Advice on a possibly hot situation

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    May 15, 2010 4:44 PM GMT
    Hello everyone, I have a situation that I need help with. Now a little background, I'm a bisexual male that loves GH's, ABS and bathhouses. I have a friend that I've known for ten+years. He's slutty to put it bluntly. Anyway we've been joking around for years about being gay or whatever an grabbing each others crotch and I've even took a picture of his cock for him and whatnot. Anyway I was wondering how i could at least get to suck him off. At least one time that I know of he's gotten so drunk that he passed out without recollection of the previous night at all. And I'm sure if he "came to" while I was doing it he would let me finish. We also joke around about going to go see tran-sexuals or "train-sexuals" like we like to call them. Which I have and there great! I guess what I'm asking is should I wait till he's about passed out and then just joke about it and see how things progress from there or as creepy as it sounds wait till he's gone then start doing it and just see what happens, anyone with any ideas/past experience on the subject would be more then welcome.
    Look forward to hearing feedback
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    May 15, 2010 10:55 PM GMT
    Yes. It's very creepy. Is he straight? If not, why don't you just approach him as you would any other guy? In any event, what you're contemplating is sexual assault because unconscious people can't consent.
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    May 16, 2010 1:34 AM GMT
    If you want to be a RAPIST, go ahead and rape the dude. Seriously, WTF.

    At what point did it occur to you that it might be okay to wait for someone to be passed out drunk, and then start to sexually molest them in the hopes that they'll come to and be turned on by the act?

    If you're into the guy, tell him you're into him and you want to suck him off. Plain and simple. A bit of liquid courage is acceptable. If he's into it, you're golden. If he's not, then at least you know it's off limits, and you wont be a SEX OFFENDER.

    Yeesh.
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    May 16, 2010 1:39 AM GMT
    Well a friend did that to me and I hate him with every fiber of my being, if you guys are good pals leave it as is, but I'm sure you're going to fuck up a good thing... but when you guys are sober you should take the joking a little further and see if he gets hard if he does do it again and then go in for the kill icon_biggrin.gif but no don't wait for him to pass out
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    May 16, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
    You're asking for validation to rape this guy.

    I think you need to seek help immediately. Sounds like you have been in the closet for too long.

    You hear these stories on the news, and the guy getting abused will probably wake up and stab/bash you.

    Get help from a psychologist, you might find it's the best thing you have ever done for yourself..
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    May 16, 2010 2:05 AM GMT
    http://www.aest.org.uk/survivors/male/other_males_stories_index.html


    It's not cool to rape people you can hurt them forever..
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    May 16, 2010 2:20 AM GMT
    I once woke up getting a blow job from someone I thought was a friend...

    I let him finish, made him swallow and then kicked him so hard up the arse as I booted him out the door that I never heard from him again...

    Ya just don't do that... ever.... for any reasons, if he's awake, kinda drunk and wants to have a shag then it's moral gray ground, but you don't get'em while they are sleeping... that's just WRONG!
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    May 16, 2010 2:37 AM GMT
    Fuck video games, porn plot lines are a massively dangerous influence on closeted gay youth who think that's how sexual relations work icon_eek.gif
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    May 16, 2010 2:49 AM GMT
    ......
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    May 16, 2010 2:55 AM GMT
    Your a moron, and need some major morality reeducation...

    that said, whats ABS?
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    May 16, 2010 3:00 AM GMT
    Anti-lock braking systems.
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    May 16, 2010 3:07 AM GMT
    fastfreddie saidAnti-lock braking systems.


    thats all i could think of too... but do ppl really get off on that? icon_eek.gif
  • Delivis

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    May 16, 2010 3:09 AM GMT
    I'll have to second the "you're a moron" comments i'm afraid.
  • DCEric

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    May 16, 2010 3:13 AM GMT
    KyleAD said
    fastfreddie saidAnti-lock braking systems.


    thats all i could think of too... but do ppl really get off on that? icon_eek.gif


    Oh, nothing gets me going like anti-lock brakes. If a guy has 'em I am all over that.
    /seriously.
    //ok, not seriously.
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    May 16, 2010 3:40 AM GMT
    urban dictionary says its aggressive butt sex... who decides these acronyms?
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    May 16, 2010 3:46 AM GMT
    how about just asking him if he wants a blowjob?

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    May 16, 2010 3:58 AM GMT
    Space_Cowboy_89 saidhttp://www.aest.org.uk/survivors/male/other_males_stories_index.html


    It's not cool to rape people you can hurt them forever..




    Space_Cowboy_89:

    Thank you for posting this, I'm not sure why the original poster is even entertaining the thought of doing this, but I'm glad someone has the awareness to take someone else's human value into consideration. I'm sorry to hear about what your friend did, that's so disheartening to know that a "friend" would take advantage of you and the situation the way he did. Hopefully this guy here takes heed to what's being said to him, and realizes that there is more to life and friendship than sex and the "thrills" of the moment. If any of the viewers of this forum have not checked out the posted site from Space_Cowboy_89, and have ever thought about waiting until someone is in a vulnerable state of mind in order to get what they want from them, please be sure to read how those actions may have a lasting effect on the lives of those individuals. Thanks again, man, for this post; it's truly an eye opener.
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    May 16, 2010 4:01 AM GMT
    Efebo saidFuck video games, porn plot lines are a massively dangerous influence on closeted gay youth who think that's how sexual relations work icon_eek.gif


    ^^ This.
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    May 16, 2010 4:04 AM GMT
    RST2009 saidhow about just asking him if he wants a blowjob?



    Best answer yet!