Being blunt & being a bitch...There is a major difference

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    May 17, 2010 6:17 PM GMT
    Blunt:
    To be truthful or completely honest; To be straight up about something; To be honest even though it might hurt you; Abrupt and obvious in manner of speech.

    Now given, I've tried to give chances on living contradictions, I've been dissed, burned, played & dismissed to the left, for the simple fact that I say what's on my mind, given it breaks a lot of people's faces & well, I'm not one to flat out lie to your face. Either I'm upfront with the truth, be candid about it & get it out in the open, or lie to you now, smile about it with no regard for your feelings in the long run...OR..I can face the consequences of lying to you deliberately to their/your face(s) like a man. Being blunt/candid is in no way in reference to being a bitch. That, to me, is a copout of very many sorts. Now if I were to start lying, I would lose everyone's trust & end up alone; I start telling the truth & keeping it too real, I'm labeled a "bitch" or "bitter" & "negative". Keep in mind, I would rather be considered a dickhead or an asshole.

    Cop out is an idiom meaning to avoid taking responsibility for an action or to avoid fulfilling a duty OR refusal in owning up to erratic, childish, indecent behaviour.
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    May 17, 2010 6:48 PM GMT
    OK, NOW URE STARTIN TO BORE ME
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    May 17, 2010 7:00 PM GMT
    There's a way to be honest without being blunt or a bitch or an asshole. It's called tact. Once you learn how to communicate with people without offending them, maybe they'll actually listen to you rather than resent you.
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    May 17, 2010 7:13 PM GMT
    I love being a bitch. But sometimes I'm an asshole, a dick, or an ass. Sometimes I dick people's asses.
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    May 17, 2010 8:15 PM GMT
    Caslon14000 saidOK, NOW URE STARTIN TO BORE ME


    Then why make the effort to respond?
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    May 17, 2010 8:20 PM GMT
    I'd much rather have a blunt than be a bitch.
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    May 17, 2010 9:59 PM GMT
    as was said above me, you can be tactful when you are being honest...

    But if you live by the idea that blunt means never bothering with tact, then your just an arsehole.

    Here is an example..

    I think your complaining over guys who have found your "bluntness" to be rude rather then helpful..

    or

    You're a little whiny bitch, quit being an arsehole and learn some tact!

    there which was better to receive? now personally it felt nice being blunt... but the first one was nicer wasn't it.