May 13, 2010 4:24 AM GMT
Ok i was in a relationship where my bf hit me i snapped and whooped his ass but i was demonized because i stood up for myself. The friends we shared took his side cus he looked innocent and told him he was better off without me and that he did not need a man that would hit him. Ok i am like he was on druggs and intoxicated at that time i had dealt with him fucking my ex i lost my virginity to and i dealt with the verbal abuse and phones calls just to call nme a piece of shit. so why was i demonized for protecting myself whne he jumped on me in the park and thought he was gonna beat me up. o i stopped on round one and walked away then he charged me again and jumpedon me, i won again. But my question is why is domestic abuse and rape in gay life overlooked so much ?