Does your position in grinding tell your position in sex.

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    May 06, 2010 9:28 PM GMT
    When at clubs most of us grind hardcore. Not much ball room dancing going on in gay bars. I will admit when i dance it looks a lot like a female in heat. I can't help it, it's sort of an attention seeking thing as well as i just like to move my hips

    But when it comes to sex, i love to pound the hell out of a guy while his legs are wrapped around my waist and he claws my back. Is that odd. I know my dancing style attracts a lot of tops, and I'm 50/50 when it comes to position so that doesnt bother me at all.

    Just wondering, does anyone dance the same/opposite position they screw?
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    May 06, 2010 9:33 PM GMT
    If I fucked like I grinded, I'd be the biggest whore in South Florida.
    Maybe I need to work on my game more.
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    May 06, 2010 9:48 PM GMT
    Studly is buying a plane ticket right now to go to TMNT's home city this weekend and just watch that boy grind! WOOHOO!!!!icon_twisted.gif
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    May 07, 2010 1:17 AM GMT
    @Paul & Studly...

    you crack me up!

    to the OP -

    just a thought, maybe your dancing attracts tops b/c of how you are expressing yourself on the floor ("when I dance, it looks a lot like a female in heat").

    Then again, the bottoms and vers guys could be checkin you out too, but you aren't noticing them for some reason.

    Enjoy the attention! ;-)
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    May 07, 2010 1:20 AM GMT
    I completely understand what is going on. I'm just wondering am i the only top that dances like a bottom or are there bottoms that dance like tops. Or if it even matters do people just dance?
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    May 07, 2010 1:23 AM GMT
    Nope. Dancing is dancing and it's fun to do. While how you dance doesn't necessarily dictate your sexual positi0on it can help a person figure out if you are good in bed or not.

    If you got it then flaunt and make others want it.
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    May 07, 2010 2:42 AM GMT
    i second what muchmorethanmuscle wrote
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    May 07, 2010 2:47 AM GMT
    usually when i go to a club, and i see a guy grind their ass on the other guys crotch i assume theyre bottoms, so i move along, but maybe im assuming too quickly. haha.
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    May 07, 2010 3:14 AM GMT
    sublstyley saidusually when i go to a club, and i see a guy grind their ass on the other guys crotch i assume theyre bottoms, so i move along, but maybe im assuming too quickly. haha.


    That's stupid.

    Assuming that you wont have a compatible partner based on a dichotomy of the gay community is very stupid.
    What ever happened to getting to know a person?

    Now people don't consider someone who dances a certain way?, jeez.

    That person could very well be a top or Vers, I know I'd dance both ways at a club.
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    May 07, 2010 3:21 AM GMT


    The only clue it gives is how good or bad the sex might be!
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    May 07, 2010 3:26 AM GMT
    I don't assume either way. But if he grinds well in front of another guy, it tells you he's probably a GOOD bottom, and not what the Japanese call "maguro."
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    May 07, 2010 3:30 AM GMT
    Hmm I wasn't ever the best dancer but I do know those who weren't or never were a dancer REALLY made up for it in bed. You do the math.
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    May 07, 2010 3:31 AM GMT
    TMNT saidOr if it even matters do people just dance?

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    May 07, 2010 3:39 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidOh sweetie, as far as we're concerned you ARE the biggest whore slut in South Florida. You're game is just fine.
    Come here and prove it. icon_biggrin.gif

    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    "now imagine that said in Karen's nasal whiny helium voice."
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    May 07, 2010 3:40 AM GMT
    When I'm grinding it usually has more to do with my need to wear my night guard than sex.
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    May 07, 2010 3:41 AM GMT
    So if you grind your butt in a guy's crotch it makes you look like a big ol' bottom?
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    May 07, 2010 3:42 AM GMT
    I went to a club with my friend (a top) and we decided to dance. Well we got out on the dance floor and I began to grind.....this was intense grinding, back and forth on the 1 and 2 and of the beat. Long story short, after we were exsausted from about an hour and a half of dancing he laughed and he told me, "You are definitely more of a bottom, and I would never do that." So basically, it's more effeminent to be the one grinding your ass....

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    May 07, 2010 5:23 AM GMT
    Quirky said
    sublstyley saidusually when i go to a club, and i see a guy grind their ass on the other guys crotch i assume theyre bottoms, so i move along, but maybe im assuming too quickly. haha.


    That's stupid.

    Assuming that you wont have a compatible partner based on a dichotomy of the gay community is very stupid.
    What ever happened to getting to know a person?

    Now people don't consider someone who dances a certain way?, jeez.

    That person could very well be a top or Vers, I know I'd dance both ways at a club.


    stupid as it may be, 90% of the times im right. ;)
  • thatonedude21

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    May 07, 2010 5:30 AM GMT
    I act like a bottom when I dance, and I like to fuck - what does that tell you?

    I don't really like grinding, I just kind of do the typical fag rave dance
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    May 07, 2010 5:30 AM GMT
    LOL. How do you know you are right 90% of the time if you aren't having sex with the guys you are eying who are grinding?

    Yup. I'd say you are jumping the gun quickly.
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    May 07, 2010 5:43 AM GMT
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    May 07, 2010 5:54 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    Now if a guy backs up his ass up on my crotch and gyrates and grinds up into me then I would allow myself to make assumptions. icon_wink.gif
    If he does it naked you can make assbumpins.
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    May 07, 2010 5:55 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidOoooh...!

    That's pretty sexy. I wouldn't make assumptions about a guy's sexual position by a guy dancing like that.


    Now if a guy backs up his ass up on my crotch and gyrates and grinds up into me then I would allow myself to make assumptions. icon_wink.gif


    Done that, and uh... doesn't mean that. Oops. Guess that's the jamaican in me haha.

    Have actually bruised my (girl)friend's back by gyrating up against her while she was pinned against the wall. She loved it, but we looked like we had some rough sex after that. With that logic, she would have been the top and uhh.. that didn't happen lol.
  • jrs1

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    May 07, 2010 6:00 AM GMT
    Erikk said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    haha ... lol.

    roflolololol - gasp - hahahahaha * wasn't smiling during that whole bit *
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    May 07, 2010 6:02 AM GMT
    Erikk said
    Guess that's the jamaican in me haha.


    Jamaicans, Puerto Ricans, who hasnt been in you?