One thing I learned about gay life

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    May 09, 2010 5:14 AM GMT
    One thing well, two things that I learned about gay life are that u have ur gay normal men who can hold intelligent respectful chats online and in person. Then u have ur faggets who look for small shit to complain about and to also belittle ppl. Why is this?
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    May 09, 2010 5:30 AM GMT
    its not only gay life. its world and the people in general
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    May 09, 2010 2:49 PM GMT
    Fenix_Stone saidOne thing well, two things that I learned about gay life are that u have ur gay normal men who can hold intelligent respectful chats online and in person. Then u have ur faggets who look for small shit to complain about and to also belittle ppl. Why is this?
    Because, unfortunately, stupidity is not exclusive to heterosexuals. That would be nice, though. icon_razz.gif
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    May 09, 2010 2:52 PM GMT

    Hey Felix, are you referring to this site? Because we see that a lot on predominately straight sites, too.
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    May 09, 2010 2:57 PM GMT
    WOW that's all you've learnt about being gay huh... feelin sorry for ya right now.
  • calibro

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    May 09, 2010 3:00 PM GMT
    is fagget the new nigga? seems if you have to use that word to complain about someone else that you're the one who is belittling.
  • jlly_rnchr

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    May 09, 2010 3:02 PM GMT
    I would have thought one thing you've learned about gay life is how to spell faggot. And maybe not to use that word, because that's more belittling than the comments from a couple of small-minded gay guys.
  • swimbikerun

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    May 09, 2010 3:04 PM GMT
    shan37 saidits not only gay life. its world and the people in general
    Although I've noticed people post things online they'd never have the balls to say to your face. However balls on your face can be nice every now and then.
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    May 09, 2010 3:06 PM GMT
    I've always felt that anybody (gay or straight) who complains about small things in life really isn't happy. They'd rather complain in a negative context. The realty is, most of those small things really aren't important.

    I've always said that if you have an issue with someone else, rather than get all emotional and pick it, express your thoughts reasonably. The other person may not realize it and above all, you dont' want to create "a mountain from a molehill".
    Its drama that isn't necessary.
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    May 09, 2010 3:10 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidI've always felt that anybody (gay or straight) who complains about small things in life really isn't happy. They'd rather complain in a negative context. The realty is, most of those small things really aren't important.

    I've always said that if you have an issue with someone else, rather than get all emotional and pick it, express your thoughts reasonably. The other person may not realize it and above all, you dont' want to create "a mountain from a molehill".
    Its drama that isn't necessary.
    This is a pretty nice way of looking at things. I like it. Plus your ass shot is hot.
    Why do many gay guys like 'drama' anyway?
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    May 09, 2010 3:16 PM GMT
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    Why do many gay guys like 'drama' anyway?[/quote]

    That's a real good question. I'd be interested in hearing theories on that as well. Perhaps it deserves it's own thread icon_smile.gif
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    May 09, 2010 3:24 PM GMT
    calibro saidis fagget the new nigga? seems if you have to use that word to complain about someone else that you're the one who is belittling.


    True, but different. "Nigga" amongst black people is a good thing. He is that hyper-masculine, kick-your-ass for getting out of line, tolerates zero bullshit, pro-black guy that is so revered in the community.
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    May 09, 2010 4:00 PM GMT
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    crewdude1 said
    Why do many gay guys like 'drama' anyway?[/quote]

    That's a real good question. I'd be interested in hearing theories on that as well. Perhaps it deserves it's own thread icon_smile.gif
    Look bitch this is my thread. Back off! lol!!!icon_twisted.gif
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    May 09, 2010 4:06 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Hey Felix, are you referring to this site? Because we see that a lot on predominately straight sites, too.



    Not juss this site all sites and in life juss everywhere I go I see gay dudes being the stereotypical gay man then complaining ppl r homophobes
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    May 09, 2010 4:10 PM GMT
    calibro saidis fagget the new nigga? seems if you have to use that word to complain about someone else that you're the one who is belittling.


    well if u are sayin fagget is the new term for nigga cus I'm black then u r belittling me and bein ignorant so yea it's a two way street. But as with most things any word u just about say will b belittling to someone. But i never put a name behind it either so how did I belittle someone who was not stated. Unless u feel it was directed towards u.
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    May 09, 2010 4:13 PM GMT
    jlly_rnchr saidI would have thought one thing you've learned about gay life is how to spell faggot. And maybe not to use that word, because that's more belittling than the comments from a couple of small-minded gay guys.



    I'm from the south i know u northern ppl say faggot but we say fagget here and honestly that is ur open but it is appreciated
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    May 09, 2010 4:14 PM GMT
    Fenix_Stone saidOne thing well, two things that I learned about gay life are that u have ur gay normal men who can hold intelligent respectful chats online and in person. Then u have ur faggets who look for small shit to complain about and to also belittle ppl. Why is this?


    because it's sunday.
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    May 09, 2010 4:16 PM GMT
    Fenix_Stone said
    meninlove said
    Hey Felix, are you referring to this site? Because we see that a lot on predominately straight sites, too.



    Not juss this site all sites and in life juss everywhere I go I see gay dudes being the stereotypical gay man then complaining ppl r homophobes


    lol, what we meant was that on mainly straight sites we see straight people doing what you describe.

    Here, like this, we changed your OP to make the point clearer. icon_wink.gif
    " One thing well, two things that I learned about STRAIGHT life are that u have ur STRAIGHT normal men and women who can hold intelligent respectful chats online and in person. Then u have ur STRAIGHT men and women who look for small shit to complain about and to also belittle ppl. "


    -us two
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    May 09, 2010 4:16 PM GMT
    There will always be assholes in life. This is a human problem, not a gay problem. But the best thing about assholes is that they let you know how they act very quickly. This is the "Smelly Asshole" syndrome.
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    May 09, 2010 4:18 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidI've always felt that anybody (gay or straight) who complains about small things in life really isn't happy. They'd rather complain in a negative context. The realty is, most of those small things really aren't important.

    I've always said that if you have an issue with someone else, rather than get all emotional and pick it, express your thoughts reasonably. The other person may not realize it and above all, you dont' want to create "a mountain from a molehill".
    Its drama that isn't necessary.


    sweet I agree totally I am like this. But wats funny tho is ur called a ass for being like this by most. I am a blunt person the way I am online I am in life I don't back down from ppl like I used to. I prefer to solve issues like a man and a adult but with most gay ppl I meet they want to dramatize it and net pick. My str8 friends and I get along and they know about me but they also feel like me. So I know it's not juss me
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    May 09, 2010 4:23 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Fenix_Stone said
    meninlove said
    Hey Felix, are you referring to this site? Because we see that a lot on predominately straight sites, too.



    Not juss this site all sites and in life juss everywhere I go I see gay dudes being the stereotypical gay man then complaining ppl r homophobes


    lol, what we meant was that on mainly straight sites we see straight people doing what you describe.

    Here, like this, we changed your OP to make the point clearer. icon_wink.gif
    " One thing well, two things that I learned about STRAIGHT life are that u have ur STRAIGHT normal men and women who can hold intelligent respectful chats online and in person. Then u have ur STRAIGHT men and women who look for small shit to complain about and to also belittle ppl. "


    -us two


    yea I know but it is online and in life. Straight ppl tho r not as catty as gay ppl
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    May 09, 2010 4:25 PM GMT
    Jasonfest saidThere will always be assholes in life. This is a human problem, not a gay problem. But the best thing about assholes is that they let you know how they act very quickly. This is the "Smelly Asshole" syndrome.



    Lol i Like that hahahahahahaha
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    May 09, 2010 4:32 PM GMT

    Take a look at city-data.com, it's predominantly straight and wow the cattiness got so bad we rarely ever post there anymore. The gay people on that site, on the other hand, are often the soul of reason. Go figure.

    -just Doug this time
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    May 09, 2010 4:32 PM GMT
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    May 09, 2010 5:08 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Take a look at city-data.com, it's predominantly straight and wow the cattiness got so bad we rarely ever post there anymore. The gay people on that site, on the other hand, are often the soul of reason. Go figure.

    -just Doug this time



    wow I am on bgc which is a predominately blk gay site and omg i hate it they are so racist and juss the stereotypical so called gay. All they care about is dick who fucked who and spreading lies, i take 4 months breaks from the site, lol, before i use it at times.