Do you really have to happy for them...?

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    May 20, 2010 3:43 PM GMT
    Say you've broken up with your boyfriend in the past 5 months... You guys talked about getting back together and you thought it really would work this time. Things go south because you discover the he's been dating "Cody", and now they're boyfriends... Do I really have to be happy for my ex and his new lover?
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    May 20, 2010 3:54 PM GMT
    I want for him to be happy, but I don't think I am happy for them...
  • Timbales

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    May 20, 2010 4:10 PM GMT
    No, you don't have to be happy for them. But it's a nice thing to say and can help you move on.
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    May 20, 2010 4:15 PM GMT
    God no. Fuck that bitch.

    In a sense, you talked things over, and when you wanted it to go back...he's already moved on.
    He may be in love with two people, which isn't his fault, but he decided to act on one when he almost promised another...which is a no no. Just move on. It'll be much easier in the long run to look at someone else and go, "This is what I want".