So, Odd question

  • Greygull

    Posts: 282

    May 24, 2010 4:25 PM GMT
    Okay in my relationship I normally bottom, IM vers, but i ahvent really topped in a long time. my BF just had a procedure done on his cock, so that he want have sex for about a month and wants me to top him. We're gone twice and it feels great but i cannot cum, not even after about half an hour of pounding. Any idea's?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 24, 2010 5:08 PM GMT
    Thinner condoms is my idea.
  • Timbales

    Posts: 13993

    May 24, 2010 5:47 PM GMT
    You can also try putting some lube up at the inside tip of the condom.

    But just because it feels good, it doesn't mean you have to cum that way.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 24, 2010 6:44 PM GMT
    Not every guy can cum while fucking, just like not every woman can. If you'd really like to, than thinner condoms and lubes inside may help. You can also ask your BF to "clamp down" when you feel you're close.

    Or, you can try other methods. A favorite one of me and my boyfriend is to let me cum then he pulls out and I jerk him off until he shoots all over me. icon_wink.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 24, 2010 11:06 PM GMT
    Just an assumption, but do you use a 'death-grip' when you jerk off? That will desensitize you from coming any other way. So, no more choking your dick while choking the chicken. Over time you can retrain your dick to respond to gentler friction.
  • Greygull

    Posts: 282

    May 25, 2010 5:45 AM GMT
    Thanks guys really great suggestions, I dont normally feel self conscious in bed but this is one of those things.

    And just in case anyone was curious, we're monogamous and regularly tested so we dont use condoms.

    Keep the suggestions coming please
  • Timbales

    Posts: 13993

    May 25, 2010 12:31 PM GMT
    Is he enjoying it while you're on top? Do you get concerned that he doesn't?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 25, 2010 2:02 PM GMT
    Christian73 saidYou can also ask your BF to "clamp down" when you feel you're close.


    This works with my mate, we usually end up spooning and with him all the way in me I'll squeeze my cheeks and do a little wiggle and BAM, it's all over red rover. Or you can get him to blow you to completion if ass to mouth doesn't gross you out too much.
  • Greygull

    Posts: 282

    May 25, 2010 2:18 PM GMT
    Heh i know he enjoys it, but there gets a point where he cant take it anymore and im nowhere close. feel great but it's like marathon sex!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 25, 2010 4:21 PM GMT
    Once I had "marathon sex" when we worked at it for 2.5 hours and I could not cum but he did. We decided to end it and went to bed. The next morning, we went at it again for an hour and a half I still couldn't cum yet he did.

    Frustrated, we just got up and headed for the shower together. After soaping each other up, we tried again. We were under that shower for almost 25 minutes when suddenly he smacked my wet butt a couple of times. It caught me by surprise and I blew a geyser all over the place!

    He smiled sexily and said, "It's about damn time!"
  • Greygull

    Posts: 282

    May 25, 2010 5:03 PM GMT
    Heh we've just been going till he's tired of it then he gives me a prostate massage and blam all over the place.



    I hate being a shooter, I make such a mess