I feel like I'm going crazy.

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    May 14, 2010 4:57 PM GMT
    My partner has been out of town for a month and I haven't been doing a damn thing. I've been wanting to go out, but I'm too scared to because I've been super horny. hahahahaha
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    May 14, 2010 5:47 PM GMT
    So you're scared you'll cheat?

    I'm not sure if your partner is right for you then. Jerk off before you go out or something? O_O
    I'm kind of at a loss for words for you.
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    May 14, 2010 6:03 PM GMT
    I wouldn't cheat, I value my relationship too much. That being said, even the most committed people I've known have encountered issues of cheating just because they allowed themselves to get in a position that made it possible... which is why I'm not going out.

    The point of the post was that there's only so much tv you can watch, or reading you can do before you start going crazy. And it's been my luck that when I'm off of work, all of my friends are working. This whole post is just based off of boredom.

    And trust me, I've become very well acquainted with porn lately. lol
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    May 14, 2010 6:11 PM GMT
    Epiphany77 said I wouldn't cheat, I value my relationship too much. That being said, even the most committed people I've known have encountered issues of cheating just because they allowed themselves to get in a position that made it possible... which is why I'm not going out.

    The point of the post was that there's only so much tv you can watch, or reading you can do before you start going crazy. And it's been my luck that when I'm off of work, all of my friends are working. This whole post is just based off of boredom.

    And trust me, I've become very well acquainted with porn lately. lol

    LOL! Oh! Well, I assume here's not a very good place to be considering you wouldn't want to tempt yourself.

    You need more friends... Or more available one's. Have you thought of taking up a TV Series? Do you like video games? Uhm... Reading!?
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    May 14, 2010 6:22 PM GMT
    I'm not into video games. I used to be, but I would literally play them all day, so I decided it wasn't a good thing. As for tv, I'm currently following Modern Family, Nurse Jackie, Lost, Glee (which I just picked up and I'm not exactly understanding the hype), Parenthood, and Fringe. Other than that, the only show I can think of that I haven't watched that I'm interested in is Brothers and Sisters. Do you watch it? Is it any good?

    As for books, I just read Christopher Rice's latest book, and I read through the Twilight series. Again, I don't understand the hype. I just kept thinking, "This has already been done, and it's been done much better." I do have Dan Brown's new book that I need to read though. I guess my issue isn't needing something to entertain me, just something different. And YES, I need more friends that are more available.
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    May 14, 2010 6:37 PM GMT
    Go rent True Blood or Supernatural the TV Series. They are amazing and totally worth your time. I tried watching Brothers and Sisters and I couldn't deal with the night time drama that wasn't believable in the least bit, but you might like it. I just don't care for a lot of that stuff. Supernatural is like Fringe a bit, but not as technical and more story driven.

    I actually do not usually read. And if I do, it has to have personality, humor. I'm reading "The Year of Living Biblically" right now and it's hilarious. Ever read Chelsea Handler's "Are You There Vodka? It's Me, Chelsea". Hilarious. Something to pass the time with. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 14, 2010 6:46 PM GMT
    I've wondered about Supernatural, and I have been planning on watching True Blood, but my partner wants to watch it too, so I'm waiting. I'm a huge Whedon fan, so both of these will probably be right up my alley.
  • LatinUomo

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    May 18, 2010 6:55 PM GMT
    Why don't you volunteer your time to your local AIDS organization? I'm sure they can use your help.
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    May 18, 2010 6:58 PM GMT
    Find a creative hobby, fast. It's an important life skill to have ways to spend time with yourself that keep you entertained and fulfilled that don't exclusively entail staring at a screen.
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    May 18, 2010 7:07 PM GMT
    What else do you like to do? Where are your friends? Take a trusted friend out with you if you're hell bent on a club and have him be your ad hoc chastity belt.
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    May 18, 2010 7:11 PM GMT
    I see Anime.
    Thats awesome.
    I just turn off the lights and see Anime on this Laptop. Put my earphones and see it. Anime is really cute. Right now i am watching Tsubasa Chronices. It is so awesome.
    But i am single and i had never get a boyfriend..dam i dont even know how is to give a kiss T_T
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    May 18, 2010 7:28 PM GMT
    Dude, I lived in a country where gay people were so repressed I didnt have any sex (nor the option) for well over a year (holidays helped).

    One month is absolutely nothing. Don't be such a whiney bitch and just jack off.
  • martinaston

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    May 18, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    sex aside, prolly think about getting some friends if u want 2 protect that relationship, relying on your partner 2 provide EVERYTHING can b 2 much pressure 2 maintain.

    a lot of 2's i know..
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    May 18, 2010 11:23 PM GMT
    When does he return?
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    May 18, 2010 11:23 PM GMT
    martinaston said
    a lot of 2's i know..


    Sure beats the exhausting effort of the additional keystroke required to form "to".
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    May 18, 2010 11:28 PM GMT
    Join a seminary... icon_lol.gif
  • JayDT

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    May 18, 2010 11:34 PM GMT
    Go out with friends who know your bf. They'll help you be a good boy and get you out of the house.
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    May 18, 2010 11:40 PM GMT
    Epiphany77 said My partner has been out of town for a month and I haven't been doing a damn thing. I've been wanting to go out, but I'm too scared to because I've been super horny. hahahahaha


    Call up a friend and go out for a nice dinner or by yourself for that matter. I spend several weeks at a time at our second home and miss my partner very much if he's unable to get away. But I do take some time alone or with a friend for dinner now and again. Otherwise I might as well just fly home and not have the refuge.
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    May 18, 2010 11:41 PM GMT
    1. Have tons of friends, the issue is their work schedules compared to mine at the moment. I either work super early in the morning or really late at night, and my friends have regular day jobs. Plus, I'm actually covering two different positions at the moment which is causing me to want to have more of a "release" to get out and do something.

    2. It's not about the sex. I can wait on sex, that's not the issue. What I'm missing is everyday human interaction. I think you take for granted the natural moments you can have with friends on a day to day basis. I wasn't being a "bitch," just bringing up the fact that lack of interaction with people can make you go crazy.

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    May 18, 2010 11:43 PM GMT
    M0rp43u5 saidJoin a seminary... icon_lol.gif


    HA! Worked for a church for 6 years... I'll pass.
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    May 18, 2010 11:44 PM GMT
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    May 18, 2010 11:45 PM GMT
    Meditate! icon_surprised.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    May 19, 2010 12:04 AM GMT
    Another way of looking at this is how ghastly it would be if you DIDN'T feel this longing in his absence. icon_wink.gif


    -us
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    May 19, 2010 12:17 AM GMT
    JW61 saidMeditate! icon_surprised.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    "Would you rather be meditating over the wonders of your rock garden?"

    "Well it beats just sitting."

    "It is just sitting."

    (20 points to anyone who knows where that's from!)
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    May 19, 2010 12:17 AM GMT
    meninlove said Another way of looking at this is how ghastly it would be if you DIDN'T feel this longing in his absence. icon_wink.gif


    -us


    VERY TRUE!