How do you know if a guy is trying to pick you up?

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    Jan 31, 2008 7:09 PM GMT
    I'm 22 and live in this apartment complex - we have a computer section, and a couple times a week (lately every day), I've been talking to this built, muscular, hot Hispanic guy.

    He's the one who initiated conversation about two weeks ago, and is always trying to come up with something to say to me. Honestly, I can't tell if he's gay or not - last night, he asked me if I had a Myspace (I don't), and if I ever go out on weeknights (to which I replied I didn't).

    He also told me that he's recently divorced. Seriously, is this guy trying to pick me up or just be a nice guy?
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    Feb 02, 2008 2:58 AM GMT
    Maybe he wants a bar buddy.. if not.. yep he is hitting on you.
  • Timbales

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    Feb 02, 2008 3:02 AM GMT
    Sounds like he could be hitting on you, but if you're not sure play it cool. Ask him about his interests.
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    Feb 02, 2008 6:25 AM GMT
    Body language would be your best measure of if he's hitting on you or not.

    If you don't know how to read signals this is a good place to start :

    http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
  • GQjock

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    Feb 03, 2008 11:58 AM GMT
    Yeah...You'll need a little more info from him
    He might be but you can easily find out by telling him that you like going to ...and say the name of a local gay club in the area
    He'll likely know the name and if he picks up on it ...you're in