How can i know if a Straight guy is Gay? Like me..i dont look Gay...

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    May 10, 2010 9:46 PM GMT
    Well, i dunno if only gays look at people to the Eyes mosty. I make eye contact...but i dont wink to let him know i am gay...thats totaly gay...hahahah, i want to know ways to make someone get atracted to you. or just to be friends, dont have to be for a sirius relationship. All i want is friends, and if something can happen, it is posible heheh. But friends....
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    May 11, 2010 3:41 AM GMT
    have you thought about ASKING the person if he's gay or not?


    lol @ "I don't look gay"
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    May 11, 2010 3:44 AM GMT
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    May 11, 2010 3:47 AM GMT
    You don't think you look gay?....really?


































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    May 11, 2010 3:48 AM GMT
    Oh god.................
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    May 11, 2010 3:51 AM GMT
    GuerrillaSodomite saidOh god.................


    ^^ This.

    Pray to Jesus!
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    May 11, 2010 3:52 AM GMT
    learn the mating calls?
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    May 11, 2010 3:52 AM GMT
    This is gonna seem immature but...... lolololololol icon_rolleyes.gificon_lol.gif
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    May 11, 2010 3:53 AM GMT
    I especially enjoy the title question, let's re-cap, shall we:

    "How can I know if a straight guy is gay?"

    Here's a hint: if he's straight, he's not gay.
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    May 11, 2010 3:56 AM GMT
    Oh I'm quite fond of the winking part icon_razz.gif
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    May 11, 2010 3:56 AM GMT
    bluechris saidWell, i dunno if only gays look at people to the Eyes mosty. I make eye contact...but i dont wink to let him know i am gay...thats totaly gay...hahahah, i want to know ways to make someone get atracted to you. or just to be friends, dont have to be for a sirius relationship. All i want is friends, and if something can happen, it is posible heheh. But friends....


    how about having a simple conversation? ...to find out? i dunno just saying ...
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    May 11, 2010 4:00 AM GMT
    ^^ MeOhMy
    Don't be a wise ass! str8 guys are gay only if they don't look str8? or Maybe that's metro-sexual?
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    May 11, 2010 4:21 AM GMT
    How do YOU let someone know?

    Bottom line for me has always been to just make a friend. If they're interested in anything more they'll let me know.

    For me, even between just friends, the conversation of my being gay eventually comes up. Unless I'm purposefully avoiding it, which unless the other person is a total moron, is easy to see. If the other person was gay, and interested that would be the opportunity for them to retort.

    The rest is luck. Especially with guys like us. There's really no easy time, or place to run into one. We just sort of.. pop up.
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    May 11, 2010 4:32 AM GMT
    If you compliment him and see how he responds. Use your intuition, you can tell by body language/face by his reaction. If he returns a compliment (especially a body part) chances r he wants to jump on it
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    May 11, 2010 5:45 AM GMT
    MeOhMy said
    GuerrillaSodomite saidOh god.................


    ^^ This.

    Pray to Jesus!


    Actually, I probably have more pull with the other guy, or Basement Cat.
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    May 11, 2010 6:03 AM GMT
    If you can't see the gay in yourself, God help you find other gay people.
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    May 11, 2010 6:16 AM GMT
    Hillie saidYou don't think you look gay?....really?


    Knew this was coming..































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    May 11, 2010 3:17 PM GMT
    KentuckyTuss saidHow do YOU let someone know?

    Bottom line for me has always been to just make a friend. If they're interested in anything more they'll let me know.

    For me, even between just friends, the conversation of my being gay eventually comes up. Unless I'm purposefully avoiding it, which unless the other person is a total moron, is easy to see. If the other person was gay, and interested that would be the opportunity for them to retort.

    The rest is luck. Especially with guys like us. There's really no easy time, or place to run into one. We just sort of.. pop up.


    Thanks for your comment. Your the only one who took this siriusly...this is why i left before, because people here start laughing at others...

    and there are Straight Gays for does who was thinking other things. The Gay word for me means that he is vrazy...you know, and straight gay are like the 98% here on Realjock. think before posting...

    And without topis like this..your all bored, so...
    And yes...i am kinda inmature since i dont see too much the reality lately, but i have a whole life ahead and i can do so many things etc.

    If someone have something usefull i can use , tell me, i wana know how to start a gay conversation without going straight to it. xD, and to find out if he is gay or straight. =3
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    May 11, 2010 3:35 PM GMT
    I once had this long oddly developed conversation with a female friend in my chemistry class talking about 'whats hot in a guy' etc.. after about 5-10 minutes of arguing what we thought was hot she stopped and blinked at me confused and I just laughed.

    I think it shook her a bit but she got over it icon_razz.gif

    - Try and get creative buddy things don't have to be so straightforward all the time. I dunno talk about Madonna, if he squeals he's gay icon_razz.gif

    There's always gaydar but not everyone's so good at it icon_razz.gif
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    May 11, 2010 4:02 PM GMT
    MeOhMy saidI especially enjoy the title question, let's re-cap, shall we:

    "How can I know if a straight guy is gay?"

    Here's a hint: if he's straight, he's not gay.

    this is annoying ... " I don't look gay " ... what, exactly, does that mean?

    ... because it feels like it assumes that there is a universal look to being homosexual. this goes along with the archaic words such as: straight-acting, masculine, discreet, etc.

    gay is simply a part of who you are and directly means that you enjoy some sort of sexual intimacy with the same sex. it does not mean that there is a certain look or act to you. that is both up to the person and what kinds of behaviors they model.

    gay has a look so long as you are abiding by such archaic terms.
    however, there may be a gay feel - e.g., could that fellow be gay? something about him gives me this feeling that he is.
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    May 11, 2010 4:06 PM GMT
    MeOhMy saidI especially enjoy the title question, let's re-cap, shall we:

    "How can I know if a straight guy is gay?"

    Here's a hint: if he's straight, he's not gay.
    LMAO!
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    May 11, 2010 4:08 PM GMT
    lol @ this thread...
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    May 11, 2010 4:32 PM GMT
    Well if he deep throats me...
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    May 11, 2010 4:58 PM GMT
    bluechris saidWell, i dunno if only gays look at people to the Eyes mosty. I make eye contact...but i dont wink to let him know i am gay...thats totaly gay...hahahah, i want to know ways to make someone get atracted to you. or just to be friends, dont have to be for a sirius relationship. All i want is friends, and if something can happen, it is posible heheh. But friends....



    interesting, cuz one of my friends yes hes only 18 but him and i wrestle sometimes but the thing is he seems to like to lay on me long time after pinning me, he swears hes straight, but i highly doubt he is
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    May 11, 2010 8:37 PM GMT
    im a straight man that gets into gay situations heheheheheeheh that is what i am. but hmmm my straight friend grabbed my junk before does that make him interested. o he also told me lets go in the woods lol. O my other straighht friend asked me if i wanted him to fuck me lol. idk i like str8 ppl