It seems to be working for you.
Maybe I should elaborate.
I met a guy at gym a few weeks ago and after we have made a lot of eye contact in the showers. A nod, smile and a hi was exchanged.
Things went great.
We met up in the parking lot after gym...it was late and dark in the lot.
We got on quite well, physically, some groping took place, some kissing, he liked my ass and made some comment about me knowing what I want etc.
We exchanged numbers and I was told to get hold of him so we can hook up this weekend. Now he has a wedding...
Have gay men become too repulsed by the idea to have sex for the sake of sex and have reverted to only looking for that Mr. Right as opposed to Mr. Right Now?