I was called a MUSCLE HEAD~

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    May 16, 2010 10:55 PM GMT
    I was walking around at an out door mall.

    I was walking to get a part I needed. I had my longer gym shorts on, tank top and running shoes. As I walked by, I heard this girl mention to all her buddy's (guy friends).......Oh look here comes a muscle head.......

    Hmmmm I wonder if I said shut up you fat cunt.......Now, see my point? I was just doing my thing when some dumb ass chick had to be smart mouth and with the tone of her voice she was being sarcastic. SO......I guess, I could of said something, but I was out numbered......LOL

    Stupid Girl....Some days!

    I get shit on and just walk on by!

    I am not even that freaky huge!
    Maybe next to her buddy's I might have stuck out.....I didn't look so I do not know
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    May 16, 2010 11:06 PM GMT
    Could you have been projecting an energy that elicited the comment?
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    May 16, 2010 11:08 PM GMT
    GAMRican saidCould you have been projecting an energy that elicited the comment?


    Nope...nothing. I was not even sweaty or smelly. I was just walking casually, normal and nothing flamboyant....

    Next time I am going to go in my speedo and really provoke em......Seems I can't escape it
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    May 16, 2010 11:10 PM GMT
    Mystic_Man saidI was walking around at an out door mall.

    I was walking to get a part I needed. I had my longer gym shorts on, tank top and running shoes. As I walked by, I heard this girl mention to all her buddy's (guy friends).......Oh look here comes a muscle head.......

    Hmmmm I wonder if I said shut up you fat cunt.......Now, see my point? I was just doing my thing when some dumb ass chick had to be smart mouth and with the tone of her voice she was being sarcastic. SO......I guess, I could of said something, but I was out numbered......LOL

    Stupid Girl....Some days!

    So see, I get shit on and just walk on by!

    I am not even that freaky huge!
    Maybe next to here buddy's I might has stuck out.....I didn't look so I do not know


    OMG Mystic_Man-
    When was the last time you looked in the mirror objectively? Are you immune from seeing what you look like? Or are you just fishing for compliments? I'm surprised the girl was even able to talk when she saw you.
    Learn to take genuine compliments from strangers- that too is part of giving!
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    May 16, 2010 11:11 PM GMT
    Well...it wasn't very nice of her to say that, but hell, I'm sure that most of us have had something like that...I've been called that and "meat head" and "jock" and "gym rat" and any number of other somewhat derogatory or negative connotation related to being more muscular....It is jealousy and I take it as a compliment.....

    The dumb cunt needs something shoved in her mouth to keep her quiet!...just know with some amusement that it won't be your "something".. LOL!! icon_cool.gif


    AND just for the record...YOU ARE A MUSCLE HEAD...and a DAMNED NICE ONE AT THAT!
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    May 16, 2010 11:11 PM GMT
    Its intimidating to many when someone enters a room with an unapologetic confidence and kick ass physique.

    And sometimes the only way people know how to respond to it is to make a joke out of it.

    I wouldn't get too upset about it. Whether a compliment or a snide remark, you must be doing something right for people to notice and want to comment.
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    May 16, 2010 11:17 PM GMT
    Halfstep saidIts intimidating to many when someone enters a room with an unapologetic confidence and kick ass physique.

    And sometimes the only way people know how to respond to it is to make a joke out of it.

    I wouldn't get too upset about it. Whether a compliment or a snide remark, you must be doing something right for people to notice and want to comment.

    What he said....icon_idea.gif
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    May 16, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]Sporty_g said...AND just for the record...YOU ARE A MUSCLE HEAD...and a DAMNED NICE ONE AT THAT![/quote]

    ohh yehhhh!! we need a "smilie" for a "wolf whistle"... icon_twisted.gificon_cool.gif
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    May 16, 2010 11:23 PM GMT
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    Mystic_Man saidI was walking around at an out door mall.

    I was walking to get a part I needed. I had my longer gym shorts on, tank top and running shoes. As I walked by, I heard this girl mention to all her buddy's (guy friends).......Oh look here comes a muscle head.......

    Hmmmm I wonder if I said shut up you fat cunt.......Now, see my point? I was just doing my thing when some dumb ass chick had to be smart mouth and with the tone of her voice she was being sarcastic. SO......I guess, I could of said something, but I was out numbered......LOL

    Stupid Girl....Some days!

    So see, I get shit on and just walk on by!

    I am not even that freaky huge!
    Maybe next to here buddy's I might has stuck out.....I didn't look so I do not know


    OMG Mystic_Man-
    When was the last time you looked in the mirror objectively? Are you immune from seeing what you look like? Or are you just fishing for compliments? I'm surprised the girl was even able to talk when she saw you.
    Learn to take genuine compliments from strangers- that too is part of giving!



    I am not fishing for anything Sir.....It was not a complement. It would be like me calling here a BARBIE DOLL!!

    I think if one is sincere about complementing someone they would just come up to you an say you look great.....How do you do it. It's notig to do with any vanity issue. I am so beyond that. It's about being healthy and ALIVE!
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    May 16, 2010 11:26 PM GMT
    Mystic_Man saidI was walking around at an out door mall.

    I was walking to get a part I needed. I had my longer gym shorts on, tank top and running shoes. As I walked by, I heard this girl mention to all her buddy's (guy friends).......Oh look here comes a muscle head.......

    Hmmmm I wonder if I said shut up you fat cunt.......Now, see my point? I was just doing my thing when some dumb ass chick had to be smart mouth and with the tone of her voice she was being sarcastic. SO......I guess, I could of said something, but I was out numbered......LOL

    Stupid Girl....Some days!

    I get shit on and just walk on by!

    I am not even that freaky huge!
    Maybe next to her buddy's I might have stuck out.....I didn't look so I do not know


    OMG, you're so hot!!! will u come fuck me, please???!?!?
    fuck my tight little hole with ur big muscle cock


    O O O
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    May 16, 2010 11:26 PM GMT
    Sporty_g saidWell...it wasn't very nice of her to say that, but hell, I'm sure that most of us have had something like that...I've been called that and "meat head" and "jock" and "gym rat" and any number of other somewhat derogatory or negative connotation related to being more muscular....It is jealousy and I take it as a compliment.....

    The dumb cunt needs something shoved in her mouth to keep her quiet!...just know with some amusement that it won't be your "something".. LOL!! icon_cool.gif


    AND just for the record...YOU ARE A MUSCLE HEAD...and a DAMNED NICE ONE AT THAT!



    I will shove something good right in he mouth......


    I big fat SNICKERS BAR!!!

    I don't like snappy bitches. That's reserved for gay boys!

    Besides, she didn't even get a second look from me!

    I can never quite understand women...maybe if it was a dude I would have know he wanted me to fuck hi good!!

    SEE HOW WE INTERPRET SIGNALS!! LOL
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    May 16, 2010 11:27 PM GMT
    Mystic_Man saidI was walking around at an out door mall.

    I was walking to get a part I needed. I had my longer gym shorts on, tank top and running shoes. As I walked by, I heard this girl mention to all her buddy's (guy friends).......Oh look here comes a muscle head.......

    Hmmmm I wonder if I said shut up you fat cunt.......Now, see my point? I was just doing my thing when some dumb ass chick had to be smart mouth and with the tone of her voice she was being sarcastic. SO......I guess, I could of said something, but I was out numbered......LOL

    Stupid Girl....Some days!

    I get shit on and just walk on by!

    I am not even that freaky huge!
    Maybe next to her buddy's I might have stuck out.....I didn't look so I do not know


    Honestly, I think she was projecting her own self-loathing and deep disappointment in her own life ... especially given that it wasn't provoked.

    If she had said it to me - I might have simply said "thanks sugarplum" - and, walked away. No too much, not too little, and walked! >lol<

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    May 16, 2010 11:28 PM GMT
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    Mystic_Man saidI was walking around at an out door mall.

    I was walking to get a part I needed. I had my longer gym shorts on, tank top and running shoes. As I walked by, I heard this girl mention to all her buddy's (guy friends).......Oh look here comes a muscle head.......

    Hmmmm I wonder if I said shut up you fat cunt.......Now, see my point? I was just doing my thing when some dumb ass chick had to be smart mouth and with the tone of her voice she was being sarcastic. SO......I guess, I could of said something, but I was out numbered......LOL

    Stupid Girl....Some days!

    So see, I get shit on and just walk on by!

    I am not even that freaky huge!
    Maybe next to here buddy's I might has stuck out.....I didn't look so I do not know


    OMG Mystic_Man-
    When was the last time you looked in the mirror objectively? Are you immune from seeing what you look like? Or are you just fishing for compliments? I'm surprised the girl was even able to talk when she saw you.
    Learn to take genuine compliments from strangers- that too is part of giving!



    I am not fishing for anything Sir.....It was not a complement. It would be like me calling here a BARBIE DOLL!!

    I think if one is sincere about complementing someone they would just come up to you an say you look great.....How do you do it. It's notig to do with any vanity issue. I am so beyond that. It's about being healthy and ALIVE!



    ...your definition of "healthy and alive" is apparently a MUCH higher bar than most people on this planet could ever hope to set and achieve....and as for directly walking up and saying ...WOW! You are HOT and look GREAT!...most people don't have the balls to do that...
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    May 16, 2010 11:29 PM GMT
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    Mystic_Man saidI was walking around at an out door mall.

    I was walking to get a part I needed. I had my longer gym shorts on, tank top and running shoes. As I walked by, I heard this girl mention to all her buddy's (guy friends).......Oh look here comes a muscle head.......

    Hmmmm I wonder if I said shut up you fat cunt.......Now, see my point? I was just doing my thing when some dumb ass chick had to be smart mouth and with the tone of her voice she was being sarcastic. SO......I guess, I could of said something, but I was out numbered......LOL

    Stupid Girl....Some days!

    I get shit on and just walk on by!

    I am not even that freaky huge!
    Maybe next to her buddy's I might have stuck out.....I didn't look so I do not know


    OMG, you're so hot!!! will u come fuck me, please???!?!?
    fuck my tight little hole with ur big muscle cock


    O O O


    LOL

    How tight? Tighter than pussy?
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    May 16, 2010 11:34 PM GMT
    Sporty_g said
    Mystic_Man said
    BuddyinNYC said
    Mystic_Man saidI was walking around at an out door mall.

    I was walking to get a part I needed. I had my longer gym shorts on, tank top and running shoes. As I walked by, I heard this girl mention to all her buddy's (guy friends).......Oh look here comes a muscle head.......

    Hmmmm I wonder if I said shut up you fat cunt.......Now, see my point? I was just doing my thing when some dumb ass chick had to be smart mouth and with the tone of her voice she was being sarcastic. SO......I guess, I could of said something, but I was out numbered......LOL

    Stupid Girl....Some days!

    So see, I get shit on and just walk on by!

    I am not even that freaky huge!
    Maybe next to here buddy's I might has stuck out.....I didn't look so I do not know


    OMG Mystic_Man-
    When was the last time you looked in the mirror objectively? Are you immune from seeing what you look like? Or are you just fishing for compliments? I'm surprised the girl was even able to talk when she saw you.
    Learn to take genuine compliments from strangers- that too is part of giving!



    I am not fishing for anything Sir.....It was not a complement. It would be like me calling here a BARBIE DOLL!!

    I think if one is sincere about complementing someone they would just come up to you an say you look great.....How do you do it. It's notig to do with any vanity issue. I am so beyond that. It's about being healthy and ALIVE!



    ...your definition of "healthy and alive" is apparently a MUCH higher bar than most people on this planet could ever hope to set and achieve....and as for directly walking up and saying ...WOW! You are HOT and look GREAT!...most people don't have the balls to do that...



    Yeah,,,,,I think so. I NEVER have a problem going up to anyone and say...wow, You have an accomplished body congratulations!!!

    I am serious, I am out going like that, I am not that shy and I like to say how I feel. I think that's the best way to make a friend...not create an enemy right?
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    May 16, 2010 11:34 PM GMT
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    OMG Mystic_Man-
    When was the last time you looked in the mirror objectively? Are you immune from seeing what you look like? Or are you just fishing for compliments? I'm surprised the girl was even able to talk when she saw you.
    Learn to take genuine compliments from strangers- that too is part of giving!



    I am not fishing for anything Sir.....It was not a complement. It would be like me calling here a BARBIE DOLL!!

    I think if one is sincere about complementing someone they would just come up to you an say you look great.....How do you do it. It's notig to do with any vanity issue. I am so beyond that. It's about being healthy and ALIVE!


    What do you expect of straight people?
    Sometimes we're lucky they don't lynch us due to their insecurities.
    You're smokin' hot. It gets people off balance looking at you. I got the impression from what you originally wrote that she meant it as a compliment, and just wasn't able to express herself in a way you are used to (since she's straight).
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    May 16, 2010 11:35 PM GMT
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    Mystic_Man saidI was walking around at an out door mall.

    I was walking to get a part I needed. I had my longer gym shorts on, tank top and running shoes. As I walked by, I heard this girl mention to all her buddy's (guy friends).......Oh look here comes a muscle head.......

    Hmmmm I wonder if I said shut up you fat cunt.......Now, see my point? I was just doing my thing when some dumb ass chick had to be smart mouth and with the tone of her voice she was being sarcastic. SO......I guess, I could of said something, but I was out numbered......LOL

    Stupid Girl....Some days!

    I get shit on and just walk on by!

    I am not even that freaky huge!
    Maybe next to her buddy's I might have stuck out.....I didn't look so I do not know


    Honestly, I think she was projecting her own self-loathing and deep disappointment in her own life ... especially given that it wasn't provoked.

    If she had said it to me - I might have simply said "thanks sugarplum" - and, walked away. No too much, not too little, and walked! >lol<




    Good comeback...I wish I was not walking so fast....LOL
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    May 16, 2010 11:38 PM GMT
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    OMG Mystic_Man-
    When was the last time you looked in the mirror objectively? Are you immune from seeing what you look like? Or are you just fishing for compliments? I'm surprised the girl was even able to talk when she saw you.
    Learn to take genuine compliments from strangers- that too is part of giving!



    I am not fishing for anything Sir.....It was not a complement. It would be like me calling here a BARBIE DOLL!!

    I think if one is sincere about complementing someone they would just come up to you an say you look great.....How do you do it. It's notig to do with any vanity issue. I am so beyond that. It's about being healthy and ALIVE!


    What do you expect of straight people?
    Sometimes we're lucky they don't lynch us due to their insecurities.
    You're smokin' hot. It gets people off balance looking at you. I think she meant it as a compliment, and just wasn't able to express herself in a way you are used to (since she's straight).


    Perhaps, However, I have been around long enough she was not being that complementary, unless all her buddies around her were gay. I am not sure.



    NEXT TIME I AM GOING TO THE SAME PLACE SHIRTLESS>>>FUCK EM ALL
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    May 16, 2010 11:40 PM GMT
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    Mystic_Man said
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    OMG Mystic_Man-
    When was the last time you looked in the mirror objectively? Are you immune from seeing what you look like? Or are you just fishing for compliments? I'm surprised the girl was even able to talk when she saw you.
    Learn to take genuine compliments from strangers- that too is part of giving!



    I am not fishing for anything Sir.....It was not a complement. It would be like me calling here a BARBIE DOLL!!

    I think if one is sincere about complementing someone they would just come up to you an say you look great.....How do you do it. It's notig to do with any vanity issue. I am so beyond that. It's about being healthy and ALIVE!


    What do you expect of straight people?
    Sometimes we're lucky they don't lynch us due to their insecurities.
    You're smokin' hot. It gets people off balance looking at you. I think she meant it as a compliment, and just wasn't able to express herself in a way you are used to (since she's straight).


    Perhaps, However, I have been around long enough she was not being that complementary, unless all her buddies around her were gay. I am not sure.



    NEXT TIME I AM GOING TO THE SAME PLACE SHIRTLESS>>>FUCK EM ALL


    Please invite me! I'll help you with the preparations.
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    May 16, 2010 11:49 PM GMT
    Probably her BF is a wimp so she gets snarky when she sees another guy who's built

    Take it as a compliment

    Any guy would be happy in the extreme to have a body like yours

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    May 16, 2010 11:56 PM GMT
    "Beauty is a curse."

    Enjoy it. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 17, 2010 12:52 AM GMT


    I was walking into the country club today to meet my parents, brother and his wife for lunch and I heard someone say.... There's that fat fuck now! It was my brother referring to me!icon_lol.gif I was late.
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    May 17, 2010 3:54 AM GMT


    You know what? We both looked each other surprised because we're that way, with all kinds of things, from having kids to getting jobs, to having your particular jigsaw piece of self discovering their complementing piece (a guy), and connecting.
    You stated it so succinctly..

    "Yeah,,,,,I think so. I NEVER have a problem going up to anyone and say...wow, You have an accomplished body congratulations!!!"

    xo -us two
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    May 17, 2010 4:07 AM GMT
    LOL I got the same thing at the beach last year. Some stupid guy said something like, "I thought muscle beach was up North?". I just kept on walking... I am muscular but by far not a ripped hunk.

    ... I did smile a little :-)
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    May 17, 2010 4:09 AM GMT
    Why don't you just take it as a compliment? You work out to gain muscle, and since you said she was fat she was probably just jealous that she doesn't have the motivation to make her body look the way she'd like. I think the best approach to this situation would have been to smile and say, "oh, thank you."