my str8 friend is confusing me

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    May 07, 2010 5:07 AM GMT
    Ok wat do u guys think of this i have a friend he is str8 but back in november he told me he does not know if he is gay or str8 ok mind u him and his wife was on the rock then he later told me he told his mom wat would she do if he was gay she said that is his choice and she still loves him. ok one night he got drunk and asked me if i think he is cute lol i never answered later that night he asked to see a pic of my dick i showed him he looked at it for like 5 mins hmmmmmmmm ( it was like 10 pics tho) ok a few months pass and he gets drunk and says the same thing i think im gay blah blah cus i like shopping and fashion i am like tha tdoes not make u gay. he now lives in tx and has gay friends there and every now and then he goes to gay clubs. one night he called me drunk and was like ur coo as shit and i dont think i could get it in the ass if i was gay me and u should be roomies and juss have fun hanging out and shit he then says ur a top and i dont like anal sex. i wa slike dude im vers he then said really well maybe when i come home me and u caould hook up i was like wow ummmm. Ok then one night he calls me and was like super drunk and said would u date me i was like um ur drunk dude he was like anyways but he later also asked in a low voice do u want me to fuck you i was like wow cus i do think he is cute and we are good friends so i trust him alot. I am juss confused cus now i am like kinda crushing on him a lil. He then says ppl asked him about wheter he was gay or not and he said idk the only dude i would be able to be with most likely is my friend ( me ) i was like wow he then told me its like that cus he thinks i am coo as shit. he is also very protective of me kinda i recently had a kid bust windows out of one the windows in my yard and he was like who was it i will kick there ass and one dude and i had conflice and my friend was like show him to me i will kick his ass. lol i am so confused cus lately he has been like yea i want to see this girl when i ome home and stuff and been more str8 acting but he wasnt to get drunk with me when he visits here i am like hmmmmm what do yall think. I know he said he is a lil curious but he is like idk he runs from other gay dudes but they dont scare him but he is way open with me as i give him advice on his wife and his divorce i been talking to him and shit. o i forgot one day he asked me wat does it feel like to kiss a dude lol so i am like wow juss so lost here. What do yall think
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    May 07, 2010 5:22 AM GMT
    Fenix_Stone saidOk wat do u guys think of this... him and his wife ... What do yall think


    He's married. I'm assuming that he's supposed to be monogamous. He's attempting to commit adultery with you.

    For a moment, consider...
    How would you feel if you were married, and your husband whom you loved and were monogamous with, started hitting on a girl and trying to commit adultery with her.

    How would you feel?
    That's how his wife might feel if you go ahead and mess with this guy.
    Do you want her to feel that way, even though you might not really know her?

    What do you think?
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    May 07, 2010 5:25 AM GMT
    I think your friend is confused as all hell but knows what he wants to try...

    just be careful you could get hurt emotionally with this as he explores
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    May 07, 2010 5:41 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    Fenix_Stone saidOk wat do u guys think of this... him and his wife ... What do yall think


    He's married. I'm assuming that he's supposed to be monogamous. He's attempting to commit adultery with you.

    For a moment, consider...
    How would you feel if you were married, and your husband whom you loved and were monogamous with, started hitting on a girl and trying to commit adultery with her.

    How would you feel?
    That's how his wife might feel if you go ahead and mess with this guy.
    Do you want her to feel that way, even though you might not really know her?

    What do you think?



    They are divorced she told him to leave he started doing this when they split up they tried to work it out but it is over he like almost commited suicide well he said he though of it but he is faithful
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    May 07, 2010 5:43 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidI think your friend is confused as all hell but knows what he wants to try...

    just be careful you could get hurt emotionally with this as he explores



    yea i know that is y i never answer his questions but i would date him if i felt like he was more stable with being gay or bi
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    May 07, 2010 5:44 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI wouldn't mess with a guy who's in a relationship who's looking to play tic tack toe. I don't even like messing around with guys that are in open relationships.

    I wouldn't mess with this guy.




    ditto but his is divorced now that is y i posted this they r not together this happened like after the split and shit between him and his wife i was helpping him with it cus he was hurt by it we have been friends for like 3 or 4 years well a while now and he is like really the only person who has not backstabbed me its funny how we met to
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    May 07, 2010 5:46 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    Fenix_Stone saidOk wat do u guys think of this... him and his wife ... What do yall think


    He's married. I'm assuming that he's supposed to be monogamous. He's attempting to commit adultery with you.

    For a moment, consider...
    How would you feel if you were married, and your husband whom you loved and were monogamous with, started hitting on a girl and trying to commit adultery with her.

    How would you feel?
    That's how his wife might feel if you go ahead and mess with this guy.
    Do you want her to feel that way, even though you might not really know her?

    What do you think?



    and did u not see the end where i gave him advice on his divorce they r not together
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    May 07, 2010 2:08 PM GMT
    So far, from what I read, the only time he gets interested in you this way is when he's drunk, or very drunk. This is not really a good sign.


    -Doug
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    May 07, 2010 2:16 PM GMT
    I think you should use more ',' and '.' and an enter here and there. Just to give a structure to your story. It's very hard to read.
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    May 07, 2010 2:20 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]Fenix_Stone said...ditto but his is divorced now that is y i posted this they r not together this happened like after the split and shit between him and his wife i was helpping him with it cus he was hurt by it we have been friends for like 3 or 4 years well a while now and he is like really the only person who has not backstabbed me its funny how we met to [/quote]

    sounds like he is "bi-curious" and is making his first tenative steps to explore his widening sexuality by reaching out to you.

    i'd give him a few drinks, put on some gay porn....and see what happens.

    i've always taken it as a compliment when my "str8/bi-curious" friends wanted to take matters further with me.

    hell....a drunken 3 way with my best friend and his wife convinced me i had been on the wrong side of the street for wayyyyy to many years... icon_wink.gif
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    May 07, 2010 2:28 PM GMT
    Actually, paragraphs and punctuation are your friends....
  • PRDGUY

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    May 07, 2010 2:38 PM GMT
    Majority of the time guys want to 'experiment'- and a few beers is his way of coping with getting UP the nerve. My best friend wanted to try it once ONLY, and that was hundreds of times ago... now he simply plays w/ mine and waits for me to grab him. Soon we're naked and we go at it for hours- just hang and have some porn ready, DP best as u have at least 2 dudes on the women.
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    May 07, 2010 2:39 PM GMT
    meninlove saidSo far, from what I read, the only time he gets interested in you this way is when he's drunk, or very drunk. This is not really a good sign.


    -Doug
    LOL I was thinking the same thing.
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    May 07, 2010 2:44 PM GMT
    Hey Midas426, thanks, and I think this is about a lot more than just sex for Fenix_Stone. He's got feelings for the guy. I think lilTanker picked up that.

    -Doug
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    May 07, 2010 10:02 PM GMT
    Niceguy89 saidI think you should use more ',' and '.' and an enter here and there. Just to give a structure to your story. It's very hard to read.


    it not a grammar class so plz stay with wat I asked plus it was late at night thanx for being my teacher And posting something Off key icon_smile.gif
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    May 07, 2010 10:04 PM GMT
    PRDGUY saidMajority of the time guys want to 'experiment'- and a few beers is his way of coping with getting UP the nerve. My best friend wanted to try it once ONLY, and that was hundreds of times ago... now he simply plays w/ mine and waits for me to grab him. Soon we're naked and we go at it for hours- just hang and have some porn ready, DP best as u have at least 2 dudes on the women.


    I actually had a bf like that. He got drunk and came out to me we dated till he cheated on me with my ex who I losty v card to o and hit me
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    May 07, 2010 10:08 PM GMT
    AbFab1 saidActually, paragraphs and punctuation are your friends....
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    Y post if it's to critic how I write do u properly write ur txt messages I don't plus No one here pays me to write correctly and I write in thought I don't pre write then check it and do over so yea bu thanx for a empty post thoicon_smile.gif
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    AbFab1 saidActually, paragraphs and punctuation are your friends....

    Agreed. As soon as I see a massive block of text, I skip over it. If somebody wants to post a concise summary I might read it, but otherwise, a dead-end thread for me. Bye... icon_razz.gif
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    May 07, 2010 10:09 PM GMT
    do you remember what your first gay relationship was like?

    do you really want to experience that again? with someone who is confused? and calls you only when he's drunk?

    you asked for our opinions, and you don't like our answers.

    make your own mistakes. we'll be here to make fun of you when you start the thread about how it failed.
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    May 07, 2010 10:10 PM GMT
    Don't fuck your straight friend unless his wife says it's ok. Otherwise he'll end up becoming YOUR wife when she kicks him out.

    Then if you're lucky, she'll take him back in 8 months. Not that I have any idea where that number came from... icon_wink.gif
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    May 07, 2010 10:15 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidDon't fuck your straight friend unless his wife says it's ok. Otherwise he'll end up becoming YOUR wife when she kicks him out.

    Then if you're lucky, she'll take him back in 8 months. Not that I have any idea where that number came from... icon_wink.gif
    farther on down he sez the guy is divorced now.
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    May 07, 2010 10:16 PM GMT
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    paulflexes saidDon't fuck your straight friend unless his wife says it's ok. Otherwise he'll end up becoming YOUR wife when she kicks him out.

    Then if you're lucky, she'll take him back in 8 months. Not that I have any idea where that number came from... icon_wink.gif
    farther on down he sez the guy is divorced now.
    Oh well in that case, fuck him till the cows cum home! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    May 07, 2010 10:22 PM GMT
    I concur with GAMRican and lilTanker.

    Don't be a home wrecker.
    Let him do his exploring elsewhere.

    He won't be ready to settle down till he's sown some wild oats anyways.

    BTW, if you attended the wedding, then you already morally obligated yourself to supporting the marriage. Don’t attend weddings if you cannot comply with your moral obligation. Gay or Str8, it doesn’t matter.
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    May 07, 2010 11:19 PM GMT
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    AbFab1 saidActually, paragraphs and punctuation are your friends....

    Agreed. As soon as I see a massive block of text, I skip over it. If somebody wants to post a concise summary I might read it, but otherwise, a dead-end thread for me. Bye... icon_razz.gif




    Not to dead u posted in it
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    May 07, 2010 11:20 PM GMT
    Hank247 saidI concur with GAMRican and lilTanker.

    Don't be a home wrecker.
    Let him do his exploring elsewhere.

    He won't be ready to settle down till he's sown some wild oats anyways.

    BTW, if you attended the wedding, then you already morally obligated yourself to supporting the marriage. Don’t attend weddings if you cannot comply with your moral obligation. Gay or Str8, it doesn’t matter.




    Nvr attended no wedding from them they got married quick Like after 6 months and they live 6 hours away