Anti-Creep Safety

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    May 06, 2010 3:36 AM GMT
    lately I've been facing a series of creep harassment including one today by a 45-something at the gym, the asshole kept staying around and kept tapping on my glass shower wall or curtain to show him my dick i felt so awkward i wanted to punch this shit outta him but i instead stared at him angrily. People usually think im going to kill them when i stare so it worked.

    but besides that saw if you were outside on the street or in a parking lot or an isolated area.. what tactics would you employ to stay safe?

    I think a lot of people could use the info.
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    May 06, 2010 3:52 AM GMT
    If they're creepy and fugly, I ignore them. If they persist, I charge them.
    If they're creepy and hot, I <3 them. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 06, 2010 4:18 AM GMT
    Saying something like, "Excuse me" in a stern tone usually works.

    If not, then saying something like, "If you don't go away, I'm going to break your fucking arm!" in a loud and threatening voice usually does the trick.

    Aloha and Be Well! (and free from creeps)
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    May 06, 2010 4:24 AM GMT
    "TRY ME YOU CRAZY ASS BAG MAN!!!!!!!!!!"

    ugh homeless people are soo creepy sometimes
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    May 06, 2010 4:26 AM GMT
    I don't get creepers anymore, I used to when I was younger and probably nicer but now I've grown up and filled out and look more scary icon_biggrin.gif which is awesome in a crowd cause they move aside icon_smile.gif
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    May 06, 2010 4:28 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidI don't get creepers anymore, I used to when I was younger and probably nicer but now I've grown up and filled out and look more scary icon_biggrin.gif which is awesome in a crowd cause they move aside icon_smile.gif


    haha hot i wanna grow big and scary too
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    May 06, 2010 4:43 AM GMT
    CanadianSun saidhaha hot i wanna grow big and scary too

    I will admit it has its advantages, except for one massive problem, stores hang signs about the 6 foot level so I'm forever ducking those damned things to get by... I've lost IQ points to those signs over the years!
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    May 06, 2010 4:45 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    CanadianSun saidhaha hot i wanna grow big and scary too

    I will admit it has its advantages, except for one massive problem, stores hang signs about the 6 foot level so I'm forever ducking those damned things to get by... I've lost IQ points to those signs over the years!


    big doesn't necessarily mean tall i'm aiming for muscle mass icon_smile.gif
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    May 06, 2010 7:32 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidI don't get creepers anymore, I used to when I was younger and probably nicer but now I've grown up and filled out and look more scary icon_biggrin.gif which is awesome in a crowd cause they move aside icon_smile.gif


    Same here, but I never realized it until some friends pointed it out to me. I was whining one day about how I get weird looks from people, like they're afraid of me. I was griping about how friendly I was and how I smile and say hello to people.

    My friends told me that my looks (especially after I've just gotten a high and tight haircut from a barbershop just off the Marine Corps base) and my presence are a bit intimidating. They went on that my size (6'1"), build, exotic look, confidence, charisma and direct eye contact are a potent and powerful mix that can cause others to shrink.

    I scratched my head in disbelief because I always thought I was the skinny geeky goofy kid who was as gentle as a lamb.

    Perhaps there is a misalignment in my perception of myself as gentle, and one which might snap a creep's arm like a chicken leg?

    I guess my normal nature is gentle, but if pushed too far (or God forbid that some creep tries to do harm to those whom I love) I can be a bit forceful.

    I'm really just a pussy cat when it comes down to it.

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    May 06, 2010 7:34 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidI will admit it has its advantages, except for one massive problem, stores hang signs about the 6 foot level so I'm forever ducking those damned things to get by... I've lost IQ points to those signs over the years!


    I'm always feeling low hanging stuff brush through my hair and I have nearly cracked my grape on many an occasion.
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    May 06, 2010 9:24 AM GMT
    CanadianSun said
    lilTanker said
    CanadianSun saidhaha hot i wanna grow big and scary too

    I will admit it has its advantages, except for one massive problem, stores hang signs about the 6 foot level so I'm forever ducking those damned things to get by... I've lost IQ points to those signs over the years!


    big doesn't necessarily mean tall i'm aiming for muscle mass icon_smile.gif

    oh I should slap you right now hahaha

    I'm tall and broad thank you and I carry a respectable amount of muscle, but I don't need to look scary by having muscle, I just am scary icon_razz.gif
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    May 06, 2010 9:27 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]GAMRican said[/cite]
    lilTanker saidI don't get creepers anymore, I used to when I was younger and probably nicer but now I've grown up and filled out and look more scary icon_biggrin.gif which is awesome in a crowd cause they move aside icon_smile.gif


    Same here, but I never realized it until some friends pointed it out to me. I was whining one day about how I get weird looks from people, like they're afraid of me. I was griping about how friendly I was and how I smile and say hello to people.

    My friends told me that my looks (especially after I've just gotten a high and tight haircut from a barbershop just off the Marine Corps base) and my presence are a bit intimidating. They went on that my size (6'1"), build, exotic look, confidence, charisma and direct eye contact are a potent and powerful mix that can cause others to shrink.

    I scratched my head in disbelief because I always thought I was the skinny geeky goofy kid who was as gentle as a lamb.

    Perhaps there is a misalignment in my perception of myself as gentle, and one which might snap a creep's arm like a chicken leg?

    I guess my normal nature is gentle, but if pushed too far (or God forbid that some creep tries to do harm to those whom I love) I can be a bit forceful.

    I'm really just a pussy cat when it comes down to it.
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    I'm more a puppy dog, I'll slobber all over you and stick my face in your crotch!

    I recently learnt the same thing from mates about how I really come off out in public, I thought I was friendly and sweet, I always knew I could be intimidating and hold my own against people who were causing trouble, but apparently I just give off a much more erm... "stern" vibe, I dun know why I'm always smiling and chatting to people but I suppose it is what it is... although it's a bitch with guys cause they just wont approach you pfffft weaklings!
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    May 06, 2010 10:33 AM GMT
    Okay ......
    If ignoring them doesn't work?
    This is what you do
    Turn around and look them directly in the eye
    and give them your best disgusted WHAT? look
    say Nothing
    and if they say anything IGNORE them and keep staring at them

    I can guarantee they will shrink away
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    May 06, 2010 11:49 AM GMT
    In terms of the shower, ignoring them is probably key. It's simple psychology. They're trying to get a rise out of you and the more you refuse to respond, the less interesting you become.

    If they persist, I would tell the gym management.
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    May 06, 2010 3:28 PM GMT
    GQjock saidOkay ......
    If ignoring them doesn't work?
    This is what you do
    Turn around and look them directly in the eye
    and give them your best disgusted WHAT? look
    say Nothing
    and if they say anything IGNORE them and keep staring at them

    I can guarantee they will shrink away


    yeah that's what i did, but i feel next time i should just tell them off directly
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    May 07, 2010 1:55 AM GMT
    lilTanker said...

    I'm more a puppy dog, I'll slobber all over you and stick my face in your crotch! ...


    Ooooo! (THROB!) icon_twisted.gif
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    Jun 29, 2011 10:42 PM GMT
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    Jun 29, 2011 10:54 PM GMT
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    So I don't mean to recycle old threads or hijack one, but this is an RJ emergency.

    Warning, reapinghour is back, I repeat,

    reapinghour is back, under the handle

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    Block accordingly. Don't watch the videos.


    Yup, I blocked and reported him as well
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jun 29, 2011 10:56 PM GMT
    You did the right thing. You didn't get into anything verbal, but let him know to back the hell off. I would have done (and have in the past) the same thing.

    As far as being outdoors or in an isolated area.. first and foremost, be aware of whats going on around you. Don't be in a zone. Stick to well lighted areas and think about (in advance) what you would do if you were assaulted
    by someone who chose to single you out.. or just tried to rob you.
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    Jun 29, 2011 10:59 PM GMT
    What I wonder is how does someone really get to the stage where they creep on others and feel it's okay to tap on their shower stall to wave their dick at them?

    Any self-identified creepers out there have an answer?icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 01, 2011 2:39 AM GMT
    The first time I ever went to Fire Island it was with my roommate, a former Wilhelmina model alongside Jessica Lange and Barbara Carrera, to stay in a Cherry Grove oceanfront house owned by his older hag (think Gene Tierney in "Scruples") that he and her stable of "boys" had been visiting for over twenty years. This is how, sleeping on the couch of a dilapidated beach house that had seen better days, presided over by an old woman and outnumbered by her middle aged cadre of men, I awoke late in the night to find myself being molested. My safety strategy? Sternly, my eyes flying open and staring straight at the perp, I said "Thank you, and goodnight." He slinked off and no one else dared approach me for the rest of the night as I slept with one eye open, furious and filled with the self righteousness and indignation of youth. As I was about to leave for the morning ferry my roommate - who had a great eye and later got me, unsolicited, a legit agent - took a snapshot of me since he said my dark mood made for a great picture. He was right - it's now in my RJ profile, the cropped one with the orange windbreaker.