Show-er vs. Grow-er

  • tbone25

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    May 12, 2010 10:32 PM GMT
    One of my first gay fbs told me that there are show-ers and grow-ers, some guys who their dicks sort of stand out -- are a good length and thickness even when not hard -- they look hot in a pair of gym shorts (nice outline) and then growers are the types of guys that their dicks really shrink when not aroused but then grow when excited.

    I'm the later one -- no complaints about size when I'm hard (quite the contrary) but would love to fill out those shorts a bit more when not -- is there any reason for this? anything you can do?

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    May 12, 2010 11:15 PM GMT
    Grower... I am very happy with my size when hard.. but when down I've also got tight freakin nuts so it makes everything stand out more hahaha in gym shorts I often catch women and some men taking a look heh..
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    May 12, 2010 11:15 PM GMT


    buy a cock ring.
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    May 13, 2010 1:07 PM GMT
    I don't think they're just looking at your shorts lilTanker icon_biggrin.gif
  • Kage

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    May 13, 2010 1:19 PM GMT
    I have a tight sack and it supports the cock nicely so the bulge is there but I am a grower.
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    May 13, 2010 1:37 PM GMT
    grower here.
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    May 13, 2010 1:40 PM GMT
    Grower.... better that way, I'd rather be big when it matters most. icon_twisted.gif
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    May 13, 2010 1:51 PM GMT
    With a shower sometimes what you see is what you get; however, a grower can be a miraculous surpriseā€¦miraculous I say.
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    May 13, 2010 2:33 PM GMT
    Both! icon_twisted.gif
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    May 13, 2010 2:42 PM GMT
    I fit more into the shower category. My junk doesn't really shrink when it's soft, it just sort of hangs there and remains nearly the same size as when I'm hard. And I've got low hanging nuts that are always getting in the way, too.

    Being a shower (rather than a grower) has some minimal advantages in limited situations, I guess, but frankly having to deal with large junk 24/7 is a pain. Have you ever sat on your own testicles by accident or pinched your weiner in your pant leg? I do all the time and I guarantee you it is no fun at all.

    My nickname for my junk is UNCLE FLOPPY because it's always flopping around getting in the way.
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    May 13, 2010 2:44 PM GMT
    I'm totally a grower and the difference in size is bizzare - especially after a hard cardio workout at the gym, but that's probably the ephedrine!
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    May 13, 2010 4:55 PM GMT
    I kind of have both?

    I'm not allowed to wear Basketball shorts in public. lol.
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    May 13, 2010 4:59 PM GMT
    Once again, the OP asked none of you to disclose anything about yourselves, and you all jumped at the opportunity to tell everyone about your dicks and completely ignore his question (save for Hillie).

    Nice.
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    May 13, 2010 5:01 PM GMT
    badmikeyt saidOnce again, the OP asked none of you to disclose anything about yourselves, and you all jumped at the opportunity to tell everyone about your dicks and completely ignore his question (save for Hillie).

    Nice.



    Not that you addressed the OP's original question, either, Mikey.

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    May 13, 2010 5:01 PM GMT
    Hillie answered it already. icon_razz.gif
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    May 13, 2010 5:04 PM GMT
    badmikeyt saidHillie answered it already. icon_razz.gif


    So.... what was your complaint again?

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    May 13, 2010 5:04 PM GMT
    As far as I can tell, there shouldn't be anything you can do about it at this point. You're either a grower or a shower.

    Contrary to what I just said, you could look some stuff up on jelqing. I've heard of at least a few people having success with it.
    http://www.jelqing.com/


    ShinyToyTrev saidI kind of have both?

    I'm not allowed to wear Basketball shorts in public. lol.


    At least not while wearing compression shorts, right? lol

    I'm the same way. I'd say shower because it definitely shows (and, to my embarrassment, clearly)through my jeans, shorts, gym shorts, etc. Even when not erect. And yeah, people are always looking at my junk in public but that isn't as bad as people looking at my junk when I'm at the gym, hence the compression shorts. I'm getting more and more use to it though so I might not care in a couple of years but I definitely care now.

    So if you see me suddenly raise my left leg out of nowhere at a party, you know it's because I'm sportin' a raging semi, ha ha icon_lol.gif
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    May 13, 2010 5:08 PM GMT
    DjDorchester said
    badmikeyt saidHillie answered it already. icon_razz.gif


    So.... what was your complaint again?



    That another thread seeking advice or a simple anwer to a question turned immediately into a TMI-laden "LOOK AT ME!" forum.
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    May 13, 2010 5:10 PM GMT
    badmikeyt said
    DjDorchester said
    badmikeyt saidHillie answered it already. icon_razz.gif


    So.... what was your complaint again?



    That another thread seeking advice or a simple anwer to a question turned immediately into a TMI-laden "LOOK AT ME!" forum.




    Well good thing you're around to keep us all on topic.

    So anyway... can we please get back to the subject of my cock??



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    May 13, 2010 5:28 PM GMT
    badmikeyt said
    DjDorchester said
    badmikeyt saidHillie answered it already. icon_razz.gif


    So.... what was your complaint again?



    That another thread seeking advice or a simple anwer to a question turned immediately into a TMI-laden "LOOK AT ME!" forum.


    Well, in our defense, the OP did a "look at me" himself while presenting the topic. There's barely even a question to answer at the end, it's almost like an after thought.

    Besides, I don't see you providing any advice. icon_confused.gif
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    May 13, 2010 5:29 PM GMT
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    May 13, 2010 5:49 PM GMT
    Dragoonxi saidAs far as I can tell, there shouldn't be anything you can do about it at this point. You're either a grower or a shower.

    Contrary to what I just said, you could look some stuff up on jelqing. I've heard of at least a few people having success with it.
    http://www.jelqing.com/


    ShinyToyTrev saidI kind of have both?

    I'm not allowed to wear Basketball shorts in public. lol.


    At least not while wearing compression shorts, right? lol

    I'm the same way. I'd say shower because it definitely shows (and, to my embarrassment, clearly)through my jeans, shorts, gym shorts, etc. Even when not erect. And yeah, people are always looking at my junk in public but that isn't as bad as people looking at my junk when I'm at the gym, hence the compression shorts. I'm getting more and more use to it though so I might not care in a couple of years but I definitely care now.

    So if you see me suddenly raise my left leg out of nowhere at a party, you know it's because I'm sportin' a raging semi, ha ha icon_lol.gif

    Hahahaha. Yeah. It's distracting when the middle of my shorts don't move as much as the rest of my basketball shorts. Hahahaha. And I even wear boxer briefs.
  • OptimusMatt

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    May 13, 2010 6:25 PM GMT
    Yeah actually, get a pair of 'enhancing' trunks or briefs. They have an elastic band in the pouch that keeps the pouch tight and your junk RIGHT upfront and centre.

    I wear them all the time, really nice in a pair of tightish jeans with a rockin belt buckle

    'Nice buckle bud!!'

    *smirks* yeah, riiight. Here, take a closer look *grins*


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    May 13, 2010 6:25 PM GMT
    Studies have shown that the cock of the average American man is between five and one-half inches and six inches long when hard. Some are longer, some are shorter.

    There is nothing you can do to make it longer. So stop fantasizing about the ten-inch dicks you see on porn stars, they are one in a million.

    Be happy with what you've got, and make the most of it.

    (Yes, I am a show-er, not a grow-er.)

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    May 13, 2010 6:45 PM GMT
    I'm jealous of the sow-ers. HATE being a grow-er, but oh well...nothing I can do about it.