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Is this guy gay????

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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 1:18 AM GMT
    OK Boys,
    Need some advice. When I go to the gym I keep running into this guy in the locker room, to be more exact, we always seem to be in the hot tub at the same time! Ive had many good times with other guys, so im not new to this whole thing, but I am a little perplexed. This guy seems very "straight". He is a pro boxer, very macho. But, he seems to not have any problems jumping in the hot tub with me completely nude with his amazing body and beautiful cock! He always takes the same position, and is very chatty. Every time we are in the hot tub together he is always "accidently" hitting me with his hand or foot. "Sorry bro" is what I keep hearing. I became a bit more aggressive today and "accidentally" put my foot next to his leg and didn't say anything. He waited a few seconds and said, "its getting a little crowded in here huh?". I gave him a "sorry bro" back! WTF? I see him giving me secret glances, and when he jumps out of the tub he always leans over me, touching his amazing abs on my leg to get his towel, and doesn't say a word! Most straight guys, especially in their 20's always cover up and never let you see their cocks, this guys is the opposite, especially it seems with me. How can I tell if he wants to fool around, but feels uncomfortable taking this to another level? If he wants to experiment, I am eager and willing! Any tips?

    Thanks.
    Hard in the Tub
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 1:23 AM GMT
    I'm trying to figure out/ picture how his amazing abs touch your legs when he jumps out of the tub and bends down to get his towel? If your legs are under the water.. or are they by this time up around your neck?
    Inquiring mind wants to know LOL

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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    lanecarlson saidIs this guy gay????
    Yes.
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 1:29 AM GMT
    The towel bar is on one side, where im sitting usually. We are both still in the tub when he comes to grab his towel. Does that clear it up?
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 1:35 AM GMT
    Maybe he isnt gay....just enjoys getting little gay boys like you in a tizzy. ...
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 1:38 AM GMT
    Yeah? Maybe so... Hmmmmmmm
  • MuchMoreThanM... Posts: 21247
    QUOTE May 20, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
    Hym...you screw this up and he turns out to be straight he may kick the shit out of you....after all he is a boxer.
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 1:45 AM GMT
    Exactly!!! I dont want to make him uncomfortable, guess I should let me make the move!
  • i_VAN Posts: 3279
    QUOTE May 20, 2010 4:38 AM GMT
    give him a spank in the ass , see how he reacts

    *be forwarned, wear a mouthguard & probably some vasaline...for either case
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 5:08 AM GMT
    meh I wouldn't bother, he sounds like a straight guy who likes the attention (no matter where it's from) he's probably caught you checking him out and just wants an ego boost.
  • Greekboxer Posts: 2592
    QUOTE May 20, 2010 5:11 AM GMT
    fag
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 5:18 AM GMT
    Sounds like ur horny bro...
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 5:18 AM GMT
    i am afraid to go on locker room and get a shower because i am afraid i get an erection..i dunno if someone had mention this before...

    dont you get exited when you see his cock O_o...thats why i never shower there lol....maybe i will control it..maybe not...
  • lozano86 Posts: 293
    QUOTE May 20, 2010 5:22 AM GMT
    naw he just likes the attention. maybe you should ask him about his girlfriend.
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 5:39 AM GMT
    sounds like he's trying to get a rise out of you. He's definitely not completely straight.
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 5:40 AM GMT
    I don't know if he's gay or not but you certainly sound like you are.
  • Delivis Posts: 2332
    QUOTE May 20, 2010 5:41 AM GMT
    Ask him.
  • Abc123456 Posts: 336
    QUOTE May 20, 2010 5:48 AM GMT
    He's a boxer... if he does MMA stuff, contact probably isn't something he thinks about, or is weirded out by; not sure if you've done any of that stuff, but it's fucking gay in really straight way.

    His comment about it being crowded was telling you to back off; I wouldn't push it. He's a straight guy who's caught you staring at him a few times and he's probably wondering wtf your issue is. If he's a fruit, he'll make a move because, by the sounds of it, you're not being that "under the radar".

    Save the gym for working out, eh? Prevents messy situations like that.
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 5:56 AM GMT
    fastfreddie saidI don't know if he's gay or not but you certainly sound like you are.



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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 6:09 AM GMT
    Maybe... you never know...
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 6:10 AM GMT
    He sounds like a straight guy who just wants to be a "cock tease." Straights like any kind of attention.
  • ssguy69 Posts: 617
    QUOTE May 20, 2010 6:34 AM GMT
    Leave it alone. If you become assertive the game is over-but then who wants to play this game anyway? He plays on the edge but only likes to lead the game not follow. You fall in deeper but then he sends mixed messages.

    Typical scenario and you can either call it quits or continue playing this game with the player himself.
  • tajsreve Posts: 361
    QUOTE May 20, 2010 7:21 AM GMT
    This is a game or sparring match (so to speak) for him.
    Leave the Gay/Straight issue out.
    He's loving everything that it is doing to you...
    Trust me he knows exactly what it is doing to you.
    The point of this is, He probably has a great body and loves the attention, but if you try to come on to him, you will lose BIG TIME!
    Hell you will loose BIG TIME anyway if you can't play the game.
    dash3echo is right on target... You're gym buds leave it at that..
    This guy has no self-esteme... he needs you checking him out to boost it...
    If you don't want to play the game then avoid him.
    This game turns him on. Does it turn you on?
    If so then you have to change your thinking from;
    " You're so fricken hot and I want to verb your noun! "
    to;
    " You're so fricken hot, but so am I, so what the hell are YOU going to do about it! "
    Life is good... Play Hard (to get)
  • tajsreve Posts: 361
    QUOTE May 20, 2010 7:23 AM GMT
    ssguy69 saidLeave it alone. If you become assertive the game is over-but then who wants to play this game anyway? He plays on the edge but only likes to lead the game not follow. You fall in deeper but then he sends mixed messages.

    Typical scenario and you can either call it quits or continue playing this game with the player himself.




    EXACTLY!
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    QUOTE May 20, 2010 8:06 AM GMT
    OK, thanks everyone, sounds like I need to stick to the guys who know what they are and what they want!