Pics of bleeding pussies The thread that just doesnt want to die!!!

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    May 24, 2010 10:21 PM GMT
    Edit # 10000000 : this is a REALLY old post that keeps on getting borned to life by I dont know who and dont express my point of view at all!!!

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    May 24, 2010 10:34 PM GMT
    There are more quality guys/gays out there. Just stay out of bars, clubs and bathhouses if that is not your thing. Go looking at gay sport clubs, community-centers or even gay-friendly churches. But nobody likes a judgmental dick-head who feels he's better than everybody else.
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    May 24, 2010 10:58 PM GMT
    snowboarder saidRealjock is my only gay thing I see and use to keep in contact with other gays and hoping to gather some stories and advices to cheer me up

    I always have a gay story for every occasion. But first perhaps you should tell us yours, so we can pick the best of our own stories for you.

    "...what happened to me yesterday and the douche/slutty move that I had to see right in front of my eyes..." is rather cryptic. Can you please be more specific?
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    May 24, 2010 11:48 PM GMT
    I am not a person with a lot of knowledge of this gay world but I have learned enough not to make sweeping generalizations.
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    May 25, 2010 12:21 AM GMT
    The girly, model-walking ones seem to be the sluttiest. They're the ones I avoid when I go out.
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    May 25, 2010 12:27 AM GMT
    Gaydar saidThe girly, model-walking ones seem to be the sluttiest. They're the ones I avoid when I go out.


    How do you know if you avoid them??
  • BardBear

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    May 25, 2010 12:31 AM GMT
    Ouch. I once encountered a guy who didn't have the same values as I did, so I decided to avoid all men all together.

    Seems a bit extreme. So you saw some sluts.

    Then don't go where the sluts congregate.

    But to cut yourself out of the gay community due to a gross generalization? That seems more self-loathing then anything. If we want the world to see us as people, then we need to see each other as individuals with talents, skills and attritbutes we either like and/or don't like. To make large sweeping statements about the community is to be just as bad about those who discriminate about the gay community.

    Experience in my life has shown me a huge myraid of people from all over the spectrum---if we wish to find them.

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  • tazzari

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    May 25, 2010 12:32 AM GMT
    That's a pretty sweeping statement!

    Of all my gay friends, I don't think any of them could be described as slutty. Seven are in long-time, committed relationships, all but one are professionals, and there's not one I don't trust and respect.

    You must be looking in the wrong places!

    Treat people with some restraint and with respect, and they'll usually do the same for you. A better way to meet good guys might be in some organization that promotes something you enjoy - running? skiing? book club? And I always make it very clear at the start that I am NOT interested in a hook-up, and AM interested in making friends.

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  • mcwclewis

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    May 25, 2010 12:35 AM GMT
    It's probably just the one's you've noticed. Maybe it's where you hang out?


    I promise not everyone is a whore. Unfortunately the whores are often more "visibly" gay... whores generally don't hide their whoredom.

    You just need to look elsewhere, I'm thinking.
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    May 25, 2010 12:37 AM GMT
    Gaydar saidThe girly, model-walking ones seem to be the sluttiest. They're the ones I avoid when I go out.


    You called? :-)


    (Just kidding!)


    "Slut" is such a relative term. There are quality guys out there, it just depends where you're looking. Going to bars and clubs, on average, isn't the best way to meet guys who share your interests. Meeting guys online and actually getting to know them (via one-on-one dates in person) seems to be a better strategy. You can date as many or as few as you'd like. Personally, I believe there's strength in numbers, so go on dates with a bunch of guys. Eventually, you'll meet someone you click with.
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    May 25, 2010 12:39 AM GMT
    Hmm, I think saying MOST gay guys are worn out sluts is a pretty broad generalization. I have friends that have a pretty casual attitude about sex and others that are pretty conservative. Part of it could be where you are meeting these guys. If you go to places where guys typically go to hook up, then you'll probably find guys with a more casual attitude abotu sex. If that isn't what you want, then maybe try a gay social club - or a group that goes on outings like hiking or paddleboarding or that sort of thing.
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    May 25, 2010 12:39 AM GMT
    I'm so disappointed it happened right in front of you. Gays have been ordered time-and-time again to not do that slutty/douchey stuff in front of newbies, but once in awhile they slip. The offending parties have been duly reprimanded, and you should be safe to to enter our gated community unmolested.

    I should inform you that Molesting Hour is 6:00 PM on Thursdays.
  • leojock1985

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    May 25, 2010 12:40 AM GMT
    snowboarder saidI am not a person with a lot of knowledge of this gay world,but after what happened to me yesterday and the douche/slutty move that I had to see right in front of my eyes just didnt really give me any desire to get involved in the gay community.It just feels that most gay guys dont have the same values I have considering sex and they will just have sex with anyone without thinking of any consequences and I cant relate to that.I stopped dating a while ago and dont want to get involved in the gay community.I really dont know how to have the desire to start meeting some guys again...
    Realjock is my only gay thing I see and use to keep in contact with other gays and hoping to gather some stories and advices to cheer me up
    Thanks all =)


    Sorry to break it to you.. but this gay world is filled with sluts and people who will say whatever they think u want to hear just to get in your pants.. they will use you until they get out of you what they want..

    with that being said.. I've been burned many times before.. but I will not let that distract me from my ulimate goal of finding someone who has the same set of morals as myself.. who believes in true monogomy and hell if I exist there has to be at least 1 other person out there like myself..

    Plus you gotta pick through the weeds to find your flower icon_smile.gif.. <>

    keep your head up there buddy don't let the gay world harden you or tarnish who you are.. just takes time finding the right one.. icon_smile.gif
  • barriehomeboy

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    May 25, 2010 12:46 AM GMT
    Some gays become Catholic Priests, and vow to only have sex with altar boys. Some become Buddhist monks and have sex with no-one. (Well who really knows what goes on in those temples.) Some like to buy a farm in the country and raise chickens and crops and not fuck around like a bimbo on methamphetamines. You can't clump us all into the same "gay guys" stereotype, Unless you're a woman of course because that's what they do. Oh, wait, that was a stereotype too. See hiow easy it is?
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    May 25, 2010 12:51 AM GMT
    mickeytopogigio saidI'm so disappointed it happened right in front of you. Gays have been ordered time-and-time again to not do that slutty/douchey stuff in front of newbies, but once in awhile they slip. The offending parties have been duly reprimanded, and you should be safe to to enter our gated community unmolested.

    I should inform you that Molesting Hour is 6:00 PM on Thursdays.

    6 p.m. on Thursdays must be a coast thing, because I was told it coincided with Sonic’s happy hour.
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    May 25, 2010 12:54 AM GMT
    snowboarder saidI am not a person with a lot of knowledge of this gay world,but after what happened to me yesterday and the douche/slutty move that I had to see right in front of my eyes just didnt really give me any desire to get involved in the gay community.It just feels that most gay guys dont have the same values I have considering sex and they will just have sex with anyone without thinking of any consequences and I cant relate to that.I stopped dating a while ago and dont want to get involved in the gay community.I really dont know how to have the desire to start meeting some guys again...
    Realjock is my only gay thing I see and use to keep in contact with other gays and hoping to gather some stories and advices to cheer me up
    Thanks all =)


    right on.. im fortunate enough to have someone similar to me and my values... im a very lucky guy
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    May 25, 2010 12:56 AM GMT
    mickeytopogigio saidI'm so disappointed it happened right in front of you. Gays have been ordered time-and-time again to not do that slutty/douchey stuff in front of newbies, but once in awhile they slip. The offending parties have been duly reprimanded, and you should be safe to to enter our gated community unmolested.

    I should inform you that Molesting Hour is 6:00 PM on Thursdays.


    Sadly, I can empathize with his situation, but there's nothing like a bit of friendly humor to turn that frown upside down. Awesome! icon_lol.gif
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    May 25, 2010 1:02 AM GMT
    It's rather tiresome to always see sex equated with "bad."

    Someone who has a lot of sex is not necessarily a bad person. Perhaps the context of the sexual behavior can be interpreted negatively, but that of course would be specific and situational, beyond the realm of general statements such as "Person S has x number of sexual partners each month and is thus an evil/bad person worthy of condemnation." That's as ridiculous as Preacher B condemning us for being gay.
  • DarkSensation

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    May 25, 2010 1:02 AM GMT


    Because being Gay = Being a Slut
    or being Gay means you're more Susceptible to be a Slut
    or More Fun to be a Slut ( so many Hot Guys out there)
    or you got more Time and Less Responsibilities to be a Slut
    Take your Pick icon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gif
  • JP85257

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    May 25, 2010 1:13 AM GMT
    You say "slut." I say "Well scheduled and Popular."
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    May 25, 2010 1:14 AM GMT
    Let's play the "Most gays guys are all..." game!

    Then we can play the "Most guys from [city or country] are all..." game.

    And the "Most [ethnicity] guys are all..." game!

    And the "Most [age bracket] guys are all..." game!

    And, oh, there's so many more games like this!

    We play these games all the time on RJ, over and over, for years and years, and we never get tired of them.



    Don't forget... before you play, always preface by saying:

    "I don't know much about xxx, but..."

    and finish with:

    "Am I the only person that feels this way?"

    The closing LOL or eyeroll icon is, of course, optional.

    I'm sure you'll find lots of other guys to play with on here!

  • dannyboy1101

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    May 25, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    So how many conquests equals a fresh slut versus a worn out slut? If slut means sleeping with 3 guys in a year, I can see where you're coming from. Otherwise, nay.
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    May 25, 2010 1:26 AM GMT
    Don't hangout in the village all the time (although I shouldn't assume you do). Join a group or club where people like what they do. Remember not all gay people are like that but I think that in this city, it is especially hard.
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    May 25, 2010 1:29 AM GMT
    ... WHO told you I was WORN OUT???!! icon_evil.gif I will CUT her!!
  • calibro

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    May 25, 2010 1:29 AM GMT
    In my experience the people who are quick to call people sluts are the ones who feel left out and toss out the word as a coping mechanism. And newsflash, you can have sex with any guy who wants to and you don't even need to know his first name. If you don't want to, then don't! No one is making you do it because you're gay. So why don't you stop judging others, let people live their lives as they choose, and learn to stop being mad at what happens around you instead of to you.