Booty call etiquette?

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    May 19, 2010 10:23 PM GMT
    Hey all,

    So long story short, Im a junior in college and seniors graduate this saturday. Theres a guy who I hooked up with last year who is a senior that Im interested in maybe a round 2, but not sure how to go about it. Just text him straight up askin' for some? Or be more subtle? I figured I have nothing to lose since he's graduating. I was recently in a play with him and got some signals one night at a bar but had to leave, so not totally out of the blue here. Some advice please?

    Oh and before "ura slut lol" I am not, thank you very much. icon_razz.gif
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    May 19, 2010 11:06 PM GMT
    a good way to go about it is "Wanna come watch a movie?" or "Wanna get a couple of beers?" or "would you like to come over for a sensual backrub followed by a wild fun adventure?"

    That last one always got a yes for me hehehe
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    May 20, 2010 1:45 AM GMT
    Oh really? I always heard that you shouldn't be too forward. But if you've had luck with that last one, maybe I'll give it a try. Worst thing that'll happen, he says no and graduates in 2 days. icon_cool.gif
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    May 20, 2010 1:46 AM GMT
    ura slut ... no, srsly, ura slut
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    May 20, 2010 1:57 AM GMT
    Caslon14000 saidura slut ... no, srsly, ura slut


    no u
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    May 20, 2010 3:02 AM GMT
    So is it a booty call or a booty text?
  • Greygull

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    May 20, 2010 3:08 AM GMT
    Come voer and watch a movie is usually pretty good, i mean its pretty obvious what youre going to do in the dark room is not just watch a movie heh.
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    May 20, 2010 3:39 AM GMT
    lol yeah if he doesnt figure out a text msg saying come watch a movie hes definitely not too bright lol....its the polite wanna hook up way icon_wink.gif
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    May 20, 2010 11:09 AM GMT
    Nukie saidOh really? I always heard that you shouldn't be too forward. But if you've had luck with that last one, maybe I'll give it a try. Worst thing that'll happen, he says no and graduates in 2 days. icon_cool.gif

    Oh sweety... no is not the worst that could happen.. the worse is he's a bad second lay!
  • Timbales

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    May 20, 2010 12:49 PM GMT
    What's wrong with "We had fun last time, want to go again?"
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    May 20, 2010 1:32 PM GMT
    Nukie saidHey all,

    So long story short, Im a junior in college and seniors graduate this saturday. Theres a guy who I hooked up with last year who is a senior that Im interested in maybe a round 2, but not sure how to go about it. Just text him straight up askin' for some? Or be more subtle? I figured I have nothing to lose since he's graduating. I was recently in a play with him and got some signals one night at a bar but had to leave, so not totally out of the blue here. Some advice please?

    Oh and before "ura slut lol" I am not, thank you very much. icon_razz.gif


    As liltanker said:
    "Come for movies..." is a great way to get a yes from him....and it should be easy to transition from watching movies to...errr...you-know-what. ;)

    A great way to involve him too is to tell him to bring the movie...he might surprise you and bring porn.

    Have fun and be safe...oh and one final word of advice...if it smells rotten it probably shouldn't be put in your mouth.icon_wink.gif
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    May 20, 2010 5:22 PM GMT
    Kage said
    Nukie saidHey all,

    So long story short, Im a junior in college and seniors graduate this saturday. Theres a guy who I hooked up with last year who is a senior that Im interested in maybe a round 2, but not sure how to go about it. Just text him straight up askin' for some? Or be more subtle? I figured I have nothing to lose since he's graduating. I was recently in a play with him and got some signals one night at a bar but had to leave, so not totally out of the blue here. Some advice please?

    Oh and before "ura slut lol" I am not, thank you very much. icon_razz.gif


    As liltanker said:
    "Come for movies..." is a great way to get a yes from him....and it should be easy to transition from watching movies to...errr...you-know-what. ;)

    A great way to involve him too is to tell him to bring the movie...he might surprise you and bring porn.

    Have fun and be safe...oh and one final word of advice...if it smells rotten it probably shouldn't be put in your mouth.icon_wink.gif

    You.
    You are a genius with the "bring a movie over" comment.

    I bow to your hooking up skills.
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    May 21, 2010 3:16 AM GMT
    Wow! now they have etiquette in Booty calls now wtf? hahahahhaha
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    May 21, 2010 3:19 AM GMT
    wouldnt a simple "hey wanna fuck?" work?....or maybe Im just not creative enough
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    May 21, 2010 3:21 AM GMT
    What if you just want to watch a movie..... icon_eek.gif
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    May 21, 2010 3:25 AM GMT
    All this stuff about inviting him to watch a movie or hang out is crock..

    just say "hey, it was fun last time we met, i was wondering if we could have a do-over icon_smile.gif"
  • Kage

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    May 21, 2010 6:32 AM GMT
    RST2009 saidWhat if you just want to watch a movie..... icon_eek.gif


    Then you will just watch a movie. ;)
  • dfrourke

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    May 21, 2010 6:37 AM GMT
    I am with the guys who voted "straight forward" response...if you want a round 2...let him know you are up for round 2...

    round 2 hardly qualifies you as a slut...unless this is your 1,000th round 2 this year...then you are a slut...

    Have fun...let us know what the heck happens...

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    May 21, 2010 6:38 AM GMT
    Aggieboy saidAll this stuff about inviting him to watch a movie or hang out is crock..

    just say "hey, it was fun last time we met, i was wondering if we could have a do-over icon_smile.gif"


    Sometimes I prefer the subtle-but-obvious-ploy for sex.
    It makes ther other person feel at ease (even though they know what is coming) and there is nothing like a bit of a flirt or that first kiss during a movie.

    I am certain that "do you wanna fuck?" will be as successful.icon_wink.gif
    It is all about preference and the movie thing works...especially for those guys that are "curious" and needs that bit of normality that "bring a movie" provides. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 23, 2010 3:46 AM GMT
    Thanks for the advice guys! So I tried the "Wanna come over and fuck?" and he said yes...then stood me up. Texted me this morning, said his phone died and he wanted to take a rain check tonight. Well...still no call. Not wasting anymore time on this.
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    May 23, 2010 3:58 AM GMT
    Maybe he knows ur in heat like a whore...icon_lol.gif
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    May 23, 2010 4:00 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidSo is it a booty call or a booty text?


    I've had luck with a booty Facebook wall post.
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    May 23, 2010 4:02 AM GMT
    Nukie saidThanks for the advice guys! So I tried the "Wanna come over and fuck?" and he said yes...then stood me up. Texted me this morning, said his phone died and he wanted to take a rain check tonight. Well...still no call. Not wasting anymore time on this.


    Probably becuase his straight friends won't leave him alone long enough for him to come over.
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    May 23, 2010 4:05 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo said
    paulflexes saidSo is it a booty call or a booty text?


    I've had luck with a booty Facebook wall post.
    But have you ever jizzed on a Facebook wall?
    If you have, I hope you cleaned your monitor.
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    May 23, 2010 4:07 AM GMT
    lilTanker saida good way to go about it is "Wanna come watch a movie?" or "Wanna get a couple of beers?" or "would you like to come over for a sensual backrub followed by a wild fun adventure?"

    That last one always got a yes for me hehehe


    That last one would get a yes from ME too if it came from you - and if I was unattached. You and your dreamy bedroom eyes, Tanky. You can't miss!
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