30, 2010 2:44 PM GMT
    GQjock said"straight lifestyle"?

    What is that exactly?
    Wife, kids, golf, minivan, boytoy(s) on the side, etc.
  • MercuryMax

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    Apr 30, 2010 2:46 PM GMT
    actually I like clicking with both very well. As for men or women.....I can't stand having the company of a female...i consider myself a misogynist.icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 30, 2010 2:46 PM GMT
    I can't say that i have any real straight male friends, I have no need for them. I have more straight female friends. All of my close friends are gay.

    Actually I had one. I ended that friendship because he kept telling about the mutliple affairs he was having and he was interested in hearing about the issues I was having with my bf at the time. It was very one-sided. I lefty him blowing in the wind!
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    Apr 30, 2010 3:03 PM GMT
    wow, there's some stereotyping lurking just below the surface of that OP...where the hell is leandro? icon_twisted.gificon_biggrin.gif
    i like guys that are interested in the same stuff as i am...who doesn't?

    i can hang with gay guys until they start talking about the view, project runway, or ::insert popular female actress here::, or all the other shows/topics that i can't mention because i don't know what they are because i don't care.

    i can hang with straight guys until they start talking about doing a female server, or banging any chick that is close by, or when they have proven they have nothing to talk about but sports and fishing (which is not a sport, IMHO).

    i can hang with women for the most part...but they too like to talk about TV shows i have no interest in.

    overall, i like people...there are just some topics i'm not all that into.

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    Apr 30, 2010 3:05 PM GMT
    I notice the OP hid his profile...or is gone. Yay!!! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 30, 2010 5:46 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI notice the OP hid his profile...or is gone. Yay!!! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif


    Either he got to the admins, or we got to him. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 30, 2010 5:46 PM GMT
    Real simple...str8 guys are easier to deal withicon_lol.gif
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    Apr 30, 2010 5:49 PM GMT
    What an idiotic question!!!!
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    Apr 30, 2010 5:51 PM GMT
    I generally don't like to segregate my friends based off of their sexuality.

    I happen to have a mixture of both gay, straight and bi friends. I'm friends with them because of they way they act and how they treat me as a whole.
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    Apr 30, 2010 8:52 PM GMT
    10 percent of my friends are gay. I want more gay friends.

    That said, I avoid straight people with bullshit issues, and the same rule applies to the gays. So, both types are equally enjoyable to be around.

    I tend to have more girl friends than guys, though. Women collect in gaggles more, whereas the guys tend to be loners or couples.
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    Apr 30, 2010 10:00 PM GMT
    I tend to get on better with Christian straight men and women.
    Yet funny enough, I don't get on well with patriots or nationals at all, whether Christian or non Christian. With gay men, in my younger days I got on well with them. But unfortunately, this had more to do with physical looks rather than personality, proof of this is that my popularity stakes are not that high here at RJ.
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    Apr 30, 2010 10:29 PM GMT
    I like this post because I'm genuinely surprised by the responses. I def prefer the company of other gay dudes. I often like to talk frankly about sex, and with a lotta straight dudes, they just can't get past the "ick factor" to enjoy that kind of conversation. Haven't had a close straight male friend since college. I'm sure there are some great straight dudes out there, but I've had so many awkward situations with straight dudes once they know that I'm gay that I just tend to steer clear of trying to befriend.
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    Apr 30, 2010 10:42 PM GMT
    Leandro here!


    I read my name being mentioned somewhere on this tread, and I don't know why? for me judging someone's persona by their sexual orientation makes no sense! I picked who I choose to be and feel more comfortable with anyone who is level headed, mature minded, and is emotionally grounded, and that could be either a gay or straight person; that said maybe that is why I have such a small circle of friends.

    But if you must know I tend to click better with straight men then gay men, because at least with them the variation of conversations and the amount of activities in comparison with gays are so much more interesting and engaging in soooooooo many levels, except anything that have to do about gay sex, of course!! I do agree with someone's comment about straight men being more fun loving thou!


    Leandro ♥