A curious inquiry

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    May 17, 2010 3:55 AM GMT
    Okay, here's the thing. There are these two men.

    The first one is beautiful, sensual, and a knockout in the sack. He's also emotionally distant, narcissistic, and straightforward in a way that almost leaves you feeling battered. But reliable if you're a good friend, and extremely charismatic. (I mean seriously. He could have you streaking through a parking lot filled w/ cop cruisers just by looking at you and thinking it.)

    The second man is also beautiful, sensual, and fantastic in bed. But this one is warm, inviting, celebratory, and straightforward in a way that makes you feel nurtured and respected. He can hold his own w/ the bluntness factor as well, but only if you're an ass. And when he smiles, his entire body glows. He considers everyone a friend. (Well...at least until you prove otherwise. LOL) But if you carelessly hurt him or someone he loves, you no longer exist to him. He won't even waste the energy to talk about you behind your back, he'll be so done.

    Oh, and btw, both these men are hypersexual when single.

    So which one would you want as a boyfriend?
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    May 17, 2010 4:35 AM GMT
    I'd say the second one, but the whole "he considers everyone a friend" sounds like a stupid West Coast fantasy everyone has. He sounds like a delusional hippy douche bag. I'd go with the first one whose an asshole. I love assholes as long as they are blunt about it.

    Btw how the fuck is this a scientific inquiry? This is a penis inquiry.
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    May 17, 2010 4:37 AM GMT
    Huh? This whole question lost me. Go with the hot guy that will stay with you I guess? icon_confused.gif
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    May 17, 2010 5:07 AM GMT
    Guy A sounds like the bad boy we all want to reform but will only break our hearts. Go with guy A. Maybe you can tame him icon_sad.gif
  • JP85257

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    May 17, 2010 5:10 AM GMT
    Is the fact that I am GUY A a reason that I like guy A? Guy B doesnt exist. FYI.
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    May 17, 2010 5:18 AM GMT
    Is this a trick question???
  • OptimusMatt

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    May 17, 2010 5:18 AM GMT
    Depends on if you're Guy A or Guy B icon_twisted.gif
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    May 17, 2010 6:13 AM GMT
    Erm they sound too alike....
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    May 17, 2010 6:59 AM GMT
    Spock says your inquiry is most illogical.
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    May 17, 2010 2:12 PM GMT
    Guy B

    because Guy A is definitely me and though Guy A is a great guy, he's a real jackass when he doesn't get what he wants.Guy A doesn't just desire a certain amount of attention, but demands it and most times, without even trying, will stand out in most groups, sometimes in a good way, sometimes in a bad.

    Guy B is a push over, he'll take anything. He'll deal with my rants and complaints and will drive himself mad trying to please me, but thats what guy B does. He pleases and likes to think that he can tolerate/make anyone happy because most people genuinely like him.

    So though Guy A is going to find Guy B somewhat naive at times or untrue to himself, and though Guy A may even find the optimism of Guy B somewhat repulsive at times. Guy A needs something nurturing and loving wether he knows it or not. And will probably prefer to keep a guy B around casually until he is ready to settle down.

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    May 19, 2010 4:30 AM GMT
    Guy B is practically a definition of my personality.

    Who would I choose?

    Guy B hands down. Charm and charisma is one thing. Emotion is another. As much as I'd LOVE the broody seducer...at the end of the day, I need someone on the same emotional level as I am.

    It's an easy choice for me.
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    May 19, 2010 7:10 PM GMT
    teamSIN84 saidGuy B is practically a definition of my personality.

    Who would I choose?

    Guy B hands down. Charm and charisma is one thing. Emotion is another. As much as I'd LOVE the broody seducer...at the end of the day, I need someone on the same emotional level as I am.

    It's an easy choice for me.



    Thank you for your simple, unequivocating answer. Let's hope this thread gets more of those.
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    May 19, 2010 7:21 PM GMT
    teamSIN84 saidGuy B is practically a definition of my personality.

    Who would I choose?

    Guy B hands down. Charm and charisma is one thing. Emotion is another. As much as I'd LOVE the broody seducer...at the end of the day, I need someone on the same emotional level as I am.

    It's an easy choice for me.



    I think the Idea of the broody seducer is so appealing because in a way, the chase is never really over.

    In fact this situation sounds like Justin and Brian from QAF, the young nice guy who wants everyone to get along, but will cut you with his words when needed.

    And the broody cynic seducer who commands whatever room he walks into
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    May 20, 2010 3:02 AM GMT
    CosmosGuy saidBtw, these are not real guys. This is simply a matter of archetypes. Please try to leave your projections at the door and take the post at face value. (Guess I should've added this P.S. at the end of the OP as well.)


    If they aren't real guys, what's the point of choosing between one or the other???
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    May 20, 2010 3:04 AM GMT
    CosmosGuy said
    Oh,and, btw, both these men are very non-monogamous when single.

    So which one would you want as a boyfriend?
    Neither. But I would want them both as fuck buddies. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 20, 2010 3:09 AM GMT
    guy b no contest, guy a seems like a cocky little shit
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    May 20, 2010 3:17 AM GMT
    Guy B would be ideal, but I'm sure I'd end up developing unwanted feelings for Guy A. We all secretly love the jerks.
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    May 20, 2010 3:19 AM GMT
    i'm going with GUY C.
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    May 28, 2010 9:19 PM GMT
    rangard saidi'm going with GUY C.



    NO CHEATING! LOL
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    May 28, 2010 9:27 PM GMT
    guy B all the way. I would not want to be with anyone emotionally distant however guy A might be a great FB.
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    May 28, 2010 9:28 PM GMT
    bitch dont pretend u be asking legit questions......we know u just like to go ass streaking in all them parking lots
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    May 28, 2010 9:41 PM GMT
    Ok, gonna have to take dude number 2. Go with guy A.

    If you are basically on the same terms with these 2 hotties, you have to first ask yourself what is under the surface of them?
    Guy B, though charming & delightful on the surface is most likely compensating for a murky inner core; his description at worst fits that of a budding cult leader, or worse yet, will eventually reveal a needy, simpering exterior...
    At least with guy A, you get his assets & still have the under layers to look forward to. Maybe he is a sexy puppy dog looking for the right guy to bring him out?
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    May 28, 2010 9:43 PM GMT
    Ok, gonna have to take dude number 1. Go with guy A.

    If you are basically on the same terms with these 2 hotties, you have to first ask yourself what is under the surface of them?
    Guy B, though charming & delightful on the surface is most likely compensating for a murky inner core; his description at worst fits that of a budding cult leader, or worse yet, will eventually reveal a needy, simpering exterior...
    At least with guy A, you get his assets & still have the under layers to look forward to. Maybe he is a sexy puppy dog looking for the right guy to bring him out?
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    May 28, 2010 11:03 PM GMT
    Well since I sound like guy B and opposites attract then I would choose guy A.
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    May 28, 2010 11:17 PM GMT
    Guy B. I appreciate type A guys as friends, but type B (maybe not quite as nurturing as you paint him...I'm a realist) is more my type to date.

    Of course, type A's are fun to romp with as long as you don't develop feelings. They tend to really lose interest once they realize they have no emotional or sexual control over you.