When your past relationship creates problems with your new one

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    May 13, 2010 10:09 PM GMT
    This is an observation on gay relationships, seems there are two types, ones who move from a shorter to a longer relationship with each person and one's who go from longer to shorter and shorter relationships. What I've discovered is that guys who go from a long term to a shorter and shorter relationship seem to be jaded and are always looking for problems or issues, question this, question that etc... seems they are bent on looking for ways to find faults in the other guy as their past is somewhat haunting them. maybe why the realtionships get shorter and shorter? I'm the one who's realtionships get longer and longer as I don't have that built in fail factor and it's really bothering me.....small comments like "we'll see or that's interesting or general questions on being honest" Man it's tough going from a 11y to a new one.... Getting tired of having to prove everything I say as I'm so damn honest... anyone else gone thru this
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    May 14, 2010 3:32 PM GMT
    Perhaps they need to take some time for themselves and get comfortable again in their own skin instead of seeking out relationships to validate the brokenness that is themselves.

    Or maybe that's just what they want and have no problem with it.