What makes a man "hot"?

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    May 08, 2010 7:28 PM GMT
    What attracts you most about a man and what makes him "hot"?
  • HOTWEILLER

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    May 08, 2010 8:29 PM GMT
    guys who speak slowly, that talk looking into my eyes, tha loves dogs, that are sensitive and that are way older than me.
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    May 08, 2010 8:38 PM GMT
    Muscles, definition, tight ripped vascular arms, definition, chiseled 6-pack, and a cute or handsome face helps. Oh and did I mention tight ripped vascular arms? Just wanna make sure... icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 09, 2010 12:38 AM GMT
    His face and demeanour. So much can be conveyed through a single sexy glance.

    And if he happens to have a smokin' body, more power to him!
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    May 09, 2010 12:46 AM GMT
    It's in his iris. It's either there or it isn't. A hint of steel and slate...
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    May 09, 2010 1:28 AM GMT
    Ok there's 4 types of guys out there I'm theorizing! Don't laugh at me, I'm silly!

    1.) The guy that is just hot.
    2.) The guy that is not hot at all.
    3.) The guy that is average looking in the beginning, but when you see him more and more you're attracted to him more and more. Eventually he's the hottest guy ever.
    3.) The guy that is super hot looking, but the more and more you look at him the uglier he gets.

    So I don't know! I've seen all four types lol I'm a goofy i swear
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    May 09, 2010 2:28 AM GMT
    I like that theory...so Im taking that you usually go for number 3?
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    May 09, 2010 2:46 AM GMT
    Hmm, JP.

    poncho.jpg

    I think we've found a new maaaaaatch . . .

    jprichva saidA guy wearing a smart poncho, capri pants, saddle shoes, and sporting a beanie copter.

    I melt.
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    May 09, 2010 3:08 AM GMT
    Soulasphyx said...
    3.) The guy that is super hot looking, but the more and more you look at him the uglier he gets.


    There's another type: The guy that is super hot looking, but the more he talks the uglier he gets.
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    May 09, 2010 4:10 AM GMT
    Hot factors: A boy who doesn't have to try to look good. He just stands infront of you, with undone hair, a white T shirt, and unshaven. All natural guy = HOT.

    Also, boys who are humble about the way they look. The hottest guy, can give a little bitt of cockyness, and it is an automatic no thanks.
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    May 09, 2010 4:55 AM GMT
    I think a guy is hot when his face is handsome, when his body is well kept, when he is hung, when he has no chips on his shoulder, when he knows how to communicate his feelings and there is no attitude, when he has pride in himself. icon_wink.gif
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    May 09, 2010 5:12 AM GMT
    A guy with a flat-billed cap, pierced ears, pronounced jaw line, blonde hair, and a DC shirt. icon_wink.gif

    The guy that puts off the bad-ass vibe, but turns into a teddy bear when you get him alone.

    A guy that is good at communicating his feelings.
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    May 09, 2010 5:26 AM GMT
    It's the way they carry themselves; they have to be a guy! Carry themselves like a guy! Confidence of a man!
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    May 09, 2010 8:17 AM GMT
    umm.. a straight guy? haha
  • Delivis

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    May 09, 2010 8:18 AM GMT
    What makes a guy hot? A fever usually does the trick.
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    May 09, 2010 1:41 PM GMT
    muscled body
    handsome face
    confidence
    certain edge to him
    sexiness drips off him
  • rnch

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    May 09, 2010 2:00 PM GMT
    guy94hg59 said... boys who are humble about the way they look. The hottest guy, can give a little bitt of cockyness, and it is an automatic no thanks.
    YES!! an immediate and total turn off for me is a passibly attractive guy who thinks he's God's Gift to the world.

    Pretty People raise a certain amount of skepticism in me. they are nice to look at and lust over but they usually seek out their own kind. when they deign to talk to a barely average looking guy like me i wonder what the hell they really want from me. icon_rolleyes.gif

    i'm constantly amazed at what i find appealing and attractive in a man. there is no particular "type" or size or height or skin color that i like. clean cut, innocent looking "boy next door" types catch my attention. nice eyes and eyebrows, regardless of eye color, are an immediate attractor for me. well shaped glutes, a cute smile, pumped up pecs gets my attention, as does a pleasing speaking voice. certain regional accents makes me want to "fuck their voice". icon_twisted.gif

    initial attraction is fun; but there has to be intelligence, sense of humor and a total lack of macho-man bullshit for me to come back for more.

    my current bf fills all my requirements! no wonder it took me so long to find him! icon_biggrin.gif
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    May 09, 2010 2:18 PM GMT
    Said it elsewhere, seek it for myself and in myself, so I'll say it again a little differently. Hot is an inner strength and confidence, and power that moves with ease and kindness in each step.

    A truly "hot" man isn't always the hottest body, but it is worked, and tested by gym or running or rowing. It may not be all the way "there" but it's unquestionably on the way to it, not 'from' it.

    A hot man wants to live inside a body that is tested and challenged and sculpted to a personal ideal. Some younger men have it, but - and this may be a factor of being over 40 - the more well worn men just have a few degrees on the pups. They cut a path in space before them that clearly and unquestionably belongs to the tribe - tapered, thick, hard, strong, and passionate, and carrying a spirit in their eyes, a confidence in their stillness, and hope in their glance.

    America is losing these guys. They used to be heroes, now, they're fewer and fewer as five-minute fame and solipsism rule so much of what is the model.

    *sigh*
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    May 09, 2010 2:30 PM GMT
    So many things can make a guy hot. It depends on the man. With some, it is a great body, others a great smile or super handsome face.

    But I've met guys who look rather ordinary and after talking with them find them super attractive because of their personality, intelligence, volunteer work they do, etc.

    Now if there is a guy out there with a great body, handsome face, killer smile, super intelligent, kind hearted, and into giving back to the wold - that guy would be SUPER HOT!
  • RSportsguy

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    May 09, 2010 2:49 PM GMT
    Confidence without arrogance
    Nice--genuine not when he knows someone is paying attention
    good sense of humor
    good to average shape--he does not have to have a 6 pack
  • tbeaux

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    May 09, 2010 3:05 PM GMT
    A guy who has a confidence, who sticks by what he thinks, and most importantly a guy with a sense of humor... I LOOOVEE laughing. if a guy can keep me rolling, the better. As far as physical, as long as I think he has a very beautiful face that's fine with me.
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    Aug 22, 2010 4:58 PM GMT
    Well there are a lot of things that grab my attention. Firstly, if it is a picture on a website, it depends on what is revealed on that picture. Listing those would be: on a slim and muscular and weight/height proportionate frame, the following features would be ideal:
    1: 6-pak abs
    2. large chiseled biceps and pecs
    3. thick muscular thighs
    4. blue eyes
    5. handsome face
    6. a nice bubble butt
    7. a long and thick cock?
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:02 PM GMT
    Hahaha good looking than me ;3
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:03 PM GMT
    First, his mind and heart trump ANYTHING! Even though I am physically fit, a guy who has humanity in his heart, loves to play and be goofy, makes that man HOT, and he doesn't have have to be an Adonis. icon_lol.gificon_wink.gificon_eek.gif
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:13 PM GMT
    a good chest with hair on it but not too much. and being masculine.
    just like the guy i'm dating. icon_redface.gif