I think my boyfriend is boring

  • Import

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    May 24, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
    maybe it's just me, but recently I'm bored with my BF.

    Honestly, all he ever wants to do is lay around and have a random 3rd wheel attached to him where ever he goes....


    for example, we were headed to the beach and then he got the bright idea to go see a psychic for a psychic reading.... so i dropped his ass off at some random lady's aparatment complex and I chilled at my friends for a half hour while he did that. . . he paid $60 for a half hour "psychic reading"

    I thought a day at the beach would have been fine, but apparently not. We were literally at the beach and he's glued to his iphone looking up different psychics in the area. . . . looking to get a reading.. .

    honestly, are u fucking serious???

    sometimes, my bf irritates the fuck outta me...
    Now, he invited one of his friend over my house and they're both sleeping in separarte rooms icon_lol.gif

    like why have guests over if u plan on going to sleep???





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    May 24, 2010 1:45 AM GMT
    You'd love dating me, then. When I'm at the beach, I usually turn my phone OFF. I hate being disturbed (or called into work) when I'm trying to relax. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 24, 2010 1:46 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidYou'd love dating me, then. When I'm at the beach, I usually turn my phone OFF. I hate being disturbed (or called into work) when I'm trying to relax. icon_biggrin.gif


    Wait, I thought you were going to join me at the big black orgy. Is the beach after?
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    May 24, 2010 1:47 AM GMT
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    paulflexes saidYou'd love dating me, then. When I'm at the beach, I usually turn my phone OFF. I hate being disturbed (or called into work) when I'm trying to relax. icon_biggrin.gif


    Wait, I thought you were going to join me at the big black orgy. Is the beach after?
    I thought it was AT the beach.
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    May 24, 2010 1:48 AM GMT
    Import saidmaybe it's just me, but recently I'm bored with my BF.

    Honestly, all he ever wants to do is lay around and have a random 3rd wheel attached to him where ever he goes....


    for example, we were headed to the beach and then he got the bright idea to go see a psychic for a psychic reading.... so i dropped his ass off at some random lady's aparatment complex and I chilled at my friends for a half hour while he did that. . . he paid $60 for a half hour "psychic reading"

    I thought a day at the beach would have been fine, but apparently not. We were literally at the beach and he's glued to his iphone looking up different psychics in the area. . . . looking to get a reading.. .

    honestly, are u fucking serious???

    sometimes, my bf irritates the fuck outta me...
    Now, he invited one of his friend over my house and they're both sleeping in separarte rooms icon_lol.gif

    like why have guests over if u plan on going to sleep???

    Next time I run into your bf, I'll ask him for you. ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    ...and apparently your bf thinks you are none too interesting, too. ...icon_lol.gif
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    May 24, 2010 1:49 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidYou'd love dating me, then. When I'm at the beach, I usually turn my phone OFF. I hate being disturbed (or called into work) when I'm trying to relax. icon_biggrin.gif



    seriously.....
    i mean ur from south fla...

    today was a beautiful day.... all this guy wants to do is sit around and do nothing. . .
    I've been with him for over a year and im be coming so bored with his phone and laptop addiction....


    needless to say, he's always looking to invite a 3rd wheel with us where ever we go.


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    May 24, 2010 1:50 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]Caslon14000 said[/cite]
    Import saidmaybe it's just me, but recently I'm bored with my BF.

    Honestly, all he ever wants to do is lay around and have a random 3rd wheel attached to him where ever he goes....


    for example, we were headed to the beach and then he got the bright idea to go see a psychic for a psychic reading.... so i dropped his ass off at some random lady's aparatment complex and I chilled at my friends for a half hour while he did that. . . he paid $60 for a half hour "psychic reading"

    I thought a day at the beach would have been fine, but apparently not. We were literally at the beach and he's glued to his iphone looking up different psychics in the area. . . . looking to get a reading.. .

    honestly, are u fucking serious???

    sometimes, my bf irritates the fuck outta me...
    Now, he invited one of his friend over my house and they're both sleeping in separarte rooms icon_lol.gif

    like why have guests over if u plan on going to sleep???

    Next time I run into your bf, I'll ask him for you. ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    ...and apparently your bf thinks you are none too interesting, too. ...icon_lol.gif[/quote


    thanks caslon icon_smile.gif


    btw, i remember u from guys4men and u got the boot off the forums there icon_lol.gif

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    May 24, 2010 1:51 AM GMT
    Import said
    paulflexes saidYou'd love dating me, then. When I'm at the beach, I usually turn my phone OFF. I hate being disturbed (or called into work) when I'm trying to relax. icon_biggrin.gif



    seriously.....
    i mean ur from south fla...

    today was a beautiful day.... all this guy wants to do is sit around and do nothing. . .
    I've been with him for over a year and im be coming so bored with his phone and laptop addiction....


    needless to say, he's always looking to invite a 3rd wheel with us where ever we go.

    He's just interviewing prospective new bfs. ... as the saying goes: dont be off with the old until you are on with the new. ... icon_wink.gif
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    May 24, 2010 1:54 AM GMT
    Caslon14000 said
    Import said
    paulflexes saidYou'd love dating me, then. When I'm at the beach, I usually turn my phone OFF. I hate being disturbed (or called into work) when I'm trying to relax. icon_biggrin.gif



    seriously.....
    i mean ur from south fla...

    today was a beautiful day.... all this guy wants to do is sit around and do nothing. . .
    I've been with him for over a year and im be coming so bored with his phone and laptop addiction....


    needless to say, he's always looking to invite a 3rd wheel with us where ever we go.

    He's just interviewing prospective new bfs. ... as the saying goes: dont be off with the old until you are on with the new. ... icon_wink.gif



    the "3rd wheels" are always girls though....


    always. . . and they're fucking annoying.
    sorry, but when i wanna hang with my bf i dont want some 300 lb cow of a woman there shrieking her opionion about whats on access hollywood
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    May 24, 2010 1:55 AM GMT
    Import said
    Caslon14000 said
    Import said
    paulflexes saidYou'd love dating me, then. When I'm at the beach, I usually turn my phone OFF. I hate being disturbed (or called into work) when I'm trying to relax. icon_biggrin.gif



    seriously.....
    i mean ur from south fla...

    today was a beautiful day.... all this guy wants to do is sit around and do nothing. . .
    I've been with him for over a year and im be coming so bored with his phone and laptop addiction....


    needless to say, he's always looking to invite a 3rd wheel with us where ever we go.

    He's just interviewing prospective new bfs. ... as the saying goes: dont be off with the old until you are on with the new. ... icon_wink.gif



    the "3rd wheels" are always girls though....


    always. . . and they're fucking annoying.
    sorry, but when i wanna hang with my bf i dont want some 300 lb cow of a woman there shrieking her opionion about whats on access hollywood

    Oh damn! He's preferring fat women over you??? ... icon_eek.gif ... That must really hurt your self esteem. ... icon_cry.gif
  • Import

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    May 24, 2010 1:57 AM GMT
    Caslon14000 said
    Import said
    Caslon14000 said
    Import said
    paulflexes saidYou'd love dating me, then. When I'm at the beach, I usually turn my phone OFF. I hate being disturbed (or called into work) when I'm trying to relax. icon_biggrin.gif



    seriously.....
    i mean ur from south fla...

    today was a beautiful day.... all this guy wants to do is sit around and do nothing. . .
    I've been with him for over a year and im be coming so bored with his phone and laptop addiction....


    needless to say, he's always looking to invite a 3rd wheel with us where ever we go.

    He's just interviewing prospective new bfs. ... as the saying goes: dont be off with the old until you are on with the new. ... icon_wink.gif



    the "3rd wheels" are always girls though....


    always. . . and they're fucking annoying.
    sorry, but when i wanna hang with my bf i dont want some 300 lb cow of a woman there shrieking her opionion about whats on access hollywood

    Oh damn! He's preferring fat women over you??? ... icon_eek.gif ... That must really hurt your self esteem. ... icon_cry.gif



    help me icon_sad.gif
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    May 24, 2010 1:58 AM GMT
    what did the psychic lady say about his future?
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    May 24, 2010 1:59 AM GMT
    Import said
    Caslon14000 said
    Import said
    Caslon14000 said
    Import said
    paulflexes saidYou'd love dating me, then. When I'm at the beach, I usually turn my phone OFF. I hate being disturbed (or called into work) when I'm trying to relax. icon_biggrin.gif



    seriously.....
    i mean ur from south fla...

    today was a beautiful day.... all this guy wants to do is sit around and do nothing. . .
    I've been with him for over a year and im be coming so bored with his phone and laptop addiction....


    needless to say, he's always looking to invite a 3rd wheel with us where ever we go.

    He's just interviewing prospective new bfs. ... as the saying goes: dont be off with the old until you are on with the new. ... icon_wink.gif



    the "3rd wheels" are always girls though....


    always. . . and they're fucking annoying.
    sorry, but when i wanna hang with my bf i dont want some 300 lb cow of a woman there shrieking her opionion about whats on access hollywood

    Oh damn! He's preferring fat women over you??? ... icon_eek.gif ... That must really hurt your self esteem. ... icon_cry.gif



    help me icon_sad.gif

    Talk to him about it.
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    May 24, 2010 2:00 AM GMT
    Hey Import, why not tell the BF that you'd like time alone with him? Explain it means no communication devices on and no third parties. If you're mean in the delivery of this message he'll dig his heels in.

    -Doug
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    May 24, 2010 2:01 AM GMT
    Rodmramer saidwhat did the psychic lady say about his future?



    the psychic lady told him he needed air in his tires and that his bf (me) liked boats and the water..... icon_confused.gif


    the psychic also told him that we are going to end up in s small house by the water icon_rolleyes.gif


    the psycic failed to mention the fact that my own bf is seriously starting to piss me the fuck off. . .

    she couldnt sense that. .


    i think psychics and people that beleieve in them are fucking moronrs. icon_smile.gif


    just my humble opinion
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    May 24, 2010 2:02 AM GMT
    Who's bigger in size, you or him? If it's you, put him in a hot sleeper and take him to the ground. While you're on top of him, whisper in his ear (as you chew on it) to take that f*cking phone of his and drop it in the trash. Then hump him and show him you mean business.

    Settled.
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    May 24, 2010 2:05 AM GMT
    meninlove said Hey Import, why not tell the BF that you'd like time alone with him? Explain it means no communication devices on and no third parties. If you're mean in the delivery of this message he'll dig his heels in.

    -Doug



    my problem is that i've mentioned this to him before. .
    I've told him this.

    I think i'm better off without him. I dont wanna constantly have to concern myself with what hewants or what he's doing. . .

    i wanna do what I wanna do for once....
    not psychic readings and facials icon_confused.gif
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    May 24, 2010 2:22 AM GMT
    Import said
    paulflexes saidYou'd love dating me, then. When I'm at the beach, I usually turn my phone OFF. I hate being disturbed (or called into work) when I'm trying to relax. icon_biggrin.gif



    seriously.....
    i mean ur from south fla...

    today was a beautiful day.... all this guy wants to do is sit around and do nothing. . .
    I've been with him for over a year and im be coming so bored with his phone and laptop addiction....


    needless to say, he's always looking to invite a 3rd wheel with us where ever we go.


    That's one of the top thing on my "list of things to look for" when seeing a new guy. If the first thing he does after ordering dinner is pulls out his iPhone and starts texting/emailing/etc, that will be the last date. One of my pet peeves is being around people who are always "talking" to everyone else except for those in their immediate vicinity.

    Personally, I either turn off my phone or ignore the calls and texts 'till I'm back home by myself...unless the guy stays the night, which happened recently a couple times, and I ignored the phone 'till the next day. icon_lol.gif
  • THEREALFH

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    May 24, 2010 9:05 AM GMT
    What type of relationship do you have if you cant communicate what's on your mind. From the get-go its what I would do rather than let it escalate. You really haven't given examples of how he's boring other than the two of you are into different things and he's not really giving you any time. Communicate with him soon if you still want him or you just may find someone else who will give you the attention that you need.