Ok What you think of this?

  • brskee76

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    Jun 05, 2010 4:18 PM GMT
    Ok there's this guy I used to work in IT and has left to work in the fitness industry i.e. a personal trainer. Anyway I've tried to keep contact with him (and more so since I knew I was gay as soon as I saw him i.e. he is hot!!) He is now engaged to his girlfriend but after trying to move on I see this on face book:
    Him: Is going to walk the dog
    Me: Is that an emphenism for going to the toilet? Or are you actually going for a walk? :-P
    Him:Worse Bruce:. Worse.... BTW: You've been heading into work later these days. And so businessy dressed as well. Yeah. I see you.
    Me: Damn I thought I was getting away with it. Who knew I was a lazy bastard and didn't want to go to work! :-P

    I actually live close to where he works so this isn't unusual but I still have that "hopeful homo feeling" He was really touchy feely when he worked with me but I don't want to be the "gay lover that breaks up an engagement". What should I take from this?

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    Jun 05, 2010 9:20 PM GMT
    Ya, I dont see anything suggestive in that wall conversation at all...

    As a general rule for everyone: No, a straight guy is probably not into you because he is talking to you. It's called being friendly
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    Jun 06, 2010 12:09 AM GMT
    The straightest straight guys are the ones who are most comfortable around gay guys. Most of the them will flirt all day with you. Iif you misread them as being closeted and make a move, reactions may vary. Do it at your own risk. I'd go for the easier ones personally...life's too short to play hard to get.
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    Jun 06, 2010 12:19 AM GMT
    Not a DAMN thing!

    Let it be what it is. Simple as that.
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    Jun 06, 2010 12:22 AM GMT
    icon_rolleyes.gifSweetheart hes engaged!!! there's lots of other hot guys i promise...