May 23, 2010 8:24 PM GMT
I have been fooling around with someone for about ten months now; I care about him very much, but the problem is when we go to have sex and I bottom I either loose my erection or cannot cum. Like others have said it is not that I am not enjoying the experience the first 3 minutes at the most are uncomfortable but that is to be expected. I really want to be able to experience cuming while he is in me, it would really mean the world to me lol. Is there anything I can do? I don't want to make him miss out on the experience of getting someone off either.