Dating an ex-boyfriend ... how bad is the idea?

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    May 28, 2010 6:29 AM GMT
    It seems I might be getting back with my ex who broke up with me about 5 months ago, apparently he is keeping this confidential among his friends since it's not for certain that this is gonna work ... so he is brining supposely a 'company' to his friends party this weekend. Am I wrong to feel a little pissed, or this is a deserving punishment for dating an ex-boyfriend?
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    May 28, 2010 6:50 AM GMT
    Do you want to get back with him? I wouldn't worry so much about keeping a "trial reconciliation" under wraps until you two work things out, but you have to want the reconciliation first. Or at least you have to want to try it again. At the same time, him bringing another date to the party sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Of course, I don't know the details of your relationship or why it ended, but my best advice is to go in with low expectations or don't go in at all.
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    May 28, 2010 11:50 AM GMT
    I just tried to do that and it was the worst mistake of my life...
    every situation is different,but unless you are 100% sure that the guy worked on whatever his flaws were,DONT
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    May 28, 2010 12:31 PM GMT
    If they're an ex...

    They're an ex for a good reason.