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First time giving head

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    QUOTE May 26, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    I've done stuff but I've never actually sucked a dick before. Assuming that will change soon, will it be obvious that it's my first time doing it? Like obvious to the point I have to tell the guy about it before we do it?

    Any tips/experiences?
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    QUOTE May 26, 2010 8:33 PM GMT
    yeah it might be obvious, depends on how you take to it.

    First thing first sweety, TEETH.. keep those suckers outta there.. sure some guys like a bit of toothy action, but keep'em clear for now, guys will generally let you know pretty soon if they want some teeth happening.

    Tongue, work that cock with your tongue, as it deeper, use your tongue to push the cock against the roof of your mouth (depending on how thick he is and how wide set your mouth is, remember TEETH) use the tongue to apply pressure to the shaft, always make sure you run your tongue over the head of his cock, a swirling action is pretty good as is flicking the tip of your tongue against the head.

    Hands, keep a hand around the base of the cock is he's a big boy, it'll help prevent gagging and you might have some trouble with gagging at first, this will control how far into your mouth he can go and if you get his cock wet enough you can also use it to help get him off, using your hand as an extension of your mouth

    Suction, my fav part, personally I'm like an industrial vacuum, or I can be at least, some guys like gentle sucking, others like full on cock pump type stuff happening, you'll know when you've gotten what he likes pretty easily too, but try a few different types and don't be concerned about making noise, sucking cock should be noisy *nods* icon_razz.gif
  • DJ_Lauderdale Posts: 4032
    QUOTE May 26, 2010 9:04 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidyeah it might be obvious, depends on how you take to it.

    First thing first sweety, TEETH.. keep those suckers outta there.. sure some guys like a bit of toothy action, but keep'em clear for now, guys will generally let you know pretty soon if they want some teeth happening.

    Tongue, work that cock with your tongue, as it deeper, use your tongue to push the cock against the roof of your mouth (depending on how thick he is and how wide set your mouth is, remember TEETH) use the tongue to apply pressure to the shaft, always make sure you run your tongue over the head of his cock, a swirling action is pretty good as is flicking the tip of your tongue against the head.

    Hands, keep a hand around the base of the cock is he's a big boy, it'll help prevent gagging and you might have some trouble with gagging at first, this will control how far into your mouth he can go and if you get his cock wet enough you can also use it to help get him off, using your hand as an extension of your mouth

    Suction, my fav part, personally I'm like an industrial vacuum, or I can be at least, some guys like gentle sucking, others like full on cock pump type stuff happening, you'll know when you've gotten what he likes pretty easily too, but try a few different types and don't be concerned about making noise, sucking cock should be noisy *nods* icon_razz.gif




    uh...... oh............. um............ jeez...... is it hot in here? *fanning self*

    erection.jpg


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    QUOTE May 26, 2010 10:28 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidyeah it might be obvious, depends on how you take to it.

    First thing first sweety, TEETH.. keep those suckers outta there.. sure some guys like a bit of toothy action, but keep'em clear for now, guys will generally let you know pretty soon if they want some teeth happening.

    Tongue, work that cock with your tongue, as it deeper, use your tongue to push the cock against the roof of your mouth (depending on how thick he is and how wide set your mouth is, remember TEETH) use the tongue to apply pressure to the shaft, always make sure you run your tongue over the head of his cock, a swirling action is pretty good as is flicking the tip of your tongue against the head.

    Hands, keep a hand around the base of the cock is he's a big boy, it'll help prevent gagging and you might have some trouble with gagging at first, this will control how far into your mouth he can go and if you get his cock wet enough you can also use it to help get him off, using your hand as an extension of your mouth

    Suction, my fav part, personally I'm like an industrial vacuum, or I can be at least, some guys like gentle sucking, others like full on cock pump type stuff happening, you'll know when you've gotten what he likes pretty easily too, but try a few different types and don't be concerned about making noise, sucking cock should be noisy *nods* icon_razz.gif


    haha you sound like a pro hahaha

    what to say just act like you are sucking a loly pop but dont bite it ha and when you put it deep down your thorat hold it in their for a couple of secs let him face fuck you hahaha..
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    QUOTE May 26, 2010 10:53 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Suction, my fav part, personally I'm like an industrial vacuum,
    What's your address? I'm getting the next plane ticket out! icon_lol.gif
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    QUOTE May 27, 2010 12:48 AM GMT
    Listen to what you're top is telling you to do. Attempt to learn and do what he wants. Also, get into it. Let go. Suck! Lick! And, don't be afraid to use your hands on the shaft AND balls. Make your man know you dig him. Make him cum!
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    QUOTE May 27, 2010 12:52 AM GMT
    Suck it like a popsicle. That's all there is to it. Dont tell anybody anything. Just stick it in your mouth and move your head forward and back. ... this isnt rocket surgery ... just a blowjob

    ... good grief! ... how did the species survive!... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    QUOTE May 27, 2010 2:12 AM GMT
    Caslon14000 saidSuck it like a popsicle. That's all there is to it. Dont tell anybody anything. Just stick it in your mouth and move your head forward and back. ... this isnt rocket surgery ... just a blowjob

    ... good grief! ... how did the species survive!... icon_rolleyes.gif



    lmfao your funnyicon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    QUOTE May 27, 2010 5:07 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidListen to what you're top is telling you to do. Attempt to learn and do what he wants. Also, get into it. Let go. Suck! Lick! And, don't be afraid to use your hands on the shaft AND balls. Make your man know you dig him. Make him cum!


    why would you assume the person sucking dick is bottom? selfish and a bad sexual partner much?
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    QUOTE May 27, 2010 3:32 PM GMT
    Learn how to breathe through your nose or do circular breathing (inhale through the nose, exhale out the mouth), it really helps with stamina and it's hot to work a dick for a long time without having to pull it out of your mouth. Even hum and make moaning sounds while sucking which sends vibrations along the dick. I like to do dirty porn moves like keep the dick in my mouth and say something nasty like "fucking give it to me, choke me with that dick" and slap it on my face hehe

    A good tongue action is sweet as. When he's in your mouth, stick your tongue out and run your tongue along the shaft, kinda like how you use a finger to beckon someone to come to you except your tongue is the one that's beckoning and suck while you do it. And use your hand to twist up and down the base of his cock as well, that's a really good combination.

    KEEP YOUR MOUTH MOIST! The wetter the blow job the better I reckon.

    Practice, practice, practice.
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    QUOTE May 27, 2010 3:43 PM GMT
    makingheadway said
    It will be instinctive and you will love it, just relax.


    Not really.

    I've had many more bad blowjobs than good ones. 4 out of every 5 guys can do with some tutoring. At best, only one in ten is phenomenal. icon_smile.gif

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    QUOTE May 27, 2010 3:45 PM GMT
    DjDorchester said

    erection.jpg



    I'm curious, is this a candid picture, as in they were just really "excited" to have won, or was it staged for a gay audience? icon_confused.gif
  • BlackBeltGuy Posts: 2596
    QUOTE May 27, 2010 6:33 PM GMT
    where the hell did that pic come from?
  • DJ_Lauderdale Posts: 4032
    QUOTE May 27, 2010 11:15 PM GMT
    KARATE1974 saidwhere the hell did that pic come from?


    You should have seen the celebration party after. Whew, I was exhausted.

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    QUOTE May 28, 2010 1:39 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidyeah it might be obvious, depends on how you take to it.

    First thing first sweety, TEETH.. keep those suckers outta there.. sure some guys like a bit of toothy action, but keep'em clear for now, guys will generally let you know pretty soon if they want some teeth happening.

    Tongue, work that cock with your tongue, as it deeper, use your tongue to push the cock against the roof of your mouth (depending on how thick he is and how wide set your mouth is, remember TEETH) use the tongue to apply pressure to the shaft, always make sure you run your tongue over the head of his cock, a swirling action is pretty good as is flicking the tip of your tongue against the head.

    Hands, keep a hand around the base of the cock is he's a big boy, it'll help prevent gagging and you might have some trouble with gagging at first, this will control how far into your mouth he can go and if you get his cock wet enough you can also use it to help get him off, using your hand as an extension of your mouth

    Suction, my fav part, personally I'm like an industrial vacuum, or I can be at least, some guys like gentle sucking, others like full on cock pump type stuff happening, you'll know when you've gotten what he likes pretty easily too, but try a few different types and don't be concerned about making noise, sucking cock should be noisy *nods* icon_razz.gif


    ...and your number? ;) Hahahahaha.
  • GQjock Posts: 11647
    QUOTE May 28, 2010 11:03 AM GMT
    First and foremost ...
    Have fun!
    Make believe that it's a big man-pop icon_cool.gif
    Always keep the teeth away
    You don't need to try to down the whole thing
    and change what you're doing
    Suck-lick .... use you hands
    be creative
    Let your partner be your guide ...... his moans and breathing will tell you
    what you're doing right and what you're doing wrong
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    QUOTE May 28, 2010 12:41 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidyeah it might be obvious, depends on how you take to it...

    I was worried about that my first time. I had come out just 3 weeks earlier, and joined a gay local BBS in Seattle (non-Internet, direct dial-up). Tried to hook-up guys from there because I couldn't wait to have my first gay sex, and didn't yet know the Seattle gay scene, but was embarrassed to tell anyone I was a virgin at my age. Fortunately this one guy said he only wanted oral, no anal, so I figured I should be able to handle that and picked him.

    I arrived at his place on my motorcycle more than a little nervous. He brought me inside and we sat on his sofa for a long time making small talk, me not knowing how to get things started. The entire story is kinda funny, but staying on the topic of sucking dick, we finally ended up in a bedroom, where he blew me first.

    He had fantastic technique, as if he read Tanker's post here, which is golden advice the OP should follow. His suction practically turned me inside out, and he hardly bobbed his head, letting his powerful tongue and suction do all the work, and I couldn't feel his teeth at all. He kept it up even as I started to cum, which seemed to go on forever, and it remains to this day the longest and most intense orgasm of my life. Of course, being my first gay sex was a factor, too, but he was also very, very good.

    So now it was my turn, and I had 2 worries: would I freeze at putting my first dick in my mouth, and could I do it well enough that he wouldn't know I was a fraud, and not experienced at all. So I tried to copy what he had done to me, since I figured most men will give oral sex the same way they want to receive it themselves. Plus I added a few likes of my own. And BTW, I took to his dick like it was candy, found out I really crave those lovely things.

    Afterwards he complimented me for a great blowjob, making me just beam with pride. We saw each again over the next few months, becoming fuck-buddies, until he got a job transfer out of the area. I learned a lot about BJs from him, and have tried to keep learning ever since. Practice makes perfect!

    So yeah, it's possible to do well enough that it's not obvious it's your first time, especially if you can arrange to have him blow you first to get some pointers on what he's gonna like for himself. Because when you're sucking a guy it's mainly about him, so pay attention to the clues he gives you, the things he says and the sounds he makes, the way his muscles tense, and the other signals he gives that tell you what he likes and doesn't like.
  • BardBear Posts: 533
    QUOTE May 28, 2010 12:53 PM GMT
    Also, don't forget to enjoy the fact that you're making your man VERY happy!

    ENJOY IT.