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  • martinaston

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    May 14, 2010 8:15 AM GMT
    Is there any secret trick to getting u desensitized boys off other than near pneumatic hammering friction? Help me out...icon_confused.gif
  • Timbales

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    May 14, 2010 12:41 PM GMT
    use your mouth or ass instead
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    May 14, 2010 12:46 PM GMT
    Haven't had this problem with any of the guys I've been with (all cut). Except for the one who was on antidepressants which are known to delay/inhibit orgasms.
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    May 14, 2010 1:35 PM GMT
    I'm cut, and cum 2-5 times per day...sometimes six if I'm horny enough.
    Sounds like you need a brand spanking new man. Emphasis on spanking.
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    May 14, 2010 5:56 PM GMT
    I've seen this with cut and uncut guys. Often it is a psychological issue. They start to worry about taking so long to cum and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Sometimes it takes a while for the guy to relax into it with you and then they are fine.
  • martinaston

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    May 14, 2010 9:41 PM GMT
    thanks man, thats really insightful, not things id considered
    I guess as an uncut guy (who comes FAR to easily) I'm just finding with a few (incl current) guys that its really hard 2 get them off, and as a guy with someone I want really want them 2 get as much out of everything as I do. Now Ive got some serious skills lol, which immobilise an uncut guy in seconds, its just cut dudes seem to be immune to my cryptonite (cock-tonite?...nevermind). thanks for the breakdown, i'll do my homework.icon_redface.gif


    southbeach1500 said
    martinaston saidIs there any secret trick to getting u desensitized boys off other than near pneumatic hammering friction? Help me out...icon_confused.gif

    Uh oh..... you've set up a minefield here.

    First of all, almost all cut guys will insist that they are not desensitized. Truth is, they don't know what it's supposed to feel like, so over time they have compensated and whatever little feeling they do get from the head of their cock they consider "normal" sensitivity.

    Second, to say cut guys are desensitized is to say they are sexually deficient in some way. They don't like to hear (read) this truth.

    Third, cut guys have many more issues than just a desensitized glans (head of the cock). Many have been cut so tight that the shaft skin is not able to move at all, so they don't benefit from the gliding action that an intact man experiences. This causes cut guys difficulty as well, and is not at all related to the desensitized, dried out glans.

    But on a positive note:

    Some cut guys still have the frenulum (or parts of it) which is a very sensitive part of the intact cock. So they do get some sensitivity benefits there.

    And, in a weird twist, the circumcision scar is the most sensitive part of the cut cock on many guys, so they are able to compensate by focusing their efforts on that area.



  • martinaston

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    May 14, 2010 9:52 PM GMT
    I actually cant imagine that! Way way 2 painful, I see your point. But consideration aside, are there any other areas left that are still weak to the touch?

    southbeach1500 said
    martinaston saidthanks man, thats really insightful, not things id considered

    I guess as an uncut guy (who comes FAR to easily) I'm just finding with a few (incl current) guys that its really hard 2 get them off, and as a guy with someone I want really want them 2 get as much out of everything as I do. Now Ive got some serious skills lol, which immobilise an uncut guy in seconds, its just cut dudes seem to be immune to my cryptonite (cock-tonite?...nevermind). thanks for the breakdown, i'll do my homework.icon_redface.gif


    Yep, just remember we're missing half of our cock, so you are gonna have to work at least 50% harder (or the cut guy is) in order to be able to cum.

    Also, keep in mind once they get around age 40 (give or take) the glans becomes so desensitized that it's virtually useless sexually.

    Think of it this way: If you were to roll back the foreskin, then put on a pair of jeans and walk around all day with the head of your cock brushing up against your jeans, you would probably be in agony.

    Cut guys do this all the time and don't notice a thing.

    That should tell you something right there. icon_sad.gif


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    May 15, 2010 1:55 PM GMT
    southbeach1500 saidFirst of all, almost all cut guys will insist that they are not desensitized. Truth is, they don't know what it's supposed to feel like, so over time they have compensated and whatever little feeling they do get from the head of their cock they consider "normal" sensitivity.

    Second, to say cut guys are desensitized is to say they are sexually deficient in some way. They don't like to hear (read) this truth.

    Third, cut guys have many more issues than just a desensitized glans (head of the cock). Many have been cut so tight that the shaft skin is not able to move at all, so they don't benefit from the gliding action that an intact man experiences. This causes cut guys difficulty as well, and is not at all related to the desensitized, dried out glans.

    But on a positive note:

    Some cut guys still have the frenulum (or parts of it) which is a very sensitive part of the intact cock. So they do get some sensitivity benefits there.

    And, in a weird twist, the circumcision scar is the most sensitive part of the cut cock on many guys, so they are able to compensate by focusing their efforts on that area.

    [GASP] I think the first and only time I agree with every word that southbeach wrote! I think he's found his calling as an advisor on gay sex matters, and needs to forget about the politics. icon_idea.gif
  • martinaston

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    May 16, 2010 6:21 PM GMT
    southbeach1500 said
    martinaston saidI actually cant imagine that! Way way 2 painful, I see your point. But consideration aside, are there any other areas left that are still weak to the touch?

    Not really.

    We cut guys usually respond best to mental stimulation since we have limited physical inputs remaining on our cock. An uncut guy has the advantage of feeling the erotic stimulation of all those parts of his uncut cock PLUS any additional mental stimulation.

    So if you could figure out what the cut guy you are with wants perhaps in addition to the usual ways of getting him to cum (like maybe he likes verbal, or to be dominated, or to dominate)... whatever non-physical thing, that will probably help the "cum switch" in his brain to fire off.


    Thanks for that, funnily enough we had chatted about that and he said he does find it hard to switch-off mentally and just go with it with sx, hes always very aware and analytical, so yes the mental side of things needs work as his current 'cum switch' involves the 'pneumatic hammering' I was talking about earlier. One word. PAINFUL. icon_eek.gif
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    May 19, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    1.Patience.

    If you start tearing up, sniffling and making weird sounds and sighing and stuff, then i'm going to last another 40 minutes. Because its a major TURN OFF.

    2. Be good.

    can't get away with that half way stuff. Can't just put your mouth on it and bob all weird and crazy just at the head and expect me to cum.

    3. Don't be upset if I ask you stop.

    You're clearly not getting the job done and do not possess the sexual selflessness that it takes to get me off. I'm use to it, its nothing personal. Just figured I'd save you a bit of time and embarrassment. Doesn't mean we can't hook up anymore. I enjoy getting you off more anyway.

    4. Finally, the more I care about you the easier it is for you to get me there.

    If I love you, you make me cum very easily. Its partly psychological, and also because you love me and thus have spent more time learning my body, and understanding what gets me off.
  • martinaston

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    May 20, 2010 8:36 AM GMT
    Halfstep said1.Patience.

    If you start tearing up, sniffling and making weird sounds and sighing and stuff, then i'm going to last another 40 minutes. Because its a major TURN OFF.

    2. Be good.

    can't get away with that half way stuff. Can't just put your mouth on it and bob all weird and crazy just at the head and expect me to cum.

    3. Don't be upset if I ask you stop.

    You're clearly not getting the job done and do not possess the sexual selflessness that it takes to get me off. I'm use to it, its nothing personal. Just figured I'd save you a bit of time and embarrassment. Doesn't mean we can't hook up anymore. I enjoy getting you off more anyway.

    4. Finally, the more I care about you the easier it is for you to get me there.

    If I love you, you make me cum very easily. Its partly psychological, and also because you love me and thus have spent more time learning my body, and understanding what gets me off.



    1. Ok can u give me a few moans or a grunt 2 let me know Im not barking up the wrong tree. Cool.
    2. My 'bob all weird and crazy' years are behind me.
    3. Thats a tough one, can u segue smoothly into 'getting you off more' so that i dont revert to (1.)
    4. Agreed on the psychological aspect.

    thanks HS
  • MikemikeMike

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    May 20, 2010 8:50 AM GMT
    I'm cut and the only time I had a problem was if I was with someone male or female, that once naked, I wasn't that into.icon_idea.gif
  • tajsreve

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    May 20, 2010 10:31 AM GMT
    First of all, almost all cut guys will insist that they are not desensitized. Truth is, they don't know what it's supposed to feel like, so over time they have compensated and whatever little feeling they do get from the head of their cock they consider "normal" sensitivity.

    Second, to say cut guys are desensitized is to say they are sexually deficient in some way. They don't like to hear (read) this truth.

    Third, cut guys have many more issues than just a desensitized glans (head of the cock). Many have been cut so tight that the shaft skin is not able to move at all, so they don't benefit from the gliding action that an intact man experiences. This causes cut guys difficulty as well, and is not at all related to the desensitized, dried out glans.

    But on a positive note:

    Some cut guys still have the frenulum (or parts of it) which is a very sensitive part of the intact cock. So they do get some sensitivity benefits there.

    And, in a weird twist, the circumcision scar is the most sensitive part of the cut cock on many guys, so they are able to compensate by focusing their efforts on that area.



    Never really thought about this... but yeah your right. But I can't say that I miss my foreskin, having had it removed at birth. It would be like anyone saying they miss their umbilical cord. For me the circumcision scar has 0 sensitivity. If I take a l-o-n-g time to come, that is only because I am into the moment/intimacy and am really enjoying the sex and not going for the Blow-my-load goal, or I am just not into sex at the moment. Sometimes with my boyfriend and it has happened, I am just trying to meet his needs, not my own.


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  • martinaston

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    May 20, 2010 8:40 PM GMT
    Interesting about the scar, thanks 4 the tip..
    I guess this thread stems from 'certain skills' getting applause from uncut guys and getting....well just older with some cut guys.
    On the plus side if I look at any porn its always the cut guy who can hammer away endlessly like a champ, if I attempt to get it into 6th we very soon hit a wet patch.
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    May 21, 2010 2:34 PM GMT
    martinaston said
    Halfstep said1.Patience.

    If you start tearing up, sniffling and making weird sounds and sighing and stuff, then i'm going to last another 40 minutes. Because its a major TURN OFF.

    2. Be good.

    can't get away with that half way stuff. Can't just put your mouth on it and bob all weird and crazy just at the head and expect me to cum.

    3. Don't be upset if I ask you stop.

    You're clearly not getting the job done and do not possess the sexual selflessness that it takes to get me off. I'm use to it, its nothing personal. Just figured I'd save you a bit of time and embarrassment. Doesn't mean we can't hook up anymore. I enjoy getting you off more anyway.

    4. Finally, the more I care about you the easier it is for you to get me there.

    If I love you, you make me cum very easily. Its partly psychological, and also because you love me and thus have spent more time learning my body, and understanding what gets me off.



    1. Ok can u give me a few moans or a grunt 2 let me know Im not barking up the wrong tree. Cool.
    2. My 'bob all weird and crazy' years are behind me.
    3. Thats a tough one, can u segue smoothly into 'getting you off more' so that i dont revert to (1.)
    4. Agreed on the psychological aspect.

    thanks HS


    I'm sure we can work that out
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    May 23, 2010 10:53 PM GMT
    I'm cut - and this is the first I've ever heard about being at some sort of disadvantage. I've been just fine all these years. I have to say though, that I wouldn't want to have my cock become any more sensitized than it is already - - - God no - - - no thanks! I'd be a "happy shooter" and my partners wouldn't have been so happy having me cum so quickly - - - which I surely would do if my cock was any more sensitive than it is!

    So a cut cock is truly desensitized somewhat? Good! That way I don't have to think of baseball scores during sex, like some guys do to slow themselves down.
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    May 25, 2010 8:17 AM GMT
    Hmmm...interesting topic..and I suppose I'm the anomoly!

    I'm uncut, and I have the hardest time getting off! Probably purely psychological though, since I have no problem when masterbating- it's when I'm with another guy that all my tools just don't seem to work....The hard-on, however, is everlasting!...

    Guess that's why I decided to be a bottom....Part of the reason anyways
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    May 25, 2010 11:44 AM GMT
    Yeah. It's not an issue for me. Nor has it been for anyone I've been with. I've been with both cut and uncut guys and I never noticed any difference in their ability to cum.
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    May 25, 2010 8:40 PM GMT
    Never been an issue for me. Sometimes it';s taken an hour of pounding a guy, sometimes a guys mouth is on me for 5 minutes and i blow.

    I'm sure my being cut offends someone, or that my jewish parents mutilated me or some other odd personal opinion, but it has never inhibited my ability to ejaculated, nor does it take me any longer than the uncut guys I'm with.
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    May 31, 2010 4:03 AM GMT
    SB -

    In addition to being a crazed right-winger, you're also a crazed anti-circumcision guy? How do you get anything done? icon_eek.gif
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    May 31, 2010 3:52 PM GMT
    southbeach1500 said
    Christian73 saidSB -

    In addition to being a crazed right-winger, you're also a crazed anti-circumcision guy? How do you get anything done? icon_eek.gif


    Hahaha.... nah, not a "crazed anti-circumcision" guy.... just someone who has managed to break free from the mind control being exerted on the American public that circumcision is not harmful at all and that it has no negative impact whatsoever on a man's sexual enjoyment and sexual function.

    As I wrote earlier, if an uncut guy were to roll back the foreskin, then put on a pair of jeans and walk around all day with the head of his cock brushing up against his jeans, he would probably be in agony. We cut guys do this every day and don't even notice it. What explanation do YOU have for the difference then?


    So at a certain age my dick becomes useless? Dammit! Maybe I should start wearing a lubricated penis cozy.

    I had no idea that foreskin restoration was a real thing. Fascinating.