DO you need to have Sex on your first date? what if the guy ask you? what will you do?

  • Jake04

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    May 18, 2010 10:33 PM GMT
    DO you need to have Sex on your first date? what if the guy ask you? what will you do?icon_confused.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gif
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    May 18, 2010 10:57 PM GMT
    Don't know.. probably would.. I've a bit of a whore.... saying no is just never that much fun
  • GQjock

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    May 18, 2010 11:02 PM GMT
    If I wanna? I will icon_cool.gif
  • martinaston

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    May 18, 2010 11:13 PM GMT
    Listen to your 'old chap' he may have Yoda's wrinkles but also his wisdom...
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    May 18, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    It depends. There have been times that yes, I did. Now? Probably not, but I've learned never to say never. icon_wink.gif
  • Jake04

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    May 18, 2010 11:25 PM GMT
    Guys this is my First Date and maybe my frist sex in a guy=)still never been in a guy before even Kiss=)
  • jgymnast733

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    May 18, 2010 11:30 PM GMT
    Well if i'm going on a date with him he'll obviously be hot and if he asks the answer is YES....
    just wish i could get over my shynessicon_redface.gif
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    May 18, 2010 11:38 PM GMT
    No. I can do it before the date if he prefers.
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    May 18, 2010 11:40 PM GMT
    Only if I REALLY liked the person, and even then... I'd still probably hold off for just a little while...until we started making out, of course.
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    May 18, 2010 11:47 PM GMT
    I like to at least save something for the dates to come. (AKA - I want to see if I actually like the guy or not before I take the risk of being cock-whipped. lol).


    Or that was my mentality anyways. Now I don't have to worry about dating, thank God!
  • mcwclewis

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    May 18, 2010 11:48 PM GMT
    Not a chance.


    I'm a bit old-fashioned. I don't mind what others do as long as they respect my decision to wait.
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    May 19, 2010 12:00 AM GMT
    drafts24 saidGuys this is my First Date and maybe my frist sex in a guy=)still never been in a guy before even Kiss=)

    If it's the first time you'd be having sex with a guy, I'd advice you not to have sex on your first date. Unless you have no problem with it being a one-night thing, which can happen.
  • Jake04

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    May 19, 2010 12:09 AM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    drafts24 saidGuys this is my First Date and maybe my frist sex in a guy=)still never been in a guy before even Kiss=)

    If it's the first time you'd be having sex with a guy, I'd advice you not to have sex on your first date. Unless you have no problem with it being a one-night thing, which can happen.


    thanks....i like your comment...
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    May 19, 2010 12:13 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidNo. I can do it before the date if he prefers.


    That was the best line written here in the forum! I like it and concur.
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    May 19, 2010 12:17 AM GMT
    It depends. If you're just looking for a one-night stand then sex on a first date is fine. If you want a relationship, it's better to take things slower. Kiss on the first date, go a step further on the second... and on the third, well, you know... make us proud.

    Since this is your first time EVER, I highly suggest doing it with someone you know and trust... and that means taking the time to get to know the person and feel comfortable with him.

    Do you really want to look back years from now and barely remember the first guy you were with?
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    May 19, 2010 12:21 AM GMT
    I don't...so the mofo can wait til I feel we know eachother better icon_lol.gif
  • Jake04

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    May 19, 2010 12:23 AM GMT
    SeaSon saidIt depends. If you're just looking for a one-night stand then sex on a first date is fine. If you want a relationship, it's better to take things slower. Kiss on the first date, go a step further on the second... and on the third, well, you know... make us proud.

    Since this is your first time EVER, I highly suggest doing it with someone you know and trust... and that means taking the time to get to know the person and feel comfortable with him.

    Do you really want to look back years from now and barely remember the first guy you were with?

    im looking for a relationship and i think your right its better to take things slower
  • JayDT

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    May 19, 2010 12:23 AM GMT
    Sex on a first date is generally the kiss of death for a second date. Guys like to chase a bit, the anticipation of flirting and getting to know someone. Putting it out there so quickly, they lose respect for you.
  • HankFit247

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    May 19, 2010 12:25 AM GMT
    Depends.

    If he presents himself as possible relationship material, then No. I don’t date Easy guys.

    If he’s dumb as a box of rocks, probably.
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    May 19, 2010 12:28 AM GMT
    not a chance it'll happen.

    I rather get to know someone and be sure that i want to take such a big step so i wont feel like it was rushed and feel like i made a mistake. Im not saying its wrong to have sex on a first date, i just know i wouldnt be comfortable.
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    May 19, 2010 12:29 AM GMT
    hell no...i havnt had sex but when we go on 90 dates then we can have sex hahaha.........and im not joking...but hey some guys do fuck on the first date and well they get the clap or clamidia...lmfao
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    May 19, 2010 12:30 AM GMT
    Personally, it's a no for me. It's happened before with guys I really liked and it kinda just ruins everything. Not saying that there aren't people out there who HAVE had sex on the first date and it all worked out. It's just not for me.
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    May 19, 2010 12:30 AM GMT
    The First date is for flowers, dinner and cuddling.

    The second date is for hot fucking and signing up for a china pattern.

    The third date is the decision time. Make it or break it off.
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    May 19, 2010 12:30 AM GMT
    I guess I am a bit of a prude. Back when i was single I tended to wait a while. To each his own, but I think it makes it hotter when you get to know each other as people first.
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    May 19, 2010 12:38 AM GMT
    No.