edging...how do you do it?

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    May 27, 2007 1:24 PM GMT
    Okay, guy's, help me out here-
    have found reference to edging on line and in various other areas, but know little about it.
    I take it, that you hold back while beating off, coming to the 'edge' of ejaculation, thereby making orgasm more intense and of higher volume when you do cum...
    But..how do you hold back? Is there a certain way you grasp your cock when you are about ready to shoot, or what...
    there may be other forums on this topic, but have failed to find them. Please be kind enough to educate me..and maybe a few other guys that desire this knowledge. Am with a really nice guy now, and would like to really 'perform' for him in the best way I can. A first shot over my shoulder would be awesome and maybe this technique could help me achieve this (realize the second ejaculation probably wouldnt be as forceful as the first, and thats okay) I shoot past my navel, now, but always open to improvement.
    thanks so much for your input, and helping 2 guy's become even more satisfied than they now are!
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    May 27, 2007 3:02 PM GMT
    Personally, I have yet to cultivate enough discipline to ride the edge and not just cum. But, you might find the help and answers you seek on this Yahoo group:

    Mindful Masturbation for Men
  • GQjock

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    May 27, 2007 7:04 PM GMT
    Its not rocket science guys ...
    it would be difficult to do if someone else is involved but if you're masterbating as you're feeling an orgasm building you lay off until the feeling subsides and go on from there...
    everybody's different and different techniques and pressure points and stuff like that work for some and not for others
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    Jun 06, 2007 9:44 PM GMT
    Edging equals= stop being greedy and wait.

    When you're there, just hold back. You don't have to pursue it and finish.

    Its hard for some men to do so simply because masturbation is so goal oriented. You're only doing it for one reason and people aren't used to denying themselves that initial burst.

    Personally all its every did for me was increase the amount of ejaculant. its never really made my ejaculations feel any better.

    But hey, its different for different folks so give it a try.
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    Sep 18, 2009 6:52 AM GMT
    Sirkyous saidEdging equals= stop being greedy and wait.

    LMAO, well said! I love edging, It's so much more intense.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Sep 18, 2009 7:02 AM GMT
    I have never been a quick cummer, so I would just rather have a long sex session that builds up with a faster and faster pumping and bang baNG BANG. I still have 8-10 strong contactions and a huge load. I take prostate supplements and practice male kegel exercise!! You can also cut off your urine flow and start it again-builds a stong pump muscle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!icon_idea.gif

    being Italian doesn't hurt either!!icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 18, 2009 6:00 PM GMT
    yup.... when you are near blowing you stop. Then start again. You learn where the point of no return is. This is a very useful skill when you come to use it with others

  • cbrock

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    Jan 29, 2010 10:25 PM GMT
    When you know you're only a few more strokes away from the point of no return just stop or slow down. It takes a lot of will power, but it's SO worth it. The longer you edge, the hotter and more intense the orgasm is. And usually the farther and more you shoot. After you've edged for a while you feel almost like dying, but in a good way. All you can think about is cumming, but for some reason you're still holding off. It can be easy to accidently do one or two strokes too many and inadvertently cum, it happens. Usually you're aware of how close you are and when you need to stop. When approaching the edge, just be aware of it. You might need to simply stroke a little slower for a while, stop all together for a moment, or even give the shaft a good long hard squeeze in an attempt to postpone the orgasm. Sometimes it's as simple as avoiding the head while stroking, maybe even keeping the focus towards the base of the shaft. My personal record is 3 hours - with the help of another guy.
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    Jan 29, 2010 10:56 PM GMT
    i do it every night..but its kinda becoming a problem....when i do actually have sex..i take really long to ejaculate and my mate ...gets tired of it all and wants to stop. lol
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    Jan 29, 2010 11:02 PM GMT
    Hmmm would you like a visual??