Jail-Bait/Wait Five Years would you date or talk to a younger man?

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    May 17, 2010 10:01 PM GMT
    We saw him walking down the street
    Michael Flash and I
    Jeans were hanging off the ass;
    showing us his Mom's pride and joy.
    Face barely covered with any peach fuzz.
    Age?
    An unknown quantity which will have to
    be clarified with official, I mean,
    official government identification before
    hitting my king size platform bed.

    So as young buck walked past us caped
    crusaders with roving eyes I said snidely,
    "Wait five years. He will be old enough,
    and jaded, and thoroughly broken in?"

    Michael Flash laughed hysterically.
    And we shouldn't be looking and lusting,
    but if you saw what we saw in Boy watching
    summer weather, you would be staring too.

    Young Buck was fine.

    Which brings me to the rule that is followed
    behind a question. The Wait Five Years Rule.
    I put my bid in; I am polite; and I keep my
    gentleman distance but if you are under
    my 25 years of age rule, then the plot line
    will be No Sex In This City.

    Something bothers me when I, a 35 year old man,
    is talking to or being approached by 18, 19,
    or 20 year old man. I feel old...I feel dirty...
    and not in that good way. I feel like I could
    be their Daddy...and not in a good way!

    I tried it with 21 year old. I hope he was a 21 year old.
    Well, he was graduating from college. I feel like I am
    robbing the cradle, or is the cradle robbing me.
    I mean, technically, it's legal, but i wonder is it moral.




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    May 18, 2010 12:00 AM GMT
    Two consenting adults of any age can legally engage in sexual relations absent any law proscribing the relationship or act.

    That's it.

    If morally, a person has misgivings about any relationship or act, then that there should be a "red flag" to apply the "when in doubt don't" approach.

    Each to their own.
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    May 18, 2010 1:08 AM GMT
    I don't have to ever worry about robbing the cradle. I like my guys a little older. Around 28-29 is perfect!!!
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    May 18, 2010 2:18 AM GMT
    ah who cares if they are adults and show interest it shouldn't matter. Especially if they are approaching you they are obviously showing interest. If both adults are attracted to each other... why would it matter if he was 20 or 30.

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    May 18, 2010 2:25 AM GMT
    They would have to approach me first, otherwise i'd just stare at them from afar. I'm shy. icon_redface.gif
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    May 18, 2010 2:45 AM GMT
    You have to get rid of that hangup.. When I was 16+ (legal here) I'd have been all over you. I always liked men late 20's up. not my own age.
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    May 18, 2010 3:59 AM GMT
    maybe it isn't a hang up; maybe its a preference; or a conscience...
    some men think before they leap in a bed or a relationship...
    besides, in some instances, gay or str8t, we need to think
    of the young person were with, then ourselves...
    youth isn't eternal; its short, and its gone in a blink of an eye.
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    May 18, 2010 4:56 AM GMT
    Was this post a haiku or some kind of rap lyrics? The formatting made me feel like I was reading some spoken work def slam poetry jam...LOL
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    May 18, 2010 5:17 AM GMT
    nice.
    cold.
    catty.
    contemptuous.

    the response made me think of
    Noah's Arc rejects who were partying
    on Cover Girl cosmetics and old
    tired quips from the Muppet Show.

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    May 18, 2010 5:26 AM GMT
    WTF?
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    May 18, 2010 5:40 AM GMT
    Wasn't quite sure if I were reading some standard post or lyrics or poetry.

    The question of age: It really depends on the person and if they are comfortable with, specifically in this case, age.

    Granted, you must take into consideration the laws regarding interactions of a sexual nature with those who are of a specific age (typically 18 and over). And consentual sex is also important.

    Use your best judgement. Talk to them, see where lines are drawn. When they are ready, they will let you know.

    And remember: 20, 24, 28, 37, 45, 50... they are just numbers. The connections you make with people eclipse trivial things like race, gender, and age.
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    May 18, 2010 5:42 AM GMT
    Just tattoo this on the back of your hand

    Graphed At Last: f(x) = ½x + 7

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    from the website

    [url]http://www.theawl.com/2010/05/graphed-at-last-fx-%C2%BDx-7[/url]
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    May 18, 2010 7:48 AM GMT
    ewwwwwwwwwwwww you child abuser call 911 hahaha jk jk

    never i like older guys not younger sorry
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    May 21, 2010 8:02 PM GMT
    I could not get into these younger dudes, I actually feel sorry 4 them, and I especially feel sorry 4 the older kats who get into themicon_exclaim.gificon_eek.gif