WORK OUT BUDDIES!

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    May 21, 2010 11:14 PM GMT
    I need some advice on looking for some local gay workout buddies to workout with.i workout at home.i'm both a private guy and a social guy.
    should they same fitness level as me or have a higher fitness than me?should they be in the same weight class as me or higher weight class
    than me?how can i find out what my fitness level is?how can i find out
    what my own weight clsss is?
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    May 24, 2010 9:25 PM GMT
    should my workout buddies my own body size or bigger men with bigger
    muscles than me?i haven't lift weights in years.i miss working out.
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    May 24, 2010 9:33 PM GMT
    Tthey should ideally be your same size and have similar goals. If you find someone who has different goals, its not a bad thing necessarili, you may learn new techniques from them and benefit from that. Also, they dont have to be gay, just a bud.
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    May 24, 2010 9:37 PM GMT
    Your workout partner should, at least, have similar goals as yourself. If your goal is to just tone up, you will get along fine with someone who simply wants to tone up as well... (you might want someone with just as much stamina, if not alittle more, as that will give both you and him a lot of motivation)

    Does he have to be gay? I understand there is a comfort level you may be trying to attain.
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    May 24, 2010 9:53 PM GMT
    I tried to workout buddies with straight men in the past & it didn't workout at all for me.I want my gay workout buddies as sexbuddies,lovers & friends with benefits as well my muscle buddies and workout buddies.gay single
    men meet mett my friendship needs better for me than bimen,married men
    & straight men can.
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    May 24, 2010 9:58 PM GMT
    i'm trying 2 tone up my arm muscles as well other muscle building
    goals these days.
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    May 25, 2010 3:38 AM GMT
    What weight class in bodybuilding am i?I was 225 lbs last winter.I don't
    know my weight is right now at all.I haven't got weighted since last winter.
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    May 25, 2010 4:59 AM GMT
    bigbubba1972 said...
    I want my gay workout buddies as sexbuddies,lovers & friends with benefits ...
    Don't we all!!! <3 icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 25, 2010 5:40 AM GMT
    bigbubba1972 saidWhat weight class in bodybuilding am i?I was 225 lbs last winter.I don't
    know my weight is right now at all.I haven't got weighted since last winter.


    http://www.bodybuildingcompetition.com/weightdivisions.htm
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    May 25, 2010 11:34 PM GMT
    I found out my weight class is heavy weight.should my workout buddies &
    muscle buddies be the same weight class as me or higher?
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    Jun 10, 2010 4:45 AM GMT
    what kind of muscle building exercises should i do at home alone and with my future gay single male friends as a heavy weight bodybuilder?
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    Jun 10, 2010 4:56 AM GMT
    ...are you a body builder?
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    Jun 10, 2010 5:03 AM GMT
    not right now,i haven't lift weights in years and i miss it alot.i wanna get
    back into body building.that's why i'm looking for some local gay big
    muscle buddies to workout with without going to any of the local gyms or
    health clubs.i'm a very private guy.i would rather workout with other gay
    single men at home or at their home than at a health club any day.
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    Jun 10, 2010 5:18 AM GMT
    First piece of advice is to lose this dream of having a muscle jock come over, train with you and then have sex with you.

    A workout buddy NEEDS to be your workout buddy and not your fuck buddy or you two will not work out.

    Secondly, break out of the "private" shell and get out to a gym. Post an add looking for another chubby buddy and go to the gym together. Do your cardio together, then set up a weight routine together. It is fine if he is gay, hell 50% of my clients are gay but don't look for lovers, boyfriends, or friends with benefits in just your chubby buddy.

    You are looking for WAY too much in one person. If you are serious about changing your physical appearance, find a true chubby buddy to workout with. Use craigslist or manhunt if you want to fuck.
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    Jun 10, 2010 5:22 AM GMT
    What Pinny said.
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    Jun 10, 2010 5:58 AM GMT
    Really, what is your fascination with having someone gay, and why does he specifically have to be gay? Do you really know what you want? Honestly, if you are serious about achieving your fitness goals and your [future] partner has the same mindset, I doubt the first thing on his mind will be recreating a porn scene where you two work out, then he or you will magically bend over and go to town on each other. Its unrealistic and pointless. Get your personal priorities situated and find out what you actually want.

    Not to be 'bitchy,' but -- I am a big dude that's actually into working out and getting in shape [i could care less about sexual hookups and the like] -- you are perpetuating the stereotype of the cliche big guy stepping into the gym just to scope out the dudes hoping to make a connection... that aint how it works, friend. Again, you need to differentiate what you actually want; if you are solely looking for a gay dude that you can ultimately 'do stuff' with, you will NOT get your desired results. You may actually make an enemy because your partner may be MORE interested in working out than making out, while you are more into making out than working out.

    ok, I am finished with my rant, and i hope i have disseminated some sort of useful info.
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    Jun 10, 2010 10:52 PM GMT
    i have the right to be picky who I workout with and where at all.i'm not
    into crorded places at all.i'm not into being around big groups of people
    at all.i have got enough straight people in my socal life.i don't want
    any more and i don't any more at all.my friendship is not free at all.
    only other gay single men can meet all of my friendship needs and
    my other personal needs for me.i want my workout buddy to be my
    friend,bestfriend and lover not just my workout buddy.my workout
    buddy is gonna be my dream lover.i will never to go a local gym or a
    local health club ever again at all.they can't meet my social needs or
    my health needs at all.
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    Jun 12, 2010 1:40 AM GMT
    I don't know how to process that LOADED statement.

    You are on the wrong site then. Your priorities are out of sync; being so introverted is not good at all. You also seem like you have a "holier than thou" complex. I wish you luck with your ventures--you do not seem like a very happy person, seek assistance with that.
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    Jul 18, 2010 7:25 AM GMT
    i'm only willing to work out with other gay men at home.straight people can
    not meet all of my needs for me like gay male friends can.i'm not a push
    over any more all.i'm putting myself & my own needs first for now on.i have
    got enough straight people in my socail life.i don't need or want any
    more straight people in my life at all.i make new friends,find new friends
    & keep my present friendships based on all my past friendship experiences
    so i won't make friendship mistakes and have the same friendship
    problems in the past.
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    Jul 18, 2010 7:37 AM GMT
    i'm not an oldfashioned gay man at all.i'm not into oldashioned dating or
    oldfasioned friendships at all.i'm a sexual,playful,lustul,horny single
    men with a very healthy high sex drive.i'm not looking for a bofriend,
    i'm looking friends with benefits not a boyfriend.
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    Jul 19, 2010 6:14 PM GMT
    I'm just going to say it, BigBubba, I don't think you're in it for the right reasons, all of your posts seem like your trying to attract men like a Venus flytrap. You have to realize nobody wants to be with you when not only do you have an unattractive body, but also an unattractive demeanor and personality. You can dream all you want but until you make yourself into the kind of man you would want to date you cant expect someone to just pity fuck you. Thats no way to live dude.
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    Jul 20, 2010 4:09 AM GMT
    living oldfashioned lifestyle is no way to live at all.
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    Jul 21, 2010 6:11 PM GMT
    skinny men and light weight men have no businees giving advice on muscle building ,weight traight training,power lifting,weight lifting,exercising,body
    building to bigger men at all.only other big men can good avice on those
    things.skinny guys & light weight guys are not experts on those things or
    they would not be skinny or light weight in the first place.being skinny is not
    healthy at all.being a light weight guy is not healthy at all.real men,healthy
    men,macho men,masculine men,natural men are not skinny guys or light
    weight guys at all.they are heavy weight guys with big muscles.
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    Jul 23, 2010 6:47 PM GMT
    I have got the right to be picky who I workout with.