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    May 09, 2010 7:48 AM GMT
    how do you know if you are dating losers?how do you know if you are
    friends with bad boys & losers or not?my last best friend was both a
    bad boy and a loser.he was a bully,eco freak,sissyboy,crossdresser,
    bisexual man,user,hot tempered,violent guy,totally insane.he has
    scizophrenia.so i'm paraind in making new friends these days because
    of him.so i wanna meet & chat with other gay single men online before
    i become friends with other gay single men these days.i met ex my bi
    buddy in a bar in 1995.bars are not a good place tomake new friends
    and new lovers at all.i would rather meet gay men online over bars
    these days.
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    May 09, 2010 4:13 PM GMT
    bigbubba1972 saidhow do you know if you are dating losers?
    When they never win.
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    May 09, 2010 4:32 PM GMT
    good answer
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    May 09, 2010 8:48 PM GMT
    I don't wanna know date any badboys at all.i don't want to date any
    losers at all.
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    May 10, 2010 2:07 AM GMT
    bigbubba1972 saidI don't wanna know date any badboys at all.i don't want to date any
    losers at all.

    Try a gay church.
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    May 10, 2010 2:15 AM GMT
    If you don't want to do date losers, stay away from men.
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    May 10, 2010 4:12 AM GMT
    Aggieboy saidIf you don't want to do date losers, stay away from men.

    And that, as they say, is that!
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    May 10, 2010 4:21 AM GMT
    i'm a nonreligious gay man.what gay friendly religions are there?what
    vegetarian friendly religions are there?
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    May 10, 2010 6:24 PM GMT
    Does he fall into any of these categories?

    Loser:

    1. A person who fails to win.

    2. Someone who loses in a specified manner.

    3. Someone with bad luck or poor skills who consistently loses.

    4. Something of poor quality.

    5. A person of unhappy circumstances.

    6. A contemptible or unfashionable person.

    If you answered yes to any of the options, he's not worth dating. Move on.
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    May 18, 2010 6:28 AM GMT
    what do you over secretive guys are?i hate screts between friends and lovers.how do you know when a stranger or a friend or lover is lying to you?
    i have got an out of gay friend who says has no criminal record but won't
    prove it to me and won't let me see his record on wisconsin court.i think
    he's lying to me and trying to hide some things from me.what do you
    think?i showed him mine.he is oldfasioned too.he is a non-technology
    user as well a closted gay man.should i dump him as a friend?he does
    not have computer or a phone or a cellphone at all.he's afraid that others
    will try to steal his personal information.that's why he does not use any
    technology.i think is insecure,selfish,paraiod, and delusional.what do
    you think?i'm a proud gay high tech man.i can't low tech people and
    non-technology users at all.they are losers to me.what do you think?
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    May 19, 2010 12:15 AM GMT
    bigbubba1972 said
    i have got an out of gay friend who says has no criminal record but won't
    prove it to me and won't let me see his record on wisconsin court.i think
    he's lying to me and trying to hide some things from me.what do you
    think?
    I think learning how to research people would be a good idea. icon_wink.gif
    http://wcca.wicourts.gov/
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    May 19, 2010 12:20 AM GMT
    Losers and bad guys are every where. So are good people. You have to use your judgement. When you see a red flag, don't ignore it. You will know what your red flags are. For me, anyone who does meth, coke, heroine (hard drug) gets big red flags. I know the signs and symptoms of a user and trust when my friends (recovered users) see the signs or symptoms.
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    May 19, 2010 12:20 AM GMT
    PS if your family doesn't like him, there's probably a reason and you might want to listen to them.
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    May 19, 2010 4:54 PM GMT
    i'm not a family man at all.my crazy relatives think i should date girls instead of other guys even thou gay not straight.they think the only
    reason i'm gay because i haven't met the right girl.which is not true
    at all.
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    May 19, 2010 5:03 PM GMT
    http://www.ehow.com/how_2139183_avoid-dating-loser.html

    Also, as an aside, I wonder if losers online are drawn to your lack of spelling, grammar, sentence structure, spaces after periods, etc.? This is just as important for presenting your best side as a flattering (but realistic) photo. At least that's my opinion. I can get a lot about a person from how he/she writes. Just suggesting you keep that in mind if you wade deeper into online dating.

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    May 19, 2010 5:11 PM GMT
    DjDorchester saidhttp://www.ehow.com/how_2139183_avoid-dating-loser.html

    Also, as an aside, I wonder if losers online are drawn to your lack of spelling, grammar, sentence structure, spaces after periods, etc.? This is just as important for presenting your best side as a flattering (but realistic) photo. At least that's my opinion. I can get a lot about a person from how he/she writes. Just suggesting you keep that in mind if you wade deeper into online dating.



    Was thinking the same thing!
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    May 19, 2010 5:28 PM GMT
    i have got a.d.d. i'm a slow learner.i'm mentally challenged.i'm both smart
    and mentally disabled.i'm better at reading than spelling and math.i have
    got a learning disorder.i was in special ed classes in my childhood.being
    gay single mentally disbled smart man is one of the reasons why i love
    using the internet and online dating so much.i met my ex best friend at
    a bar and he a badboy as a big loser.i'd rather meet gay men online than
    in bars any day.i'm nonsmoker,nondrinker,i'm totally drugfree.i live a drug
    free lifestyle.ilive a vegetarian lifestyle too.i care about my own health unlike
    my ex best friend.he's a binge drinker,heavy drinker,and alcoholic.
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    May 19, 2010 6:01 PM GMT
    Well I guess everybody's definition of a "loser" is different. But you seem to know what kinds of guys to stay away from, the problem with online dating is that it's so easy for people to misrepresent themselves, lie, and scam - and the anonymity of it makes it even more difficult to identify these types. Putting yourself out there online is brave and scary, but be honest about yourself and, most importantly, be skeptical of the guys you talk to.

    Bottom line: You never really know who's on the other side of the Internet.

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    May 19, 2010 6:16 PM GMT
    when you meet others online you can do background checks on them
    before you meet them in person.you can't do that with blind dates or in
    bars or in public places at all.
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    May 19, 2010 6:18 PM GMT
    Don't be too naive. How do you know they've even given you their real name, age, location, or any other information? I'm not arguing against meeting people online, just saying that it doesn't exactly make it easier to filter out the losers and abusers.

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    May 19, 2010 10:35 PM GMT
    I'm very picky who i'm gonna date.i won't date any smokers/drinkers/single
    fathers at all.i won't date any low tech gay men at all.i won't gay men who
    does have his own computer/cellphone/his own place to live in at all.i'm
    both a private man and a social man.i rather watch sports at home than
    go to sporting events.i don't like crowrded places at all.i like to listen to
    music at home.i like to watch movies at home.i'm a nonreligious man.
    i'm not an oldfashioned gay man at all.i'm not intooldfasioned dating
    at all.
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    Jul 23, 2010 6:57 PM GMT
    i would rather meet other gay big muscled men online before i meeet them
    in person,go out on dates with them,become friends with them,become
    lovers with them.online dating is safer than oldfashioned dating and offline
    dating.