May 10, 2010 1:50 AM GMT
Hey guys, looking for some advice here. I never really had a boyfriend before(came out 8 months ago), and it seems where I live is a barren wasteland of gay people. I think I can count on one hand the number of gays I've met. All my friends are straight, and most of them see me as one of the few gay guys they know and hang out with. Everyone says to go to a gay club or bar to meet other guys, but the club scene seems a bit weird. I'm not into dancing to pop music, and everyone says it's a shallow environment. I would ideally like to meet someone elsewhere, but since you can't tell who's gay, it's tough. I was wondering if you guys had any suggestions.