How to get back at cheaters?

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    May 25, 2010 3:37 PM GMT
    Ya, I am an immature cunt and just found out that my ex (who broke up with my Sunday citing military reasons) had been seeing a man since the last week of April. He left for Hawaii for work May 1st for 3 weeks, got back last Sunday, dumped me and today his current boyfriend called to tell me they are living together. They have seen each other, what like 4 times?

    I was engaged...

    Anywho, I am looking for suggestions on how to get back or if I even should.

    Little fucker proposed and then dumped me.
  • rnch

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    May 25, 2010 3:40 PM GMT
    karma/bad luck/lifeitsownself will "get back" at him for you.

    as for YOU...time to move on!
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    May 25, 2010 3:55 PM GMT
    "Revenge sex" is always comforting in times of emotional crisis. Come here and I'll help you with that. icon_razz.gif

    Other than that, I'd just let it go...probably because I've been jaded enough that something like that wouldn't really bother me much. And partially because revenge can easily backfire and make matters even worse.

    What he did was incredibly stupid. Just don't stoop to his level and do something stupid to get revenge. Well, unless it's something like super-gluing the tip of his cock to his stomach while it's erect. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 25, 2010 3:56 PM GMT
    It is a lot easier to move on when you hear something like that. I just want him to regret the day he did this.

    Seriously we were fucking engaged. He has seen this dude just a handful of times and they moved in.

    Man I hope life hits him hard.
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    May 25, 2010 3:58 PM GMT
    Oh no...so your bf's ex was right after all. Ugh.

    Walk right and completely away from this whole scene Pinny. Block your bf's tel and his new bf's tel from calling you.

    yikes!

    -Doug

  • Kage

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    May 25, 2010 4:01 PM GMT
    He made his choice, it is time that you make your choice.
    Carry on pining for him,exausting yourself through your anger and hate, or carry on living your life, living it to it's fullest.

    If all else fails, a revenge fuck will remove most of the anger you are feeling.
    It does work...trust me.
  • Timbales

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    May 25, 2010 4:06 PM GMT
    if he left anything behind, burn it or donate it to goodwill.
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    May 25, 2010 4:07 PM GMT

    Oh he will regret it later, Pinny. He may very well have this new bf explode like a trick cigar when the NEW bf realizes he's just shacked up with someone who dumps partners for new thrills. Then your bf may try come back to you citing a million reasons why he was a fool and now sees the light. icon_rolleyes.gif

    In the meantime, if that new bf calls back you could always politely mention that this new bf is the third that you're aware of. First the ex that called you, then you, and now the new bf.

    -Doug

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    May 25, 2010 4:29 PM GMT
    Move forward, be successful, and enjoy life. Your ex eventually realizing that you don't need or want him anymore is the best revenge.
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    May 25, 2010 4:35 PM GMT
    Thanks guys.

    I am done then.
  • Nayro

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    May 25, 2010 4:40 PM GMT
    Guess I'm the only one who would contemplate a revenge aswell.... Probably wouldnt act on it, but would torment him in my mind icon_razz.gif
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    May 25, 2010 5:00 PM GMT
    The best revenge is to appear to be ecstatically happy, and ignore him completely. Fake happiness if you must. If there is something he wanted to do, e.g. a trip, that you didn't get to do together, go do it now without him. You might even find that soon you are not faking it any more.
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    May 25, 2010 5:13 PM GMT
    Thank you all for your help and support I appreciate it sincerely.
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    May 25, 2010 5:16 PM GMT
    viveutvivas saidThe best revenge is to appear to be ecstatically happy, and ignore him completely. Fake happiness if you must. If there is something he wanted to do, e.g. a trip, that you didn't get to do together, go do it now without him. You might even find that soon you are not faking it any more.
    I like that idea...harmless yet incredibly effective.
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    May 25, 2010 6:54 PM GMT


    Believe me when I tell you it will hurt him more if you move forward and he is witness to how happy you are w/out him non-devastated by his stupidity!
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    May 25, 2010 6:57 PM GMT
    Living well is the best revenge. icon_lol.gif
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    May 25, 2010 6:57 PM GMT
    PS......

    It took some balls for his current bf to call you and relate anything about their status. Immaturity at it's best. They deserve ea other let them stew and frolic in the shit they made. I can assure you it won't last long
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    May 25, 2010 7:09 PM GMT
    Pinny saidYa, I am an immature cunt and just found out that my ex (who broke up with my Sunday citing military reasons) had been seeing a man since the last week of April. He left for Hawaii for work May 1st for 3 weeks, got back last Sunday, dumped me and today his current boyfriend called to tell me they are living together. They have seen each other, what like 4 times?

    I was engaged...

    Anywho, I am looking for suggestions on how to get back or if I even should.

    Little fucker proposed and then dumped me.


    Why would his current boyfriend call you? I don't get that. Did you know him too?
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    May 25, 2010 7:49 PM GMT
    No his current BF just called this morning. Wanted to know about my realtionship with my ex. I told him "engaged up until two days ago".
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    May 25, 2010 9:18 PM GMT
    Pinny saidNo his current BF just called this morning. Wanted to know about my realtionship with my ex. I told him "engaged up until two days ago".

    how did he seem to receive that nugget of info???
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    May 25, 2010 9:39 PM GMT
    He said he didn't care, they were happy together and living together.
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    May 25, 2010 9:41 PM GMT
    he will care soon enough, they always do....
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    May 26, 2010 2:52 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidhe will care soon enough, they always do....

    I'll let you know when it happens. Degenerates tend to degenerate quickly.
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    May 26, 2010 2:57 AM GMT
    Just act as if you everything is normal, especially if the new BF calls. The best response is indifference. No reaction is always the most irritating for dickheads.

    The new BF will get the same treatment as you eventually, your fiance sounds like a total db, be thankful he's gone.

  • MuscleComeBac...

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    May 26, 2010 3:03 AM GMT
    Pinny, bud, HE is the revenge you're seeking. He'll implode soon enough, and you need do nothing but move forward confident in your own self-worth in the eyes and arms of a REAL man. Just don't look back, the goo of his head exploding won't be pretty. Best to remember him as the ugly fucker he is now, rather than the heartbroken wreck of useless dickless knuckle-dragging pond scum covered in regret.

    Onward.