May 02, 2010 1:08 AM GMT
16 years ago my first relationship ended after 5 years. He was the one true love of my life. We had a passionate love affair that ended badly with me getting very hurt when he cheated on me and left. Even after 16 years, I still carry a torch for this guy. He tracked me down and called this week to say he's coming to my city on business next month and wants to see me. He called me at work and I couldn't say much over the phone. I have been preoccupied with this topic ever since and I would like some advice on how to proceed. I am currently unattached and would love to rekindle a relationship with him. Any advice? My current age is 50 and he is in his early 40's. I am losing sleep over this.