Scared about bottoming

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    May 23, 2010 9:19 PM GMT
    Ok guys...

    So me and my bf took it to the next level finally and it was amazing. But now, when we get to doing it again, I'm scared. I don't know what to expect really. I don't want him to ....errr..come in contact with stuff he doesn't want to. Any advice?
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    May 23, 2010 11:09 PM GMT
    Yes, the thing you fear is called feces sweety or commonly referred to as shit...

    You do not with to make him your tootsie roll and this my sweet is a good thing

    What you need is an enema, wilipedia describes an enema thusly

    An enema (plural enemata or enemas) is the procedure of introducing liquids into the rectum and colon via the anus. The increasing volume of the liquid causes rapid expansion of the lower intestinal tract, often resulting in very uncomfortable bloating, cramping, powerful peristalsis, a feeling of extreme urgency and complete evacuation of the lower intestinal tract.


    Delicious don't you think...

    anywho, you can pick up an enema kit for private use at home, a wonderful way to prepare for some "gay play" you can find them online very easily.

    However, personally, I prefer a bulb rather then a bag.. why? well.. personally I don't need a thousand gallon flush to get my booty all well and good, it's more just a precautionary measure PLUS, a guy really likes eating a nice fresh hole!

    The one I have is http://www.cduniverse.com/productinfo.asp?pid=6743758&style=atoy

    of course, now that I have put my entire personal booty hygiene prep online for all the world to see.. I am going to go and read another thread!

    Have fun, be safe and most of all relax sweety, it's just a cock..
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    May 24, 2010 7:55 PM GMT
    Accidentally read this thread while I was eating curry...
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    May 24, 2010 8:14 PM GMT
    stephen109 saidOk guys...

    So me and my bf took it to the next level finally and it was amazing. But now, when we get to doing it again, I'm scared. I don't know what to expect really. I don't want him to ....errr..come in contact with stuff he doesn't want to. Any advice?

    He knows you're a novice, right? So be frank with him about your concerns, that you would appreciate his going very slow & gentle, and stopping if you're having too much discomfort. A considerate guy will know to do this, even without being told. And if you can't continue at some point, let him know you still intend to do it, and want to try again later.

    An experienced top knows it sometimes takes a few attempts to get a novice able to take a dick. He may just finger your prostate for the first couple of tries, to get you used to the sensation, and also to the potential pleasure. And use tons of lube -- a newbie can never have too much lube, of the condom-safe variety.

    And actually, some guys enjoy the process of "breaking a guy in" and won't mind if it doesn't happen the first time you try. My first BF was that way, and never forced me. And fortunately he was versatile, so I got my initial experience as a top with him, too, and that helped to keep him satisfied when I was having trouble being a first-time bottom. Maybe your guy is versatile, too?

    As for the cleanliness issue, lilTanker covered most of it. Time of day can be important, too, if you have regular bowel habits. If you usually have a single morning movement, then anal sex immediately upon waking is prolly not gonna be good. In that case waiting until you've visited the bathroom, beginning a window of opportunity through the early evening hours, doing the enema routine Tanker mentions. But an enema won't help much with a big stool in your rectum, so wait until after you've had a good dump.
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    Jun 11, 2010 4:20 PM GMT
    Eat more fibers and vegetables the day before sex so that your anal cannal isn't stuck with 'unwanted' matters inside.