Waiting for sex...

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    May 27, 2010 3:36 AM GMT
    I have a general rule when it comes to relationships, I usually wait at least 3 months give or take a few days before having sex. I find that it gives you time in the relationship to build on other interests before having nonstop anal poundage for the next 10 months or so. icon_wink.gif

    I was talking to one of my friends recently and he's been dating this guy for about three months, and they've had NO sexual activity. Like not even a hand job. Which i think that may be a little extreme. But you gotta respect the other guys wishes. My friend is going insane though. icon_neutral.gif

    Does anyone here have sex rules? for those of you that don't do you try and break the rules if you're interested in a guy that does? icon_twisted.gif
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    May 27, 2010 5:50 AM GMT
    I think this is ridiculous. You've got to test drive before you buy.
  • calibro

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    May 27, 2010 6:01 AM GMT
    everyone does, whether it's no barebacking to swallowing...
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    May 27, 2010 6:07 AM GMT
    You gotta have rules. They help say who you are and what you're all about.

    Everyone has rules. Some are more strict about them and some are pretty lenient. No big deal really unless they start inhibiting you.
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    May 27, 2010 6:15 AM GMT
    hell yes im still a virgin and im waiting for the right guy and when he comes we have to go on 90 dates befor i give him my goodies thats my rule and if he doesnt like it fuck you their is more fish in the sea,ughhh im pissed
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    May 27, 2010 6:23 AM GMT
    BELLO saidhell yes im still a virgin and im waiting for the right guy and when he comes we have to go on 90 dates befor i give him my goodies thats my rule and if he doesnt like it fuck you their is more fish in the sea,ughhh im pissed


    90 dates? Oh icon_confused.gif

    Maybe if you count 30 seconds as a date and me hiding behind the sofa for a second and coming out again as the start of the next one.... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 27, 2010 6:26 AM GMT
    Lostboy said
    BELLO saidhell yes im still a virgin and im waiting for the right guy and when he comes we have to go on 90 dates befor i give him my goodies thats my rule and if he doesnt like it fuck you their is more fish in the sea,ughhh im pissed


    90 dates? Oh icon_confused.gif

    Maybe if you count 30 seconds as a date and me hiding behind the sofa for a second and coming out again as the start of the next one.... icon_rolleyes.gif


    lmfao only u can make me smile..nope dinner lol we can still kiss and umm coughs hahaha but no sex until 90 days..trust me its worth the wait hahahahahaha
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    May 27, 2010 6:33 AM GMT
    BELLO said
    Lostboy said
    BELLO saidhell yes im still a virgin and im waiting for the right guy and when he comes we have to go on 90 dates befor i give him my goodies thats my rule and if he doesnt like it fuck you their is more fish in the sea,ughhh im pissed


    90 dates? Oh icon_confused.gif

    Maybe if you count 30 seconds as a date and me hiding behind the sofa for a second and coming out again as the start of the next one.... icon_rolleyes.gif


    lmfao only u can make me smile..nope dinner lol we can still kiss and umm coughs hahaha but no sex until 90 days..trust me its worth the wait hahahahahaha



    Yes trust me it is icon_wink.gif
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    May 27, 2010 6:35 AM GMT
    hehehe you so bad rawrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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    May 27, 2010 6:41 AM GMT
    BELLO saidhehehe you so bad rawrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr






    *grabs ass*

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    May 27, 2010 6:49 AM GMT
    I wouldn't wait 3 months to have sex with someone. Life is far too short to wait so long to find out if someone gonna be any good at sex.

    What are you people? 19th Century Miss Manners.
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    May 27, 2010 6:59 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidI wouldn't wait 3 months to have sex with someone. Life is far too short to wait so long to find out if someone gonna be any good at sex.

    What are you people? 19th Century Miss Manners.


    lmfao good for you fuck him or get fucked on the first date you gotta do what you gotta do.............
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    May 27, 2010 7:06 AM GMT
    I had 'rules' like that too, till I met my hubbie 7 years ago and all of em went out the window. You have to learn to bend, not break in a storm.. I got caught in a 'love storm'

    be reasonable people...it's OK to jump in and let your emotions take ya
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    May 27, 2010 7:23 AM GMT
    U have to be safe out here, don't hook up for meaningless sex, trust ur judgments. No who u r, and just stay tru to u. Eventually the right one will come along.icon_cool.gif
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    May 27, 2010 7:31 AM GMT
    3 month! So what happens if you dated/and liked the guy for 3 months, and when you finally have sex and it turned out to be a flop? Not saying sex is everything in a relationship, but it is quite important ... at least for the first few years in most cases @@
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    May 27, 2010 7:40 AM GMT
    BELLO saidhell yes im still a virgin and im waiting for the right guy and when he comes we have to go on 90 dates befor i give him my goodies thats my rule and if he doesnt like it fuck you their is more fish in the sea,ughhh im pissed

    I bet a trip to PARIS would instantly change your mind...?
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    May 27, 2010 8:13 AM GMT
    Mystic_Man said
    BELLO saidhell yes im still a virgin and im waiting for the right guy and when he comes we have to go on 90 dates befor i give him my goodies thats my rule and if he doesnt like it fuck you their is more fish in the sea,ughhh im pissed

    I bet a trip to PARIS would instantly change your mind...?


    hahahaha if your going with me maybe lololicon_redface.gificon_redface.gif
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    May 27, 2010 8:39 AM GMT
    bah, screw that, I like sex and I'm more then capable of maintaining interest in a guy after having sex with them, unless they have nothing of interest about them, but then, I wouldn't be having sex with them anyway.
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    May 27, 2010 9:03 AM GMT
    I think 2 - 3 weeks works, but each to their own. I feel sex on a first date definitely puts the whole relationship on the backfoot, i.e. you have to work to get out of the 'one night stand' catagory.


    3 months and I'd be asking questions.

  • May 27, 2010 9:04 AM GMT
    I think women are ruining sex for gay men.

    The typical straight woman says: "I have to get to know you first in order to have sex with you."

    But the typical gay man says: "I have to have sex with you in order to get to know you." icon_lol.gif

    There is a lot of truth to that......

    But some gay guys are adopting the women's attitude. Well, to each his own.

  • gallus81

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    May 27, 2010 9:06 AM GMT
    sometimes I find guys more interesting after the act ... ie, once I've had them in their most natural state, I get to see what they're really like. sometimes you get a guy naked and the ego disappears, the bullsh1t stops and a nice guy emerges ... and it also works the other-way-round too.

  • May 27, 2010 9:10 AM GMT
    Yeah, I have a few simple "rules" to avoid the one-night-stand slut/skank syndrome:

    1) No sex on the first date.

    2) No first-time sex without the hope or intent that there will be 2nd, 3rd, and 4th time sex, etc.

    3) First-time sex, at least, MUST be a sleep-over...... no "cum-n-go."


    This simple rules prevent much of the skankiness.

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    May 27, 2010 9:42 AM GMT
    funnyprivateguy saidYeah, I have a few simple "rules" to avoid the one-night-stand slut/skank syndrome:

    1) No sex on the first date.

    2) No first-time sex without the hope or intent that there will be 2nd, 3rd, and 4th time sex, etc.

    3) First-time sex, at least, MUST be a sleep-over...... no "cum-n-go."


    This simple rules prevent much of the skankiness.



    Define skankiness?
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    May 27, 2010 9:43 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidbah, screw that, I like sex and I'm more then capable of maintaining interest in a guy after having sex with them, unless they have nothing of interest about them, but then, I wouldn't be having sex with them anyway.


    Agreed.
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    May 27, 2010 10:12 AM GMT
    Bass_86 said
    lilTanker saidbah, screw that, I like sex and I'm more then capable of maintaining interest in a guy after having sex with them, unless they have nothing of interest about them, but then, I wouldn't be having sex with them anyway.


    Agreed.


    it's exactly why so many gay guy fail in long term relationships, if you build your foundations on sex, it will fall and crumble. because in a long term relationship the good sex doesn't always last forever, reality set in, and thats when you need other foundations to support your relationship. On both my two long term relationships, there was no sex rules at the start of dating, and they both found one interesting, amusing and fun to be with, even before the sex.

    Oh I love making love, fuck sex, you can do that to a watermelon.