Wearing boyfriends underwear or other clothes?

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    May 15, 2010 9:33 AM GMT
    In a relationship do you find yourself wearning your other half's underwear or other clothes? Do you find it disgusting to wear their underwear? I have to admit that I love the fact that I can put on a pair of my bfs undies. Unfortunately not the biggest fan of the underwear he currently wears.
  • geebus

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    May 15, 2010 1:51 PM GMT
    omg that is so cute haha. I'd go for t-shirts and maybe pants, probably drawing the line at underwear.
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    May 15, 2010 4:03 PM GMT
    hehe i see no problem with it. my bf has some really cute undies that i would love to wear but unfortunately he's a good bit smaller than i am.

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    May 15, 2010 4:08 PM GMT
    I wouldn't have any problem with it, but my bf's undies would be waaaaaay too tight on me. We do swap t-shirts and other shirts. His 29x30 pants/jeans, no chance of fitting me.

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    May 15, 2010 4:10 PM GMT
    Clothes maybe, but underwear, ew no. That is something personal and for health reasons should be avoided. Ew.
  • BarettaB80

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    May 15, 2010 4:39 PM GMT
    luvitohateit saidClothes maybe, but underwear, ew no. That is something personal and for health reasons should be avoided. Ew.


    I'm pretty sure that if you're sucking his dick/fucking him/getting fucked by him, then wearing his underwear would be the lesser of the 'health concerns'. Just sayin'.
  • mtneerman

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    May 15, 2010 4:48 PM GMT
    always have, underwear and jocks.
  • Greygull

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    May 15, 2010 4:50 PM GMT
    I steal underwear and tee shits. He's 6'1 and im 5'9 so i cant steal his pants.


    He has really good taste.

  • May 15, 2010 5:06 PM GMT
    I'm 5'7", my boyfriend is 6'2". There's nothing of his that I can put on and be comfortable in. But if we were similar in size it wouldn't bother me one bit.
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    May 15, 2010 5:06 PM GMT
    only on my face when he has been away to long.
  • JayDT

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    May 15, 2010 5:10 PM GMT
    Yeah sure all of it. Except shoes, I have really small feet (mens 7.5 US). I still have a pair of one of my exes undies, they're great for when I am wearing low riding or hip pants because they ride EXTREMELY low. Though most of the guys I date tend to be bigger in stature than I so they can't usually get by with wearing my clothes.
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    May 15, 2010 5:13 PM GMT
    Haha yes, I've done that. I even managed to mix up some underwear one time, I would take his shirts on purpose.. we would mix up pants/socks accidentally. He would always steal this one jacket... good times.


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    May 15, 2010 5:29 PM GMT
    Aggie1976 saidIn a relationship do you find yourself wearning your other half's underwear or other clothes? Do you find it disgusting to wear their underwear?

    Often the other clothing articles, not underwear. Except for one BF, who asked to have my boxers when I was going trough my first serious overweight period (in one right now), and had to buy myself larger underwear. I never asked for them back, even after I lost the weight.

    But swapping other things like shirts, ties, belts, outdoor jackets, etc, I've always done, and still do today with my partner. We even borrow shoes sometimes, though we sprinkle a powder for athletes foot in them first.

    The ex-BF who'd worn my boxers was so cute one time. He'd gotten an invite to a museum gala, to which I was not invited, which kinda ticked me. But it was a very conservative community, where I was officially known only as his house tenant, and I had no connections or credentials with that group. Husbands & wives got invited as couples, but not male "friends."

    Black tie was preferred, which he didn't own. Since I wouldn't be attending I said he could wear my dinner jacket and all accessories, only my short trousers not fitting him, that we got for him from somewhere else.

    I dressed him myself because he wasn't familiar with formal attire, helping him with the studs and cufflinks on my pleated wing-collar shirt, and tying his bow tie, his neck fortunately the same size as mine. (Not only important because of the shirt collar size, but because I have my bow ties custom made for me to my exact neck size, with no adjustable buckle on the neck band, something I hate to see visible when matched to a wing collar)

    And as I was tying his bow he started to cry, and blurted out "What's happening to me? I feel just like Cinderella!" and it made me cry, too, and we hugged. He'd never worn evening clothes before in his life. I did worry his tie would fall apart on him, those things always needing regular snugging, but I don't own any pre-tied bows. So I showed him how to keep it in order, and he managed OK.

    I like sharing clothes -- it can be a great male bonding experience, especially gay male. BTW, for those who might like a custom-made tie, at surprisingly reasonable prices, little more than a pre-tied, check out where I buy mine:

    Beau Ties Ltd
  • stevendust

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    May 15, 2010 5:38 PM GMT
    Yep. We share everything but jeans since his are too tall for me and mine are too short for him.
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    May 15, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
    i think its hot to share underwear and other clothes as long as theyre clean
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    May 15, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
    always icon_smile.gif

    everything from pants to underwear to shirts...

    even if it doesnt fit me i like to wear it and swim around in his bigger shirts icon_smile.gif
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    May 15, 2010 5:58 PM GMT
    Is it the scent of his clothes, or just the idea of whose they are? The US Army often sent me away for extended periods, and I was totally dumbfounded when I learned my wife used to lay out some of my clothes on my side of the bed at night while I was gone, and snuggle with them.

    Well, OK, women do sentimental things like that, right? Then I found out that my late partner did that with my clothes, too, during my absences, and even a few of my BFs with whom I didn't even live, but at whose places I would keep some spare clothes for myself.

    Yet I myself never feel a need to do this with anyone else's clothes when they're gone. Have you guys heard about that practice? Do it yourself? Could that be part of the reason we wear our love's clothing?
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    May 15, 2010 5:59 PM GMT
    I like wearing something belonging to my b.f. sometimes. We are similar enough in size to pull this off. Seeing him in something of mine makes me smile too. When I'm going into my dresser, I might see a shirt or underwear of his and hold it up to my face for a few seconds and just breathe him into me. Even though those items have been laundered, it is still a great sensation.
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    May 15, 2010 6:28 PM GMT
    My partner and I have worn each others shorts.. shirts.. socks.. but never underwear I don't think. We always kind of had our own.. or just free balled. But I wouldn't have a problem with it.

    Like some of the other posters though, my bf is a good bit smaller than me so.. most of his stuff doesn't fit me. Most of my stuff swallows him (which is f***ing adorable).
  • Midas426

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    May 15, 2010 6:30 PM GMT
    jayyp saidalways icon_smile.gif

    everything from pants to underwear to shirts...

    even if it doesnt fit me i like to wear it and swim around in his bigger shirts icon_smile.gif
    My ex was taller and bigger than me and I always enjoyed wearing his underwear.
  • michaeltex

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    May 15, 2010 6:32 PM GMT
    I think its cute icon_smile.gif
  • OptimusMatt

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    May 15, 2010 6:34 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa saidIs it the scent of his clothes, or just the idea of whose they are? The US Army often sent me away for extended periods, and I was totally dumbfounded when I learned my wife used to lay out some of my clothes on my side of the bed at night while I was gone, and snuggle with them.

    Well, OK, women do sentimental things like that, right? Then I found out that my late partner did that with my clothes, too, during my absences, and even a few of my BFs with whom I didn't even live, but at whose places I would keep some spare clothes for myself.

    Yet I myself never feel a need to do this with anyone else's clothes when they're gone. Have you guys heard about that practice? Do it yourself? Could that be part of the reason we wear our love's clothing?


    VERY common - one of the most intense memory triggers is smell - can take you back decades.

    When you're lonely, wanting your partner there next to you, you snuggle with his stuff because it smells of them. Maybe it's just the fabric softener he specifically uses, or maybe he wore it one night while you were watching movies on the couch. But it triggers a memory, one that a lonesome spouse or partner waiting for you to come home needs.
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    May 15, 2010 7:17 PM GMT
    Clean underwear, sure icon_lol.gif

    Sharing clothes is a great thing. It's bonding. It can be stealing, too.

  • calibro

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    May 15, 2010 7:30 PM GMT
    Yes, after an impromptu night at the boyfriends place I often ask if I can borrow a pair.
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    May 15, 2010 9:38 PM GMT
    Since I do the laundry, I would have no problem with wearing his clothes, 'cept we arent the same size. Damn, I was looking to doubling my warerobe instantly! ... icon_evil.gif